Not sure

• Mr.Shadows

  16 Jun 06, 00:24

  I have a friend who is a also a friend of my ex - girlfriend.
  
  Now, it's obvious that the friend of mine is sort of having feelings for me. But she doesn't want to confess because she is afraid that she might hurt my ex.
  
  Hmm. I am confused myself too.
• Devil1976

  16 Jun 06, 12:10

  Originally posted by Mr.Shadows:

  I have a friend who is a also a friend of my ex - girlfriend.
  
  Now, it's obvious that the friend of mine is sort of having feelings for me. But she doesn't want to confess because she is afraid that she might hurt my ex.
  
  Hmm. I am confused myself too.

  Understand that it really should be quite a separate issue if possible...?
  
  But if it really bothers her that much... Maybe she can start by having a chat with your ex about her feelings for you...? How close is she to your ex...?
  
  On serious note... How sure you are that she's interested in you...? How do you know and how do you tell...?
• weijian

  18 Jun 06, 03:26

  Originally posted by Mr.Shadows:

  I have a friend who is a also a friend of my ex - girlfriend.
  
  Now, it's obvious that the friend of mine is sort of having feelings for me. But she doesn't want to confess because she is afraid that she might hurt my ex.
  
  Hmm. I am confused myself too.

  if your 100% sure that the friend likes you, then get her to be your gf first, then you and her go explain to her ex (also ur fren)
  
  if he's a good fren of yours, he will understand and congrat u, by doing so, then you will truely have a genuine fren who will stay by your side or maybe support you mentally as friends, instead of backstabbers.