Shld i say "I Miss You"?
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Well, i do have a close friend. We do confide in each other quite frequent. Recently, he's out of town. And i do haf tt kinda "i-miss-him" kinda feeling. And everytime, i see him online.. feel so much like telling him that. Problem is... i treat him as a good guy friend but i think maybe he has abit of feelings for me.
Will i be misleading him by saying that? I feel uncomfortable keeping it in my heart... but i scared when i say that, our friendship may have a change?
Also, have i unknowlingly fallen for him?
Shld i say that i miss him? -
reminds me of the song "Words of Love Not Yet Spoken"
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u should tell him what you feel. if he mistaken u for liking him, that's his problem.
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just say it la. in a more casual manner maybe.
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how about telling him this
"Hello pal, no time no see wor. Got miss me? I miss you leh! take care man! Friends forever!"
one stone kills two birds -
yes u shld..
no harm trying right?? -
if u dun reali like him, dun say it cos it will reali lead him on.... so bcareful with these keywords... maybe u might be interested in him but whether its true or not is for u to find out yourself... maybe u can try hang out more often n see if the chemistry works anot...
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or maybe the song... "ai4 mei4"...Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:reminds me of the song "Words of Love Not Yet Spoken" -
Just say it. Chances are that he will see you as a friend too. If the guy get mislead, just explain to him.... Then you can rub it in his face afterwards... Remember, the tone is means alot more than the words. It distinguishes real from sarcasm.
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this type of thing also you need advice?
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Girl mah.... don't try to understand.... too complicated....Originally posted by dragg:this type of thing also you need advice? -
the fact that you are asking, means you do have feelings
what kinda feelings? only you can answer that question yourself..
take a few days to think... brute honesty..
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wanna follow-up..Originally posted by lonestar86:yes u shld..
no harm trying right??
Women can also take the initiative right??
ItÂ’s not necessary for men to make the first move..
Btw, nowadays words like “I miss u”, “I love u” etc. have become cliches..
If a gal (i mean any of my female friends) told me that she miss me, IÂ’ll reply her that I miss her too..
Friends can also miss one another right??
Dun worry abt it too much..
Jus say it..
WeÂ’ll support u..
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Just wondering here threadstarter, what's stopping you from giving a relationship to occur a chance? Fear that it would turn out not to be and a great friendship is ruined? In a way, from your post, you may have not say you missed him but your heart seems to have said it already. My say? Tell him you miss him and give the friendship a chance to progress to the next level..
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Just say "I miss u, my fren."
is it so hard to say that 3 words to a fren?
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actually, it depends on the words you type with "i miss you" and the occassion, and timing..
its easy for guys to be misled, if a gal just tell him "i miss you"...
are you sure you have no feelings for him? or are you just afraid to admit it, just in case it is a one way traffic? be true to your own feelings, and i am sure, you will know what you shld do from then on..
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i think u shld say to ease urself at the same time make it clear that as a friend only to him....
but then looking at the replies here saying that since u post it here, u shld hv some feelings. for that i don't know. u are the only who knows.
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You mean you wanna say something which you would not be sure what you're talking aboutOriginally posted by angela-A:Well, i do have a close friend. We do confide in each other quite frequent. Recently, he's out of town. And i do haf tt kinda "i-miss-him" kinda feeling. And everytime, i see him online.. feel so much like telling him that. Problem is... i treat him as a good guy friend but i think maybe he has abit of feelings for me.
Will i be misleading him by saying that? I feel uncomfortable keeping it in my heart... but i scared when i say that, our friendship may have a change?
Also, have i unknowlingly fallen for him?
Shld i say that i miss him?