Is it Possible to Solve a Problem without being bad yourself

• Seth35

  5 Jul 06, 20:33

  Lets say the other party did something bad to you...and wanting to solve the problem...you Did something bad to her...Is there any way , To solve a problem with you turning into her ways...
• Devil1976

  6 Jul 06, 13:10

  Cheem man... Don't even have the slightest idea what you're trying to say...
• M©+square

  6 Jul 06, 13:20

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Cheem man... Don't even have the slightest idea what you're trying to say...

  x 2
  
  from last night, i read four times...then give up.
• Ito_^

  6 Jul 06, 13:24

  got.
  
  unless u think its too humiliating for you, or u are too proud to do it.
• M©+square

  6 Jul 06, 13:34

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  got.
  
  unless u think its too humiliating for you, or u are too proud to do it.

  Eh decode for us leh!
• newcomer

  6 Jul 06, 13:46

  but u already DID something bad to her, so how can u go about not being bad? r u time travelling?
• Ito_^

  6 Jul 06, 13:46

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Eh decode for us leh!

  1 year free premier membership pls.
  
  i oso dunnoe la. maybe he regreted his action, but too proud to apologize.
• NotFromVenus

  6 Jul 06, 13:48

  Please explain , what do you mean by bad ?
  
• M©+square

  6 Jul 06, 13:53

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  1 year free premier membership pls.
  
  i oso dunnoe la. maybe he regreted his action, but too proud to apologize.

  cb
• Bontakun

  7 Jul 06, 15:25

  Oops! My bad my bad!
• Devil1976

  7 Jul 06, 16:58

  Originally posted by Bontakun:

  I am curious about your join in date. You join in at 6th June this year, but you posted at 5th June. Time distortion?

  Err... Posted on 5th July...
• Devil1976

  7 Jul 06, 16:59

  Originally posted by Seth35:

  Lets say the other party did something bad to you...and wanting to solve the problem...you Did something bad to her...Is there any way , To solve a problem with you turning into her ways...

  Would you like to rephrase yourself and clarify things so that we can understand?
• Seth35

  7 Jul 06, 17:06

  What i meant was...Somebody did Wrong to you...But you Were too vindicative...and in retaliation or in rage you did something to her...Is there anyway to solve the problem without using evil itself to solve the problem...
• Bontakun

  7 Jul 06, 17:46

  Originally posted by Seth35:

  What i meant was...Somebody did Wrong to you...But you Were too vindicative...and in retaliation or in rage you did something to her...Is there anyway to solve the problem without using evil itself to solve the problem...

  There are ALWAYS ways to solve problems without using evil. That depends on how you view the situation. Why repay bad with bad? I think TV dramas have all those vendetta stuffs: En En Xiang Bao He Shi Liao. (Should be this words... Muz correct me if I wrong.) It means when will all the "vengeance" ends?
  
  Somebody did you wrong, you repay that person with the same evil intent. That person knows and try to do you wrong again, and you reply in kind. It is a cycle that will not end until one party is willing to forgive and let go. I know it personally, it is tiring and a waste of time.
  
  Be the first to take that step. You already have the intent of not doing further evil. Even if that person is unwilling to accept, at least you know deep inside it is not a good thing to do so and you tried.
• Devil1976

  9 Jul 06, 20:42

  Originally posted by Seth35:

  What i meant was...Somebody did Wrong to you...But you Were too vindicative...and in retaliation or in rage you did something to her...Is there anyway to solve the problem without using evil itself to solve the problem...

  Are you referring to the problem as the trouble that somebody gave to you or the problem AFTER you've taken actions against that person in return...?
  
  So what exactly has that person done 'wrong' to you? And what 'evil' you did in return...?
  
  All that you've been mentioning is just so vague...?
  
  How old are you by the way?