Platonic Friendships

• snowbird82

  1 Jul 06, 02:51

  Is it possible of a platonic friendship between guys and girls?
• Ito_^

  1 Jul 06, 02:54

  why not..?
• aRcTiC_sTaR

  1 Jul 06, 03:24

  Ya lor, why not?
• mhcampboy

  1 Jul 06, 03:30

  u mean... right now...all my gal frens are my steady??
• alexkusu

  1 Jul 06, 08:29

  yes
  
  perhaps it helps if there was a lil attraction between but not too much
• alwaysdisturbed

  1 Jul 06, 08:42

  i think there are enough examples around to justify it...
  
  however the person himself/herself is a factor whether it is possible too...
• OasisBlue

  1 Jul 06, 08:53

  ermm why not too?
• missqi

  1 Jul 06, 08:54

  Of course lah.
  Fei hua!
  
• jam on a bread

  1 Jul 06, 09:22

  Yes, it's possible especially if the girl or guy is ugly
• HunterKiller86

  1 Jul 06, 11:08

  Of course its possible. Cause when u come to a pt where u discovered wat type gals u like as a wifey, the reminding ones -
  
  1. who don make e cut
  2. r acceptable within ur circle of friends
  
  will probably be ur platonic friends. Just take my comments as a guide
• dakkon_blackblade

  1 Jul 06, 11:22

  Perhaps, if you keep him/her at arm's length, not any closer....
• starExcaliblur

  1 Jul 06, 11:38

  Originally posted by snowbird82:

  Is it possible of a platonic friendship between guys and girls?

  Possible, as long as both are not attracted to each other.
  Once 1 of them starts developing feelings for the other party, then it may not be possible, especially after confession.
  
  
• snowbird82

  1 Jul 06, 12:15

  Originally posted by starExcaliblur:

  Possible, as long as both are not attracted to each other.
  Once 1 of them starts developing feelings for the other party, then it may not be possible, especially after confession.
  
  

  Haa, some people consider platonic friendships as if you cannot win the girl's heart then she become your friend..though i dont believe in that
• dakkon_blackblade

  1 Jul 06, 17:32

  Originally posted by snowbird82:

  Haa, some people consider platonic friendships as if you cannot win the girl's heart then she become your friend..though i dont believe in that

  I think that's really difficult to attain. You'll be thinking of what could have been all the time.
• udontknowme

  1 Jul 06, 17:38

  of course can lah...
  
  goodness...
  
  imo
• browniebaobao

  1 Jul 06, 17:38

  Yes. I think it's only a matter of how close.
• aiglosicicle

  3 Jul 06, 01:00

  i personally find this quite difficult to achieve. it is close to impossible for a girl and a guy to be really close friends unless they each find something repulsive about each other.
• geodome

  3 Jul 06, 09:23

  oh well..
• dakkon_blackblade

  3 Jul 06, 11:39

  Originally posted by aiglosicicle:

  i personally find this quite difficult to achieve. it is close to impossible for a girl and a guy to be really close friends unless they each find something repulsive about each other.

  Nice paradox, but quite true. I suppose that "something repulsive" is something to do with the physical??? I often find it easier to talk to ugly girls than pretty ones.
• Devil1976

  3 Jul 06, 13:40

  Originally posted by dakkon_blackblade:

  Nice paradox, but quite true. I suppose that "something repulsive" is something to do with the physical??? I often find it easier to talk to ugly girls than pretty ones.

  How about saying it's really the mindset...?
• browniebaobao

  3 Jul 06, 15:21

  Originally posted by dakkon_blackblade:

  Nice paradox, but quite true. I suppose that "something repulsive" is something to do with the physical??? I often find it easier to talk to ugly girls than pretty ones.

  I think it's your inferiority complex?
• newcomer

  3 Jul 06, 17:26

  depends on situation.
• Gwangetto

  3 Jul 06, 17:29

  of cos.. duh..
• Seth35

  3 Jul 06, 17:51

  Wow you also know what is inferiority Complex...Impressive !
• SexyChin

  3 Jul 06, 17:56

  Originally posted by aiglosicicle:

  i personally find this quite difficult to achieve. it is close to impossible for a girl and a guy to be really close friends unless they each find something repulsive about each other.

  Nonsense.
  
  Me very good friends with quite some girls.