Hey guy need your advise.
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I am asking on behalf of somebody else. Will you married a girl that got illness and maynot be able to give birth? If married, will you stay with her till death to you apart?
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it is meaningless asking such a hypothetical question.
when it really happens one might think differently. -
Love conquers All...
i don mind marrying someone i love who has illnesses. she cant conceive? well...adoption is the only way out.
look on the bright side. at least she do not need to eat those pills that prevent pregnancy or use condom for the guy.
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Dear dragg,
If you can't answer, does'nt mean other can't. -
its all about love...how deep...
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it depends on your friend. does he mind? if he does, then dont marry her, itll only subject them to unhappiness
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thats my answer!!!Originally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:Dear dragg,
If you can't answer, does'nt mean other can't. -
I don't care I am a selfish person, we are in Singapore and 21st century, we must be realistic.
Money comes first, advantage second and love last.
Just look at how many guys/gal betray themselves to marry some rich old faggots when they have someone they really loved.
1st, if she is going to die soon, nah i won't waste money on medical and stuff.
2nd, she can't give birth, no advantage le, don't want.
3rd, once in a while can make love with her, will consider.
So bottom line is no thank you, keep the change.
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I am asking on behalf of the girl, she is worry that her husband will be tired of taking care of her. My the other friend told me no man in the world will be willing to take care of a sick wife. I disageed, from my view, married is all about I takecare of you and vice versa. If one party got problem and the other party just left. Then what is love? I need supporter to prove that my friend view is wrong.
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there is always adoption
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May I know how old are you? If oneday you have stroke and your wife left you. Will you blame her?Originally posted by MosPyramid:I don't care I am a selfish person, we are in Singapore and 21st century, we must be realistic.
Money comes first, advantage second and love last.
Just look at how many guys/gal betray themselves to marry some rich old faggots when they have someone they really loved.
1st, if she is going to die soon, nah i won't waste money on medical and stuff.
2nd, she can't give birth, no advantage le, don't want.
3rd, once in a while can make love with her, will consider.
So bottom line is no thank you, keep the change. -
you said it....WIFE....
That's more than enough.. -
................................................................................................Originally posted by MosPyramid:I don't care I am a selfish person, we are in Singapore and 21st century, we must be realistic.
Money comes first, advantage second and love last.
Just look at how many guys/gal betray themselves to marry some rich old faggots when they have someone they really loved.
1st, if she is going to die soon, nah i won't waste money on medical and stuff.
2nd, she can't give birth, no advantage le, don't want.
3rd, once in a while can make love with her, will consider.
So bottom line is no thank you, keep the change. -
Love is often a variable from person to person.Originally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:I am asking on behalf of the girl, she is worry that her husband will be tired of taking care of her. My the other friend told me no man in the world will be willing to take care of a sick wife. I disageed, from my view, married is all about I takecare of you and vice versa. If one party got problem and the other party just left. Then what is love? I need supporter to prove that my friend view is wrong. -
your simply over the line my frenOriginally posted by MosPyramid:I don't care I am a selfish person, we are in Singapore and 21st century, we must be realistic.
Money comes first, advantage second and love last.
Just look at how many guys/gal betray themselves to marry some rich old faggots when they have someone they really loved.
1st, if she is going to die soon, nah i won't waste money on medical and stuff.
2nd, she can't give birth, no advantage le, don't want.
3rd, once in a while can make love with her, will consider.
So bottom line is no thank you, keep the change.
to you, $$ is all inside your eyes, craved on your forehead..
let me ask you a question : picture yourself being a billionaire BUT
read CAREFULLY AR ..
billionaire at the age of 40, BUT you're bed raidden, (cannot walk to anywhere, not even walk a step, bed-bound in other words)
you have all the nurses, health care workers to look after you, as they are only getting paid to do all this.
you can't eat, need to be feed via liquid food through tubes into your body.
you can't even go to washroom to relieve yourself, your body is attached to a urine bag, where your urine goes into this bag.
365 days, 24 hours 7 days a week, all you can do is to sleep eat (drink food), no frens there to visit you, and you live to a ripe old age of 90-100yrs old. You turn your back against your frenz to take their money to become yours. thus you have no visitors, don't even think of getting babes or hunks to service you, as your parts are taken away from cancer and sex illnesses thus you have to relieve yourself via urine bag..
what will you do if your in this story??
being too materalistic isn't a good thing either..
sometimes, you need to what exactly makes you happy.
think, why some poor families can live happily and in harmony whereas rich silver spoon families fought over their parents heritage when they pass away, which family will you wanna be in??
do you wanna die seeing your children living together in harmony and peace or see your children fighting against one another just for money.
what can you do with money if you have no friends?? -
You can show news reports on husbands caring for their wife despite their illness and it's definitely true. I've read some of it and I will be always thinking that these group of husbands are the rarest or something that won't happen to me anyways
Anyway, talk is cheap. Anyone can say they will still do this and that but when the time comes, can they really persevere through the end? Depending on what kind of illness, they are times when the patient can throw tantrums, medical bills, family objections and the various challenges ahead. -
Yes, money is not the root to all happiness but it is the root to all evil.Originally posted by weijian:your simply over the line my fren
to you, $$ is all inside your eyes, craved on your forehead..
let me ask you a question : picture yourself being a billionaire BUT
read CAREFULLY AR ..
billionaire at the age of 40, BUT you're bed raidden, (cannot walk to anywhere, not even walk a step, bed-bound in other words)
you have all the nurses, health care workers to look after you, as they are only getting paid to do all this.
you can't eat, need to be feed via liquid food through tubes into your body.
you can't even go to washroom to relieve yourself, your body is attached to a urine bag, where your urine goes into this bag.
365 days, 24 hours 7 days a week, all you can do is to sleep eat (drink food), no frens there to visit you, and you live to a ripe old age of 90-100yrs old. You turn your back against your frenz to take their money to become yours. thus you have no visitors, don't even think of getting babes or hunks to service you, as your parts are taken away from cancer and sex illnesses thus you have to relieve yourself via urine bag..
what will you do if your in this story??
being too materalistic isn't a good thing either..
sometimes, you need to what exactly makes you happy.
think, why some poor families can live happily and in harmony whereas rich silver spoon families fought over their parents heritage when they pass away, which family will you wanna be in??
do you wanna die seeing your children living together in harmony and peace or see your children fighting against one another just for money.
what can you do with money if you have no friends?? -
as a girl, i really empathise with her.
she is already so pitiful liao, still treat her like that..
it's not her fault, it's not what she wants also.. why dun she deserve the happiness that other girls enjoy also? -
Yes, I think at this moment she need caring most and the husband should not leave her at this moment. I dont know what others will do but if I fall in love with somebody, I will stick to him through the good and bad times. But if he betray him then that's the end.
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I do
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i used to have a thinking that money is evil until i bought and read adam khoo/s millionaire mindset book..Originally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:Yes, money is not the root to all happiness but it is the root to all evil.
although i have still a long way to go, at least, i have positive thoughts bout the reach.
money isn't the root to all evil.
money is just a tool; when in different hands, it will either do people good and bad, so it varies..
if a person who is kind at heart suddenly have a lot of money, he/she can donate some of it to the charity.
if a person has bad gambling habits, naturally he/she will think money is bad and use this excuse saying money is evil, it's the mindset of the person and the habits that the person has which makes money looks evil.
i don't see people with lots of money doing evil things.
example: govt, they took lots of tax from tax payers, use those money to help a lot of casualties overseas, but didn't really do a lot of help with our very own citizens. In a way, they are also doing their part, but just wanna let SG has a better image in front of others only.
so money isn't good nor evil, its the holder of the money that makes it evil or not.