Female Friends
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For guys , anyone here face the problem of having very close female friends but never able to cross the boundary and proceed further?
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Well, friends are friends.... You're not supposed to proceed furthur... Yes it happens sometimes and when it does you're either setting yourself up for a great relationship or you're just gonna make things more complicated... I have quite a number of female friends and to be honest i probably wanted to do something with them at one point or another but it goes away... Just what happens when you really get to knowe someone. You either realise that that person is either perfect for you or ou just realise their good friends.... Although you can't forget about drunken nights at parties where anything can happen. But if you're really good friends then nothing really bothers you.... But try to keep your potential hook ups on one side and your friends on the other...
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Yes, IÂ’ve encountered similar experience b4..
IÂ’m not able to cross the boundary bÂ’cus sheÂ’s attached and I dun wanna be considered as the 3rd party..
thatÂ’s the reason y we did not process further and merely remains as friends.. -
I have....having one at the moment...it's called Ai Mei (Song by Rainie Yang). Listen to it and you will feel frozen like me....frozen in time...my own time, and I don't know what's my next step.Originally posted by snowbird82:For guys , anyone here face the problem of having very close female friends but never able to cross the boundary and proceed further?
I hate relationships. -
Yeah that is something that I feel as well. The feeling of Ai Mei. Sometimes I also do not understand how come one can have close female friends but never able to find a partner suitable for a long term r/s. Both situations are crap... sad to say
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simple point: If you like a girl. Do not do the 'just friends' method and hope to progress from there. Girls will too much of a shock if u suddenly change direction with her.
If you want, right from the start, show interest more than just friends. You've got to be obvious, so at least it prepares the girl. Once her perception of you has been cemented, that's it. Very hard to change unless due to extenuating environmental factors.
Go read up on the ladder theory about men & women
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Have you really tried your own simple point? Does it really works? More likely you will end up driving away the girl.Originally posted by MetalGear:simple point: If you like a girl. Do not do the 'just friends' method and hope to progress from there. Girls will too much of a shock if u suddenly change direction with her.
If you want, right from the start, show interest more than just friends. You've got to be obvious, so at least it prepares the girl. Once her perception of you has been cemented, that's it. Very hard to change unless due to extenuating environmental factors.
Go read up on the ladder theory about men & women
I don't even know why are you posting all these for...
Really sad to hear this kind of advice. -
its good to be my friend.
no good to be my family.
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Friendship last longer than love.
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Nah, bo liao lar.Originally posted by snowbird82:For guys , anyone here face the problem of having very close female friends but never able to cross the boundary and proceed further?
Even if you had a girlfriend, and you had a closed pretty female friends, you will always thinking about how to flirt and screw her one. -
Originally posted by parn:Have you really tried your own simple point? Does it really works? More likely you will end up driving away the girl.
I don't even know why are you posting all these for...
Really sad to hear this kind of advice. -
Hmm , care to elaborate about the ladder theory? Well you might tend to scare the girl off in the first place, the most important thing is to make her feel comfortable in your presence , not pressurized.. isnt it?Originally posted by MetalGear:simple point: If you like a girl. Do not do the 'just friends' method and hope to progress from there. Girls will too much of a shock if u suddenly change direction with her.
If you want, right from the start, show interest more than just friends. You've got to be obvious, so at least it prepares the girl. Once her perception of you has been cemented, that's it. Very hard to change unless due to extenuating environmental factors.
Go read up on the ladder theory about men & women -
out of topic a bit.. but cant help noticing it.. -
Wah can buy 4-D.
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how to guess??Originally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:Wah can buy 4-D.
maybe can buy 1327
in 13 june.... both(2) has 7 post -
How about, June, number '6'?
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if strike, then hor seh liao lah, i treat everyone eat pizza and p-membership plus i buy a bunglow for every forumite and a lamborghini for everybody..... *prays dun strike*Originally posted by MosPyramid:how to guess??
maybe can buy 1327
in 13 june.... both(2) has 7 post -
Wah youbet so much. You don't buy then will never win so no need to buy us pizza lor.
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Pls people... Do not trun this thread into a betting den... We're still in the middle of something here....?
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Well... That would depends on the girl...?Originally posted by snowbird82:Hmm , care to elaborate about the ladder theory? Well you might tend to scare the girl off in the first place, the most important thing is to make her feel comfortable in your presence , not pressurized.. isnt it?
And you can always not overdo it, but just get the gap closer between the both of ya...? -
This thread is interesting, but the treadstarter dunno going in which direction.
So does he want just normal close friends or does he want to get his hands in their pants? -
If you love the girl don't just treat her as normal friend. She will never knows.
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show her u like her more den a friend lah. den drop a lot of hints, always ask her out and do a lot of nice things for her... blah blah
make her like u -
Must act fast if not she find a boyfriend then you regret.
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I totally agree.Originally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:Friendship last longer than love.