Ice-skating (Thick and Thin)
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You go ice-skating with your friends and girlfriend 1 day but you've never skated before and she has not skated in a long time. But at the rink, you slowly learn how to skate on your own without a friend's support even though you are still quite unstable and wobbly. She is still holding on to the railings at the sidelines and you offer to support her and bring her out to the open to skate with the rest. But she refuses and reply by saying that she would rather rely on her other friends than me, seeing how unstable I am.
Can this small example translate into your girlfriend not wanting to go through thick and thin with you in life? Does that mean she is not willing to take the risk and share your pain and joy? Does that mean her love for you is not strong enough that she is not willing to place her trust and possibly even her life in your hands?
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One question...
How old are u guys? -
u think too much
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Umm.. She's smart?
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You should have a talk with her...
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You have just made a fallacy neh.
U have never skated before, naturally anyone would not rely on u.
I asked my frens to go cycling with me, they also have the same reaction, "Teach u ar? later we fall together how?"
but that doesnt mean my fren dun trust me or come to me when she has problem. -
Before you want to help others, please learn how to help yourself first. Knowing how incompetent you are yet trying to bring her to the open field, you are leading her to more danger and you are blaming her for not willing to rely on you on such irrelevant situation. Thats show how selfish you are...
How do you expect anyone would rely on you to go through thick and thin... -
+1Originally posted by alexkusu:u think too much
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It falls on both parties.
On your part, you might be thinking too much. But this is not uncalled for as
She has to be more sensitive when talking.
In my opinion, this is not something serious, just have a good talk about it. Don't allow things to snowball and unleash it all at once. -
you think too much... really... and i think u kind of misusing the word "thick and thin"... going through thick and thin should not be described here..
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ai yo.. just ask her to skate with mi lah.. i teach lor ok..
anyway.. sg one no shiok lah.. need to wear glove...hk one dun need.. hehe...last time when with my colleague and her sis.... i got to hold her sis's soft soft hand.. hehe.. she 14 only i think.. si bei cute one.. then that day i went again.. then got hold another 2 gals hand... shiok sia...
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You are too sensitive. Although I may not have a GF, but hey! It's just basic instinct. You can barely skate properly on your own, it's no wonder nobody wants to hold on to you for support. It's like the blind leading the blind...
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hahahaha .... sorry.Originally posted by Lovelorn?:You go ice-skating with your friends and girlfriend 1 day but you've never skated before and she has not skated in a long time. But at the rink, you slowly learn how to skate on your own without a friend's support even though you are still quite unstable and wobbly. She is still holding on to the railings at the sidelines and you offer to support her and bring her out to the open to skate with the rest. But she refuses and reply by saying that she would rather rely on her other friends than me, seeing how unstable I am.
Can this small example translate into your girlfriend not wanting to go through thick and thin with you in life? Does that mean she is not willing to take the risk and share your pain and joy? Does that mean her love for you is not strong enough that she is not willing to place her trust and possibly even her life in your hands?
All comments and opinions are open.
You should be a writer with your ability to imagine something out of nothing. -
Yah, maybe I'm getting too paranoid. But what about this: When you are seriously ill (e.g down with a serious case of food poisoning), you expect her to show you care & concern right? But instead she calls you weak and never bother to reply you unless you reply her again. Then what do you say to this?
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again, you think too much. How does ice skating applies to food poisoning? People react differently to different situations. And besides, most food poisoning cases are self limiting 24-72hours. Unless of cause your pregnant, elderly or immuno-compromised.
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I landed on my butt thrice k? I'm a guy. Does it mean dat i'm a gay?
U think too much.
Cheers.
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Maybe she doesn't like you already? It depends on her tone when she said that too. Is she stuck on this relationship with you? Or Is she unhappy with something about you? Don't bother to press her for an answer cos she won't tell you the truth anyway.Originally posted by Lovelorn?:You go ice-skating with your friends and girlfriend 1 day but you've never skated before and she has not skated in a long time. But at the rink, you slowly learn how to skate on your own without a friend's support even though you are still quite unstable and wobbly. She is still holding on to the railings at the sidelines and you offer to support her and bring her out to the open to skate with the rest. But she refuses and reply by saying that she would rather rely on her other friends than me, seeing how unstable I am.
Can this small example translate into your girlfriend not wanting to go through thick and thin with you in life? Does that mean she is not willing to take the risk and share your pain and joy? Does that mean her love for you is not strong enough that she is not willing to place her trust and possibly even her life in your hands?
All comments and opinions are open.
It could be some decision that you've decided, or something that you haven't do, or some of your true personality that she really cannot stand with. Your gf is clearly unhappy over something, and you need to observe and realise what it is.
What you can do right now is to cheer her up and show her that you still care and love her....after you've successfully cheered her up. Maybe she will tell you her frustrations when she feel that she's closer to you.
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hmmmm, mayb u think a bit far..
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HAHAHAH
It's very tough to be with a woman who despises you.Originally posted by Lovelorn?:Yah, maybe I'm getting too paranoid. But what about this: When you are seriously ill (e.g down with a serious case of food poisoning), you expect her to show you care & concern right? But instead she calls you weak and never bother to reply you unless you reply her again. Then what do you say to this? -
My friend and her gf went skating. both do not knw how to skate. Her gf walk around with him only at the ringside other than that she trust her friend more. Even after half an hour and both of them got the hang of it she will only travel to the open area with him when holding on to her friends hand. But at least my friend more clever than you. He know how to done hai ren hai ji. Only after 1 hr did he suggest to skate out open with her not only that he still make sure that her friends are just an arm length away to help her if anything gets wrond.
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Don't get the part in blue....Originally posted by Lovelorn?:Yah, maybe I'm getting too paranoid. But what about this: When you are seriously ill (e.g down with a serious case of food poisoning), you expect her to show you care & concern right? But instead she calls you weak and never bother to reply you unless you reply her again. Then what do you say to this? -
If she cannot go through thick n thin with you. she wun teach u ice skating alraedy. what for teach you if she can skate with her friends? bro. xiang tai duo liao. You yi ge nu peng you. yao hao hao zhen si
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Get to other sports and activities which u can manage and are quite pro in it..haha
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Yup a small incident can reveal alot about someone's personality & his/her inherent trust towards u...
I can understd ur dismay over reaction.... have a better suggestion, y dun u go & learn how to skate better, and u can then be in a better position to guide her.
A similar incident actually occured to me when i was a teenager 7-8 years ago.... a gal i liked was the reason i decided to learn ice-skating so i could hold her hands. I paid for a month long of beginner class & started my hobby of ice-skating...
Althou i lost contact with her soon after & never got to hold her hands, but i mastered a sport in the process. And this skill will still come in handy as i hope for the day where i can hold the hands of the one i love & skate freely ...
Good luck to u