Is it wrong...
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is it wrong to hate the person who ditched u forever?
- like given a certain circumstance or reasons, which u might not be able to handle them emotionally at first, but u'd still refuse to be friends even if the relationship is over.
- even if it's already over for many months, why such hatred for the person who ditch u still exist? is it ever so wrong to be like this? can't friendships ever continue after a break up?
- i mean, turning ur back on that person who once loved u after things get sour is like some sort of a betrayal as well.. although it's been hard on the ditcher as well.
in my opinion, i think that there must be a certain degree of forgiveness. and people should not be so emotional.
don't u think?
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don't cry because it's over
smile because it happened -
Well said.Originally posted by FireIce:don't cry because it's over
smile because it happened
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1. There are no rights or wrongs.Originally posted by Gwangetto:is it wrong to hate the person who ditched u forever?
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in my opinion, i think that there must be a certain degree of forgiveness. and people should not be so emotional.
don't u think?
2. It's never easy to remain as friends after the relationship, especially if there has been a betrayal.
3. You probably still hate because you still care.
4. Don't really get the forth point, hence no comments. -
If you think that hating a person is easier than hate. There is no right or wrong. Whatever it is do what you think is right.
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mock bcos it happened ba. lol..Originally posted by FireIce:don't cry because it's over
smile because it happened
it's not wrong to hate ba.
every r/s is a different story.
a certain extent of forgiveness?
then must see how great is the hurt or damage done liao. -
i no romeo.
i not saint.
so i will hate.
but i not devil oso.
wun be for a lifetime.
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*pads pads*Originally posted by FireIce:don't cry because it's over
smile because it happened
Jia you le... -
there's no wrong or right, just that you are hurting. But do let go and move on and choose be happy
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You hate because even though you have broke up... the thought that the other person is intimate with someone else kills you inside. The more you loved, the more the thoughts kill you.
Eventually it all goes away, the jealously, the hate and the feelings.
Only during some dark lonely and stormy night will it all come rushing back.
When that happens, let the feelings overwhelm you and soak in it... knowing that even if you try to hang on to it, those feelings will disappear with the rising of the sun. So they are precious feelings and soak in them for as long as you can. -
I have that feeling before..it was toturing..
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move on.......
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Getting over the hurt will never be easy...this poem says it all!
It's Going to Be Okay...
Just Hang in There
Just give things a little time.
And in the meantime...
keep believing in yourself;
take the best of care;
try to put things in perspective;
remember what's most important;
don't forget that someone cares;
search for the positive side;
learn the lessons to be learned;
and find your way through to
the inner qualities...
the strength, the smiles,
the wisdom, and the
optimistic outlook
that are such special parts
of you.
It's going to be okay.
I know it will be.
-Poem by Barin Taylor -
dun think too much. Actually there is not right or wrong. It is how u feel and how much hurt is done.
it is ur utimately choice... but i think I will get over it..... Dun waste too much of my time.... I rather be storing happy memory! -
they say we only use 10% of our brain, but i say we only use 10% of our hearts..
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haha.. thanks for the replies.
actually, i'm not hurting to the point whereby i hate my ex. it's the other way round. she hated me, turned her back on me immediately after i broke up with her.
even if it's for that time, yes, i agree it's the hurt that's overwhelming her. but then, one cannot take as long as months to get over us wad rite?
either she's too emotional or too afraid to face the fact forever, to be friends.
one extra friend is better than making an enermy out of a broken relationship rite?
anyway, i'm attached already. but that doesn't means i should stop making friends. -
Originally posted by Gwangetto:haha.. thanks for the replies.
actually, i'm not hurting to the point whereby i hate my ex. it's the other way round. she hated me, turned her back on me immediately after i broke up with her.
even if it's for that time, yes, i agree it's the hurt that's overwhelming her. but then, one cannot take as long as months to get over us wad rite?
either she's too emotional or too afraid to face the fact forever, to be friends.
one extra friend is better than making an enermy out of a broken relationship rite?
anyway, i'm attached already. but that doesn't means i should stop making friends.
u get urself attached so fast after the break up..
of course any girl would get hurt..
cannot blame her for hating u. -
Here's a question for you dude.
Whats right whats wrong ?
To hate someone from a relationship,
being ur ex girl or guy,
is some what of a natural thing.
Maybe its because of promises you've made,
Things you've done,
Things that was a whole once now broken.
The measures of hatred,
Depends on the individual,
On how much he/she put into the relationship,
A Heart or a half.
Whether you regret, or even hate,
feel sad, or cry,
These are just actions that invoke the process moving on.
Where people can see is, once you are hated forever,
meaning :
- you were important to them they lost you.
- You destroyed them
- You did something unforgivable
- Or its just how the other party behaves.
To be forgiving is a hard thing to do,
dealing with the hatred within,
is like facing your own demons.
Knowing yourself truelly is a hard thing to do.
so Rigth or Wrong ?
I would say neither,
cause the right is with you the wrong is with her.
All our life we are saying whats right and wrong,
So lets just say its only the person's experiance and feelings that counts ?
Why does she hate for someone who doesn't love her anymore ?Originally posted by browniebaobao:
u get urself attached so fast after the break up..
of course any girl would get hurt..
cannot blame her for hating u.
Would it be right to hate ?
Why it cannot be blame ?
why not just put it on her own tab,
that she cannot give up,
or was powerless keep the man within her life ? -
You still love him because hate is love the other side of coin. There is no right or wrong. It all depend on what caused the break and how he initial?
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forgive and forget
no point hating tham -
does it make u feel better if someone blames u rather than hate u?Originally posted by Sekundes:Why does she hate for someone who doesn't love her anymore ?
Would it be right to hate ?
Why it cannot be blame ?
why not just put it on her own tab,
that she cannot give up,
or was powerless keep the man within her life ?
is it wrong to hate somebody?
then is the person right to hurt her in the first place?
i think it's irresponsible to say the girl is powerless to keep the man.