Wait for me, she says
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She said: Wait for me.
she haven't got over her ex whom she broke up with late last year and told me it won't be fair to me right now.
Does it mean that its over?
Well, i'm 18 and still young. Lots of time to wait. But i don't want to be aeroplaned..... -
it's totally up to u..
we can't make the decision for u right?? -
At least she's telling you the truth and by telling you to wait, she probably has some feelings for you but she wants to make sure that you are not a handiplast for her broken heart.Originally posted by DarkClouds:She said: Wait for me.
she haven't got over her ex whom she broke up with late last year and told me it won't be fair to me right now.
Does it mean that its over?
Well, i'm 18 and still young. Lots of time to wait. But i don't want to be aeroplaned.....
However, that's her stand. But what's your stand? It's still your choice to make. To wait or not to wait. If your feelings for her are deep, be patient and wait. Be there for her. Your determination, patience and sincerity, might just make the waiting shorter...
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Yeah but he's asking for advice...Originally posted by lonestar86:it's totally up to u..
we can't make the decision for u right?? -
ok..Originally posted by dinky1409:Yeah but he's asking for advice...
then wait for her loh..
but u better pray that the wait is worth it.. -
up to u lor.. if u really love her.. and dun mind waiting.. then go ahead, but dun be too hopeful.
Waiting can be very tiring.. if u really want to wait, give urself a limit like 6 mths or a yr etc and dun fall in deeper for her when you are waiting. -
If you really love her,she will be worth the wait.
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Why do you say that?Originally posted by browniebaobao:up to u lor.. if u really love her.. and dun mind waiting.. then go ahead, but dun be too hopeful.
Waiting can be very tiring.. if u really want to wait, give urself a limit like 6 mths or a yr etc and dun fall in deeper for her when you are waiting.
Love knows no boundaries.. Love is blind..
The more you can't reach her, the more your heart tells you that you want her.
You can't control your feelings.
I'd say wait, but don't set a limit. Although you should really weigh love with other things like studies, etc.
A true love is worth waiting for. Sometimes that's the price of love.
Never get your hopes too high thats for one thing.
Love is patient. ....I love her too, and still waiting....... -
if you don't wanna be areoplaned, then tell her this, instead of allowing yourself to forget him, why not give you and i a chance to create a better memory which will help you to slowly forget him as we slowly love each other more and more as the days goes by.Originally posted by DarkClouds:She said: Wait for me.
she haven't got over her ex whom she broke up with late last year and told me it won't be fair to me right now.
Does it mean that its over?
Well, i'm 18 and still young. Lots of time to wait. But i don't want to be aeroplaned.....
phase taken from a taiwanese show, its a nice phase to use.
you can try it -
Originally posted by weijian:if you don't wanna be areoplaned, then tell her this, instead of allowing yourself to forget him, why not give you and i a chance to create a better memory which will help you to slowly forget him as we slowly love each other more and more as the days goes by.
phase taken from a taiwanese show, its a nice phase to use.
you can try it 
Damn those scriptwriters, they're good! -
Now....u like her or she likes you?Originally posted by DarkClouds:She said: Wait for me.
she haven't got over her ex whom she broke up with late last year and told me it won't be fair to me right now.
Does it mean that its over?
Well, i'm 18 and still young. Lots of time to wait. But i don't want to be aeroplaned.....
aeroplaned...
I really wonder what are you looking in her.....For, i can't see the feelings you have for her...rather it's something something else... -
you should definitely dont waste your best years waiting on 1 girl that isnt even 100% sure n devoted to you, continue dating and screwing other girls till u chance on both person love each other
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just go ahead and use the method that i have taken from the show la.
to you, you can feel more secure, and help her tide over her problems too at the same time.
by helping her to have more wonderful memories, you will be only helping her to faster forget her ex, it's hard to forget a person alone, doing it together with another person is faster..
go try the it..it sure will work one, if she decline.
then one more phase:
do you have no confidence in yourself and me that we can't make better memories together??
phase again taken from that very same show
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If that girl is smart, she would reply with something witty, like "where did you get that phrase from? TV?"
Bingo!
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It's hard for us to say. You have to weigh your priorities. What is your priorites now? Is relationship in top three priority list?
If it indeed is, then:
Ask yourself - Are you willing to wait?
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I've waited. but unfortunately i was just a spare tyre. Its up to you though.
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what's AEROPLANED??Originally posted by DarkClouds:She said: Wait for me.
she haven't got over her ex whom she broke up with late last year and told me it won't be fair to me right now.
Does it mean that its over?
Well, i'm 18 and still young. Lots of time to wait. But i don't want to be aeroplaned..... -
pang seh, let go. aeroplane.Originally posted by aiglosicicle:what's AEROPLANED?? -
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I'd give her 3 months
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6 perhaps. I waited for 1 year.Originally posted by choco B:I'd give her 3 months -
Listening to 'Ai Rang Ren Wu Li' by Tao Li Ping.
Meaningful. Seem to suit this thread. -
End up success or failure?Originally posted by Pitot:6 perhaps. I waited for 1 year.
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Hi , I guess what 'weijian' say is correct you have to be with her to let go of the past. But one thing is for sure she cant forget the past , she can put it in a corner of her heart.
Do you think that letting you wait is fair for you ? Do you think in the end you will win her heart ? Dont you think that she will just lock her heart up and dont love anyone ? Or you are just a spare to hang around so she can enjoy all the benefit of being love but no strings attached ? Or you are just a " TOY " to her if she feel happy she pick up and play with it if not happy just dump it aside ?
Yes its good intention for her to tell you that she dont want you to be the replacement . But its really cruel to let you wait even thou she cant promise to be with you . which i guess you will wait . I think it better off she reject you rather then let you wait endlessly . -
My advice: Be Patience.Originally posted by DarkClouds:She said: Wait for me.
she haven't got over her ex whom she broke up with late last year and told me it won't be fair to me right now.
Does it mean that its over?
Well, i'm 18 and still young. Lots of time to wait. But i don't want to be aeroplaned.....
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omg... wat happens if she go back to her ex?