~ Qns: Love or Loved? ~

• StarPuppy

  8 Jun 06, 12:09

  Just wanna see the answers from the ppl and also to take a poll..
  
  Question: Is it better if u were to be loved or u had to love someone?
  
  Meaning: would you choose
  1) someone who loves you and is willing to (almost) do anything for you?
  (you could try to understand and love the person)
  
  2) loving someone which you would do (almost) anything for the person
  (the person might not like you but you would do anything to get the person's heart)
  
  i would like to see some of your views if possible...
  
  ~+Cheers+~
  StarPuppy
• kopiosatu

  8 Jun 06, 12:12

  be loved.
  
  like that i can take my time and work on loving
• chrisbenoit

  8 Jun 06, 12:14

  make love
• Parka

  8 Jun 06, 12:35

  Most people would prefer to be loved, that's from what I gathered from another forum.
  
  But...
  
  
• Devil1976

  8 Jun 06, 13:20

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  Just wanna see the answers from the ppl and also to take a poll..
  
  Question: Is it better if u were to be loved or u had to love someone?
  
  Meaning: would you choose
  1) someone who loves you and is willing to (almost) do anything for you?
  (you could try to understand and love the person)
  
  2) loving someone which you would do (almost) anything for the person
  (the person might not like you but you would do anything to get the person's heart)
  
  i would like to see some of your views if possible...
  
  ~+Cheers+~
  StarPuppy

  1st case.
• pinkygal76

  8 Jun 06, 13:34

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  Just wanna see the answers from the ppl and also to take a poll..
  
  Question: Is it better if u were to be loved or u had to love someone?
  
  Meaning: would you choose
  1) someone who loves you and is willing to (almost) do anything for you?
  (you could try to understand and love the person)
  
  2) loving someone which you would do (almost) anything for the person
  (the person might not like you but you would do anything to get the person's heart)
  
  i would like to see some of your views if possible...
  
  ~+Cheers+~
  StarPuppy

  Hi boi boi....
  
  Of coz...mama, will want somebody to love me
  love and affection can be pei2 yang3 de4 .......
  
  I thought i will never love again (after a tramatizing last relationship)
  ....but I took the chance.......touched by Somebody sincerity and acts of love ....
  
  TODAY Happier than ever, i must say!
• M©+square

  8 Jun 06, 13:36

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  1st case.

  What what what?
• simplified

  8 Jun 06, 13:52

  to love
  and be loved by the only one i love.
  
  i dun ned many r/s to know what i wan in her.
  
  i wnt experience true love even if a ger willinly do anything for mi
  for shes not wat i wan.
  
  even if she may not exist..
  
  i wnt not surrender to loneliness.
  
  everythin is worthwhile ..till the day we met.
  
  am i wrong in my theory?
  i dun tink so.
  
• antoh

  8 Jun 06, 14:08

  both case
• dakkon_blackblade

  8 Jun 06, 14:39

  Of course it's better to be loved.
• browniebaobao

  8 Jun 06, 14:48

  It must be mutual.
  
  Love and be loved.
  
  what do u mean by 'had to love'?
  
  sounds like kena forced to love.
  
• zeny

  8 Jun 06, 15:14

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  Just wanna see the answers from the ppl and also to take a poll..
  
  Question: Is it better if u were to be loved or u had to love someone?
  
  Meaning: would you choose
  1) someone who loves you and is willing to (almost) do anything for you?
  (you could try to understand and love the person)
  
  2) loving someone which you would do (almost) anything for the person
  (the person might not like you but you would do anything to get the person's heart)
  
  i would like to see some of your views if possible...
  
  ~+Cheers+~
  StarPuppy

  I will take the first option.
  but i will treasure the person very much.
  Will not play with the person feelings.
  
• Devil1976

  8 Jun 06, 17:02

  -edited-
• missqi

  8 Jun 06, 17:52

  To love.
• bksianzz

  8 Jun 06, 19:05

  be loved
  
  less work to do
• CannyOng

  8 Jun 06, 19:32

  option 2...
  
  Cos loving someone u truly like and planning things for her is so wonderful. It may or may not works! But the feeling is just fantastic..
• alexkusu

  8 Jun 06, 19:38

  ah..i get it
  
  so tis is what u mean by wind of luck & love blowing away~
• gingerbreadman

  8 Jun 06, 20:07

  To love
• jusgal

  8 Jun 06, 20:10

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  Just wanna see the answers from the ppl and also to take a poll..
  
  Question: Is it better if u were to be loved or u had to love someone?
  
  Meaning: would you choose
  1) someone who loves you and is willing to (almost) do anything for you?
  (you could try to understand and love the person)
  
  2) loving someone which you would do (almost) anything for the person
  (the person might not like you but you would do anything to get the person's heart)
  
  i would like to see some of your views if possible...
  
  ~+Cheers+~
  StarPuppy

  i choose number 2. i rather love the one i love.
  hope one day he will appriecate it & love me in return
• Yunhaier

  8 Jun 06, 22:58

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  Just wanna see the answers from the ppl and also to take a poll..
  
  Question: Is it better if u were to be loved or u had to love someone?
  
  Meaning: would you choose
  1) someone who loves you and is willing to (almost) do anything for you?
  (you could try to understand and love the person)
  
  2) loving someone which you would do (almost) anything for the person
  (the person might not like you but you would do anything to get the person's heart)
  
  i would like to see some of your views if possible...
  
  ~+Cheers+~
  StarPuppy

  To be loved and accept those affection is gawd damn easy and effortless. Anybody could do that, for it also empowers us with advantage in free-will decision.
  
  To Love someone is an art.
  
  It is so abstract that people usually don't know what they are loving about. Eventually, they will come to realise the true meaning of beauty through the act of giving.
  
  P.S: We learn more when we love than being loved.
  
  Cheers
• lonestar86

  9 Jun 06, 02:08

  definitely gonna be option 1..
  simply bÂ’cus (in Chinese then direct translate into English)..
  
  Ai Ren Shi Tong Ku = Loving someone is miserable..
  Bei Ai Shi Xing Fu = Being love by someone is blissful..
  
  Hope it makes sense..
• hpergo

  9 Jun 06, 08:50

  i think to be loved. Love can be cultivated ma.
• a_splash

  9 Jun 06, 08:56

  Originally posted by lonestar86:
  definitely gonna be option 1..
  simply bÂ’cus (in Chinese then direct translate into English)..
  
  Ai Ren Shi Tong Ku = [b]Loving someone is miserable..
  Bei Ai Shi Xing Fu = Being love by someone is blissful..
  
  Hope it makes sense..[/b]

  Bei Ai Shi Xing Fu = Being love by someone is blissful..
  
  bei ai can also be miserable if in the first place u really can't find any feelings of love for that person and that person is unwilling to give up.....can be very tongku de...
  
  bei ai shi xing fu if u love that person a bit, that person loves u more...
• casino_king

  9 Jun 06, 09:43

  This is a stupid question because the whole point of a relationship is having the relationship and not loving or being loved. There might not even be any love involved but people are happy just to be in the relationship.
  
• M©+square

  9 Jun 06, 10:23

  Originally posted by casino_king:

  This is a stupid question because the whole point of a relationship is having the relationship and not loving or being loved. There might not even be any love involved but people are happy just to be in the relationship.
  

  It might be crude. But it makes sense.