Never take someone for granted for you may realise 1 day...

• nevercomingback

  2 Jul 06, 09:12

  "Never take someone for granted for you may one day realise that you've lost a diamond while busy collecting stones."
  
  I left a girl for one who does not love me 3 years ago. Ever since that, my life has been going down a winding road. I've not been able to find someone else ever since that. I'm all alone with nothing to look forward to. I look back and truly regret yet there is nothing much I can do. I've tried to meet up with new people but fate seems to punish me. I really do not wish to be alone anymore. Why is growing up such a depressing thing? Can I go back and undo the MISTAKE that I have made?
• OasisBlue

  2 Jul 06, 09:15

  "Never take someone for granted for you may one day realise that you've lost a diamond while busy collecting stones."
  
  very true...sigh...
• BrUtUs

  2 Jul 06, 09:52

  cherish the next girl u r with... bobian la... whether u left her bcos of beauty or temptations, jz hv to face the decision u made n dun do it again...
• Yunhaier

  2 Jul 06, 14:19

  Originally posted by nevercomingback:

  "Never take someone for granted for you may one day realise that you've lost a diamond while busy collecting stones."
  
  I left a girl for one who does not love me 3 years ago. Ever since that, my life has been going down a winding road. I've not been able to find someone else ever since that. I'm all alone with nothing to look forward to. I look back and truly regret yet there is nothing much I can do. I've tried to meet up with new people but fate seems to punish me. I really do not wish to be alone anymore. Why is growing up such a depressing thing? Can I go back and undo the MISTAKE that I have made?

  Experience > Lessons > Moving on.
  
  You already mentioned it was a mistake - if you disallow yourself to grow and move on, you will be making another mistake.
  
  How many mistakes would you like to make this lifetime?
  
  You decide.
  
  Cheers
• lonestar86

  2 Jul 06, 14:48

  Ya, agree..
  We always dun realize how important someone is to us until weÂ’ve lost her/him..
  Once lost, it can never be recover..
• missqi

  2 Jul 06, 14:50

  you don't miss your water till the well runs dry.
  The lessons life teaches us.
  
  You have nobody to blame but yourself.
  How would you like it if someone did that to you.
• Devil1976

  2 Jul 06, 22:58

  Hmm..
• snowbird82

  2 Jul 06, 23:07

  Originally posted by nevercomingback:

  "Never take someone for granted for you may one day realise that you've lost a diamond while busy collecting stones."
  
  I left a girl for one who does not love me 3 years ago. Ever since that, my life has been going down a winding road. I've not been able to find someone else ever since that. I'm all alone with nothing to look forward to. I look back and truly regret yet there is nothing much I can do. I've tried to meet up with new people but fate seems to punish me. I really do not wish to be alone anymore. Why is growing up such a depressing thing? Can I go back and undo the MISTAKE that I have made?

  Do move on , give yourself an opportunity to know new people by joining some activities or you can decide for yourself if its time you have a religious belief to make your life less empty now.
• Ito_^

  2 Jul 06, 23:11

  Originally posted by nevercomingback:

  "Never take someone for granted for you may one day realise that you've lost a diamond while busy collecting stones."
  
  I left a girl for one who does not love me 3 years ago. Ever since that, my life has been going down a winding road. I've not been able to find someone else ever since that. I'm all alone with nothing to look forward to. I look back and truly regret yet there is nothing much I can do. I've tried to meet up with new people but fate seems to punish me. I really do not wish to be alone anymore. Why is growing up such a depressing thing? Can I go back and undo the MISTAKE that I have made?

  juz wondering.. who is the "diamond" here?
• ^spidee^

  2 Jul 06, 23:12

  
• darknessfall

  2 Jul 06, 23:13

  true..so learn to appreciate when they are around..and not regret when its over..
• lonestar86

  4 Jul 06, 01:30

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  juz wondering.. who is the "diamond" here?

  I think the “diamond” refers to your Mr/Ms Right..
  Correct??
• AshedAnna

  4 Jul 06, 02:46

  Everyone gets taken advantage of. When that person tells u not to think so much even if u know hes taking advantage of u, if u dun listen, he kpkb say u too sensitive. Then he goes ahead and builds barriers when u in return ask a favour. Its like this all over ESP in r/s. Cannot reverse time, if u wanna be an idiot like me and hang on pls dun. One stupid c.o.c.k like me is enough already. Dun join my club.
• M©+square

  4 Jul 06, 02:47

  Originally posted by AshedAnna:

  Everyone gets taken advantage of. When that person tells u not to think so much even if u know hes taking advantage of u, if u dun listen, he kpkb say u too sensitive. Then he goes ahead and builds barriers when u in return ask a favour. Its like this all over ESP in r/s. Cannot reverse time, if u wanna be an idiot like me and hang on pls dun. One stupid c.o.c.k like me is enough already. Dun join my club.

  Still the same?
• M©+square

  4 Jul 06, 03:03

  Originally posted by nevercomingback:

  "Never take someone for granted for you may one day realise that you've lost a diamond while busy collecting stones."
  

  Why have you not realise a diamond is a diamond until it's lost, then you call it a diamond?
  
  __
  
  Story of diamond :
  
  I thought he deserves me. He took me for granted and busy picking other stones. I left.
  Now i found someone whom i truly belong and i know i am treated like a diamond.
  
  __
  
  Story
  
  There's no story at all.
  It's just different perspectives.
  Maybe you're just not meant to have that diamond? (yes, it's quite a self denial way of looking at it.)
  
  But it's effective. Because if you've learnt to embrace this school of thought. You learn how to release, and blessing another person.
  
  OR
  
  You can choose to look at the 'WHAT IFs' and cry over it.
  
  __
  
  Cheers
  
  
• Anti-RuleSS

  4 Jul 06, 03:38

  Originally posted by nevercomingback:
  
  I left a girl for one who does not love me 3 years ago. [/b]

  So she loved you when you left her? If so, then it will be a shame. If not, then i guess it was right for you to left her since she doesn't love you.
• Devil1976

  4 Jul 06, 12:04

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Still the same?

  Anna is a BIG GIRL now
• ptw

  4 Jul 06, 23:29

  It is difficult not to look back but then what can you do. Move on and hope that you can find a new love. Move on. Its nvr too late.
• AshedAnna

  6 Jul 06, 02:20

  HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE. Choose your path and you should have the balls to walk the walk.
• used

  6 Jul 06, 02:28

  
• Magnus

  6 Jul 06, 08:51

  Dun have your sight fixated on the rear view mirror.
  The rear view mirror serves only as an aid, a reminder, a warning.
  
  What's important is the road ahead.
• gerrykoh

  6 Jul 06, 10:36

  Never look back & regret. No point thinking & wishing what might have happened.
  Just move on. I'm sure u will find someone just as good.
  Just be more positive, then u will attract the right type of girl
• *Lord Kang*

  6 Jul 06, 11:03

  Ren dou si fan jian one...All will only learn to regret once that somebody or something is gone forever...