Stress over FYP
-
i can't sleep lately. Feel like getting sleeping pills from doctor. Do u think that they will give and should i ask for it? Any side-effects?
My fyp mate is driving me crazy. She is letting me do all the works while she is working temp job. While im in school taking my GE and doing my fyp. i feel very stress-up now. very... -
come come...i am the best person to advice you...Originally posted by Isis:i can't sleep lately. Feel like getting sleeping pills from doctor. Do u think that they will give and should i ask for it? Any side-effects?
My fyp mate is driving me crazy. She is letting me do all the works while she is working temp job. While im in school taking my GE and doing my fyp. i feel very stress-up now. very...
i oso doing my fyp... when your deadline? -
have to send in by 19 sept. Final draft i think in Oct.
my experiment take 8 days for 1 sample.
1 sample divided into 3 smaller samples : so total take 24 days
i have more than 1 samples leh. i have 8 samples to do.
In addition, my fyp mate do all the easy stuffs while i do all the time consumin stuffs. Somemore sms her 6 times, never reply.
In short, i being bullied. But i hate direct confrontation. -
you have to let her know that you feel she is not doing her job...maybe not directly...but you can use short implies or grumble jokingly how much work you doing..Originally posted by Isis:In addition, my fyp mate do all the easy stuffs while i do all the time consumin stuffs. Somemore sms her 6 times, never reply.
In short, i being bullied. But i hate direct confrontation.
if she ignores all this...try to get her to do some of your work...you have to let her know she shld do that experiment thing oso...
all else fails...thats always the supervisor... -
i think you need to get her down and have a talk with you and the advisor..
-
Yap, u should find the advisor
-
heh i don't wish to make things unpleasant for both of us. My friends urge me to Scold or argue with her. Unfortunately, i don't know. There is a Problem.
So my tactics now is " Ren" but im at my limit now. -
ren oso have to got limit.Originally posted by Isis:heh i don't wish to make things unpleasant for both of us. My friends urge me to Scold or argue with her. Unfortunately, i don't know. There is a Problem.
So my tactics now is " Ren" but im at my limit now.
or u can act lazy and do a very lousy job give her see.
den ur teammate will feel the stress dat her grades actually depend on a "worthless, stupid and clumsy" person like you.
-
Your situation is very real. When you come out to work next time, you can often find similar people in your workplace.
I think you don't have to approach your supervisor at all. Just continue to do your part and get into the good books of your supervisor, SHOW him by presenting results, ask him questions pertaining to the experiments. He will see who is working. You 2 don't share the same grade.
Time wise of course need to confront your fyp mate lah, compliment her on her report skills. Then ask her to help churn out the report as you prepare experimental results. If she doesn't want to, then prepare your own. Keep it a secret until she panick just before the deadline.
Things will work out fine.
-
inform the lecturer incharge ... that so unfairOriginally posted by Isis:i can't sleep lately. Feel like getting sleeping pills from doctor. Do u think that they will give and should i ask for it? Any side-effects?
My fyp mate is driving me crazy. She is letting me do all the works while she is working temp job. While im in school taking my GE and doing my fyp. i feel very stress-up now. very... -
hello, u still got so much time to do.Originally posted by Isis:have to send in by 19 sept. Final draft i think in Oct.
my experiment take 8 days for 1 sample.
1 sample divided into 3 smaller samples : so total take 24 days
i have more than 1 samples leh. i have 8 samples to do.
In addition, my fyp mate do all the easy stuffs while i do all the time consumin stuffs. Somemore sms her 6 times, never reply.
In short, i being bullied. But i hate direct confrontation.
mai stress la.
i still have 6 projects on hand hor..
tmr submit 2, mon submit 1, tue present 1.
and seriously i have not prepared for the mon and tue wan lor..
too many things to do liao, juz had a 2 days roadshow in sch.. it's draining me out liao. -
better not.
it can be addictive.