caught in between
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hi guys, i'm attached but recently i got to know this girl frm my wrk place, worked with her for couple of weeks and she has been smsing me such as.. working had caused her to blah blah.. asking me wad am i doing.. often sms-ing me often. i felt she has feelings for me or am i tinking too much ?
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She's probably interested in you, or just trying to flirt....
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Hmmm.... maybe you are thinking too much. I know some girls who tend to be over friendly. But hey, as much as u had typed. this is as much i could tell.
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Just ask her out and see screw her. If she allow you to do so, she is a loose woman just trying to kill her loniness, if you disallow but say not so fast, she like you and is decent type, if she slapped you, hopelessOriginally posted by Doubser:hi guys, i'm attached but recently i got to know this girl frm my wrk place, worked with her for couple of weeks and she has been smsing me such as.. standing too much at working causing her legs to cramped so often.. asking me wad am i doing.. often sms-ing me often. i felt she has feelings for me or am i tinking too much ?
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I think we should have a rule in the forum that whenever such topic arises,
PLEASE POST A PICTURE OF THE GIRL! -
Originally posted by Deportivo:
Lol, with the male one of course, to see if they matching or not.
I think we should have a rule in the forum that whenever such topic arises,
[b]PLEASE POST A PICTURE OF THE GIRL![/b]
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yea. i do hpe im tinkin so much..trying to shorten all my conversation wif her but she juz kept finding topics to talk abt which made me hard to ignore her. well i dun really koe her so well. i treat everyone the same during work.. or did she took it tht im interested in her instead?Originally posted by mhcampboy:Hmmm.... maybe you are thinking too much. I know some girls who tend to be over friendly. But hey, as much as u had typed. this is as much i could tell. -
By posting this thread title 'caught in between', does it mean you have slight interest in her as well? That explains how this question comes about?Originally posted by Doubser:yea. i do hpe im tinkin so much..trying to shorten all my conversation wif her but she juz kept finding topics to talk abt which made me hard to ignore her. well i dun really koe her so well. i treat everyone the same during work.. or did she took it tht im interested in her instead?
I notice, you didn't ask how to let her know you're attached.
But rather, your question is veered towards questioning/confirmation if she likes you or not.
Your mode of question implicates on your motive.
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yeayea. she knew im attached.. but still continues to contact me so often so much tht wont she ask whether my gf will be angry smth lidat.. and yes u're right.. im kind of attracted to her in a sense.. i duno y.. im feeling soOriginally posted by M©+square:By posting this thread title 'caught in between', does it mean you have slight interest in her as well? That explains how this question comes about?
I notice, you didn't ask how to let her know you're attached.
But rather, your question is veered towards questioning/confirmation if she likes you or not.
Your mode of question implicates on your motive.
Cheers
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Normal, your feelings. Anybody will be attracted to people who likes them. It is human nature.Originally posted by Doubser:yeayea. she knew im attached.. but still continues to contact me so often so much tht wont she ask whether my gf will be angry smth lidat.. and yes u're right.. im kind of attracted to her in a sense.. i duno y.. im feeling so
So the question is whether you treasure your relationship with your gf. Because if you fall seriously for this new ger than you you end up hurting somebody. Your life will not be peaceful. You will be troubled.
Since you are already in a relationship, You should stick with it unless the relationship is not working.
You decide. We can only advice you and if you make a mess of it, hahahaha... you come here, we are still here to help you sort it out!
On the other hand, you can just pretend like nothing is happening and just be friends with your colleague. Making sure that you do not date her and communicate with her outside working hours. Well, make a choice now and stick with it for better or worse. -
You are attracted to her because she shows interest in you and somehow it flatter you. But think twice, are you willing to give up your present relationship for her. It is impossible to be double crossing and the consequence is no good. If you don't like her reject her firmly, ignore her sms, please spare a thought for your the other half. She may be upset by your action.
PS. fyi those third parties have a name and that is 'slut'. Maybe she is toying with your feeling. She can chased after you and so do other men. -
yaloh.. there is a difference between real liking and just gian.
keep talking to her abt ur gf.. i'm sure she gets the point eventually. -
Actually you can take a step back and observe her behaviour.
Is she friendly to everyone in the company?
How do everyone think of her in the company?
Is she only friendly towards you?
If the answer is no, unfriendly and yes. probably she is. -
What she's thinking?Originally posted by Doubser:yeayea. she knew im attached.. but still continues to contact me so often so much tht wont she ask whether my gf will be angry smth lidat.. and yes u're right.. im kind of attracted to her in a sense.. i duno y.. im feeling so
What you're thinking?
Which one matters more...
If you think you really can't handle it but wanna remain faithful to your partner, draw a CLEAR CUT LINE... -
The bottom line is, just continue treating her the same way you treat everyone else. And do talk to her about your girlfriend to make it clear to her that you're already happily attached to someone else.
That way, if she does end up becoming obsessive and try to come after you, you can be sure that you weren't leading her on and giving her the wrong signals.
It's normal to feel impressed to have someone chasing after you. Just remember that if you truly love your girlfriend, then it wouldn't do for you to chase this girl as well. -
i know of a fren.. his colleague smsed him stuff like whether he thinks she looks better with nude stockings or netted stockings.. always made excuses to askl him out.. and said there's a surprise for him in his drawer.. and it turned out to be a piece of paper with a 'kiss'.. Wahahahaha kinky!
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best not to be too overconfident of yourself, walk to toilet n take a piss first.... she might be friendly...
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you may have feelings for her, but you may want to clarify and find out by getting to understand yourself more..
do you like your gf more
or do you like ur female fren more
from ur post, i presume its that you like your gf more..
since she is trying to know you better..
you also have to at least understand what she is thinking...
perhaps you can try talking to your gf on this matter, let her know first, don't keep your gf in the dark, it will not help, but make things worse if she finds out through her friends etc..
when you tell your gf bout this, be prepared to see her face turn sour or black, have something there to save the situation if you know the make her smile and trust you even more.. -
Ohhh.....i wouldn't advice that if i'm you.Originally posted by weijian:perhaps you can try talking to your gf on this matter, let her know first, don't keep your gf in the dark, it will not help, but make things worse if she finds out through her friends etc..
when you tell your gf bout this, be prepared to see her face turn sour or black, have something there to save the situation if you know the make her smile and trust you even more..
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why not?Originally posted by M©+square:Ohhh.....i wouldn't advice that if i'm you.
Threadstarter might end up with knotty Question and Answer session.
if you love a gal, you shouldn't hide it from her right??
at least your being trueful..
even if she break up, or angry, next time when she thinks back, she will then know who is really true to her..
those gals who are looking for husbands perhaps know what i mean..
being honest and being true to each other. -
Would you be responsible for any mishaps in His relationship if he is to heed your advice?Originally posted by weijian:why not?
if you love a gal, you shouldn't hide it from her right??
at least your being trueful..
even if she break up, or angry, next time when she thinks back, she will then know who is really true to her..
those gals who are looking for husbands perhaps know what i mean..
being honest and being true to each other. -
i just told her, it turned out alrite. maybe i didnt get to koe this ger well and thus the excitement of getting to koe her mre .. i duno.. 3 yrs wif my gf.. some new things comes along.. explore or ignore ?Originally posted by weijian:you may have feelings for her, but you may want to clarify and find out by getting to understand yourself more..
do you like your gf more
or do you like ur female fren more
from ur post, i presume its that you like your gf more..
since she is trying to know you better..
you also have to at least understand what she is thinking...
perhaps you can try talking to your gf on this matter, let her know first, don't keep your gf in the dark, it will not help, but make things worse if she finds out through her friends etc..
when you tell your gf bout this, be prepared to see her face turn sour or black, have something there to save the situation if you know the make her smile and trust you even more.. -
Are you the one who interested in her?
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You should start waking up your idea before you commit a mistake.Originally posted by Doubser:i just told her, it turned out alrite. maybe i didnt get to koe this ger well and thus the excitement of getting to koe her mre .. i duno.. 3 yrs wif my gf.. some new things comes along.. explore or ignore ? -
Hmm...Originally posted by Doubser:i just told her, it turned out alrite. maybe i didnt get to koe this ger well and thus the excitement of getting to koe her mre .. i duno.. 3 yrs wif my gf.. some new things comes along.. explore or ignore ?