Friends for Restaurants or Friends w/o Restaurants
lchungwe
If you used 2 treat girls at restaurant, suddenly u realise that u had other commitment 2 meet. You reduce in going 2 restaurants to eat and eat at fastfoods and foodcourt, how do they react?
How to girls react when told? Will they treat u as friends or just ignore u ?
I realise that they re not yr true friends when they always expect u 2 go 2 restaurants 2 eat.
True friends are those who go anyway 2 eat even foodcourts and fastfoods.
raingal
I would prefer the cheaper food at fastfood and foodcourt. Can say that they're not your true friends if they start to ignore you.
But you also have to understand some people are used to going restaurants already, they can afford the luxury, not that they despise you or whatever.
As for the girls you mention, who are they related to you? How come you so "generous" treat these girls to restaurants? Not going Dutch? You too rich, is it?
lchungwe
I am not rich.
I want to had a quiet place to chat. Nvr realise that i fear that if i eat at foodcourt or fastfood. I will get despied or gals will ignore me.
those gals are people whom i met in e chatrooms.
if i treat them to a simple one, they will say i cannot afford it or stingy.
maybe i profile myself too high in e first place. sometime i use it to win friends.....
Regards
JacK84
"True" friends won't ask you for a treat every now and then.Think about it.They are either using you if that's the case.And in the first place,why do you 'treat' them everytime?Feels so funny.
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bigdeal
Originally posted by JacK84:
"True" friends won't ask you for a treat every now and then.Think about it.They are either using you if that's the case.And in the first place,why do you 'treat' them everytime?Feels so funny.
ya lor.. agreed!
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raingal
Come to think of it, I thought you just started a new relationship? Then why are you still going out with these girls in the chatroom?
Another way is to ask them to suggest where to eat. They might probably suggest foodcourt, you never know, right?
If it is ok with you, it will be ok if they always expect to go restaurants to eat.
BUT it'll not be ok if they always expect you to foot the bills. Unless you have motives in asking them out eg you're trying to date them etc.
So how are things going on now?
lchungwe
It is one of my past experience that i did that. Now I will not do that..