just a fren
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dont have any outlet to speak to. So pls bear with my rants.
This hidden liking has been kept a secret except to my close frens. I know they are bothered by their own problems. So i dont wish to burden them with mine.
I know he only sees me as a fren. Im just happy to be arnd his side even though i know we can never be together. When he smiles, i smile. When he frowns, my heart just aches.
His decision is also mine. but somehow...it hurts sometimes.... -
Then walk out of it lor.
Tell urself that u should only be frens, as good as that.
Then u wun feel the heartaches anymore. -
how do you know...?
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its silly.
why waste your time and youth?
there are lots of other guys out there.
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asking me?Originally posted by DrTech:how do you know...?
I've been there, done that. -
browniebaobao...Originally posted by browniebaobao:Then walk out of it lor.
Tell urself that u should only be frens, as good as that.
Then u wun feel the heartaches anymore.
thanks...
walking out n leaving everything behind will be the toughest.
sometimes i place everything down n move on...but at a certain point of time, i start to miss him. haix.
its like going to a shopping mall. U found the thing tat u are looking for. This item possesses everything that u wanted...everything tat u needed.. But hte price is too steep. U cant get it. Everytime u walk pass it, u just can look at it without touching it or holding on to it. And u can only look from a distance.
Perhaps still cant find someone better than him or i havent met a better person. -
sometimes, not getting it will make u treasure it more.Originally posted by babyreyes:browniebaobao...
thanks...
walking out n leaving everything behind will be the toughest.
sometimes i place everything down n move on...but at a certain point of time, i start to miss him. haix.
its like going to a shopping mall. U found the thing tat u are looking for. This item possesses everything that u wanted...everything tat u needed.. But hte price is too steep. U cant get it. Everytime u walk pass it, u just can look at it without touching it or holding on to it. And u can only look from a distance.
Perhaps still cant find someone better than him or i havent met a better person.
Staying a distance away, it will look even more beautiful and desirable. Once u get close to it, or even own it, u will start to see its flaws. -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:sometimes, not getting it will make u treasure it more.
Staying a distance away, it will look even more beautiful and desirable. Once u get close to it, or even own it, u will start to see its flaws.
But so long le..still cant get over...
yea..i treasure him a lot.......appreciate his help..appreciate his kindness..appreciate his understanding..appreciate hte times he lent me an listening ear.
i know his flaws...over time....i dont view them as flaws anymore.....I wont say he is perfect.
i used to wanna be with him..want him to be my bf...those tots...
but these tots already buried n thrown away.
Now i only wish to see him live hte best out of his life. But somehow when i see him feeling stressed or upset over work...my mood somehow affected.
It brings a smile to me when i realise he is smiling.
Walking away step by step. But everything falls back to sq 1 when i see him or talk to him again. I dont deliberately avoid him. Most of hte time i dont initiate conversations.
Time...i nd time...n hte real determination to move on.
thanks for replying to my msg. *hugs* -
If ur profile is real, then we are same age wor. (^O*)Originally posted by babyreyes: But so long le..still cant get over...
yea..i treasure him a lot.......appreciate his help..appreciate his kindness..appreciate his understanding..appreciate hte times he lent me an listening ear.
i know his flaws...over time....i dont view them as flaws anymore.....I wont say he is perfect.
i used to wanna be with him..want him to be my bf...those tots...
but these tots already buried n thrown away.
Now i only wish to see him live hte best out of his life. But somehow when i see him feeling stressed or upset over work...my mood somehow affected.
It brings a smile to me when i realise he is smiling.
Walking away step by step. But everything falls back to sq 1 when i see him or talk to him again. I dont deliberately avoid him. Most of hte time i dont initiate conversations.
Time...i nd time...n hte real determination to move on.
thanks for replying to my msg. *hugs*
I have been thru quite a lot, I see kinship and friendship more important than anything else.
Frens can be forever, but lovers may not.. today happy, sekali tmr split..
I rather choose to keep a fren than to get into a love r/s with him then break up, no contact after all. That's a very sad thing.
Of course, if I feel that we can be compatible, we can try, I will go ahead and try. If he dun seem interested, I will retreat. Take it easy lor. Still frens.
I dun mind giving u my msn if u like to chat with me in private. Just pm me.
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That would probably be that you've not get to know him well enough or you're currently 'blind' to certain aspect of things...Originally posted by babyreyes: But so long le..still cant get over...
yea..i treasure him a lot.......appreciate his help..appreciate his kindness..appreciate his understanding..appreciate hte times he lent me an listening ear.
i know his flaws...over time....i dont view them as flaws anymore.....I wont say he is perfect.
i used to wanna be with him..want him to be my bf...those tots...
but these tots already buried n thrown away.
Now i only wish to see him live hte best out of his life. But somehow when i see him feeling stressed or upset over work...my mood somehow affected.
It brings a smile to me when i realise he is smiling.
Walking away step by step. But everything falls back to sq 1 when i see him or talk to him again. I dont deliberately avoid him. Most of hte time i dont initiate conversations.
Time...i nd time...n hte real determination to move on.
thanks for replying to my msg. *hugs*
In a relationship... Which involved living together... Can often be quite different...
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Another word for it could be 'Acceptance'Originally posted by Devil1976:That would probably be that you've not get to know him well enough or you're currently 'blind' to certain aspect of things...
In a relationship... Which involved living together... Can often be quite different... 
One word, many usage. -
if his emotions can affect you in one way or another, then seek your guts out, and tell him face to face to be his gf lor...or hint him if you're not those super daring like taiwanese gals.
you never know what will happen next ma..
if it's normal frenz, you confirm Gurantee + chop X2 will not feel like that one, it's the feeling of attraction that makes you feel this way..just tell him what you feel about him then let him do the follow up. -
i can tell u. Guys are unable to sense hints from girls etc. If you are reallly SURE that he is the one for you. Approach him directly and ask him. TIL the day u know the answer, u are unable to crawl out of this welll. Only acceptance or rejection. Til they day u make the choice, u will still be living in this moment of misery
All the best!. Iregardless of wad you do. Follow your heart. -
Mmm... More like different channels and levels of 'acceptance'...?Originally posted by M©+square:Another word for it could be 'Acceptance'
One word, many usage. -
bbb, ur acting more n more like that of a male species...i mean ur character...Originally posted by browniebaobao:Then walk out of it lor.
Tell urself that u should only be frens, as good as that.
Then u wun feel the heartaches anymore. -
is not easy for anyone of us to move on.Originally posted by babyreyes: But so long le..still cant get over...
yea..i treasure him a lot.......appreciate his help..appreciate his kindness..appreciate his understanding..appreciate hte times he lent me an listening ear.
i know his flaws...over time....i dont view them as flaws anymore.....I wont say he is perfect.
i used to wanna be with him..want him to be my bf...those tots...
but these tots already buried n thrown away.
Now i only wish to see him live hte best out of his life. But somehow when i see him feeling stressed or upset over work...my mood somehow affected.
It brings a smile to me when i realise he is smiling.
Walking away step by step. But everything falls back to sq 1 when i see him or talk to him again. I dont deliberately avoid him. Most of hte time i dont initiate conversations.
Time...i nd time...n hte real determination to move on.
thanks for replying to my msg. *hugs*
Guess it needs time and another person helps.
you can try to not to call him or see him.
It helps to a certain extend. -
Easy, find a new love..
I am available for you now -
yup.Originally posted by Devil1976:Mmm... More like different channels and levels of 'acceptance'...?
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Originally posted by tiggersgd:bbb, ur acting more n more like that of a male species...i mean ur character...
wahlew~~
im a girl ok?
hen you nv ren wei de nv ren ok?
sometimes in life, we just have to be more sha tuo~
I'm trying to take things easy~ -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:
wahlew~~
im a girl ok?
hen you nv ren wei de nv ren ok?
sometimes in life, we just have to be more sha tuo~
I'm trying to take things easy~ okok..pls continue wif ur sha tuo.
nu ren wei?? u mean BO arh?! wahaahaha okok...joke. -
Let him knows if he is available.
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/me kicks tigger~Originally posted by tiggersgd: okok..pls continue wif ur sha tuo.
nu ren wei?? u mean BO arh?! wahaahaha okok...joke. -
Bu tong peng you... Reminds me of the song.
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Nono, i was asking the threadstarter...Originally posted by browniebaobao:asking me?
I've been there, done that.
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reading this scares me