How do you start to build trust in yr partners
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I really have difficulty trusting my the other partners. Although she didnt do anything wrong to me. But the moment she tell me theres guy wan to know her or wad i will go crazy, My parents marriage is bad, i dont wish this happens to me... wad can i do? can somebody enlighten me?
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Originally posted by Turbo13:I really have difficulty trusting my the other partners. Although she didnt do anything wrong to me. But the moment she tell me theres guy wan to know her or wad i will go crazy, My parents marriage is bad, i dont wish this happens to me... wad can i do? can somebody enlighten me?
This is probably one of the main factor why you are like that.
Perhaps you could tell us more about yourself.
I) Past Love experience/s.
II) Reason why your parent's marriage fail (in your opinion).
III) Any notable situation/s in your childhood development.
IV) Your astrological sign.
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past love( my ex like to go clubbing but i dont like this is the reason we broke up.Originally posted by Yunhaier: This is probably one of the main factor why you are like that.
Perhaps you could tell us more about yourself.
I) Past Love experience/s.
II) Reason why your parent's marriage fail (in your opinion).
III) Any notable situation/s in your childhood development.
IV) Your astrological sign.
Cheers
my parents marriage fail, i think both have to be responsible lah as my mum like to play mahjong and neglect my dad, den my dad aslo dunno how to communicate with her and tell her she neglected him. and here come the bitch the 3rd partys. haiz
my parents always quarreling when i was young.
astro sign Leo lor.... -
Originally posted by Turbo13:astro sign Leo lor....
Yunnie will try to help you.
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gd luck bro.. cheer up..
theres always a way. Trust is not gained over 1 night. Its built up thru months and even years
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Does Astrology sign really have that effect?
Btw I Leo too. ^5 -
wah arrow so quicklyOriginally posted by M©+square:
Yunnie will try to help you.
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Leo can be more possessive
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IRONIC...Originally posted by M©+square:
Yunnie will try to help you.
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You're too possessive and control-minded... Understand that you cannot take control over every single thing of her life... She's in a relationship with you... Not in a prison... Attempt to grab the sand harder would only make it sips away faster...Originally posted by Turbo13:I really have difficulty trusting my the other partners. Although she didnt do anything wrong to me. But the moment she tell me theres guy wan to know her or wad i will go crazy, My parents marriage is bad, i dont wish this happens to me... wad can i do? can somebody enlighten me?
This has no direct to do with your parents' broken marraige... STOP DECEIVING YOURSELF... You're just finding EXCUSES for yourself to make the MISTAKES you're making at this point... Your mum and dad's relationship is their relationship... Your relationship is YOURS.... -
That I agree. I do not let my brother touch my stuff toys. Later he destroys it.Originally posted by mistyblue:Leo can be more possessive -
Any links?Originally posted by Yunhaier:IV) Your astrological sign.
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Hi i appreciate wad u had type or said to me. I didnt blame it on my parents.Originally posted by Devil1976:You're too possessive and control-minded... Understand that you cannot take control over every single thing of her life... She's in a relationship with you... Not in a prison... Attempt to grab the sand harder would only make it sips away faster...
This has no direct to do with your parents' broken marraige... STOP DECEIVING YOURSELF... You're just finding EXCUSES for yourself to make the MISTAKES you're making at this point... Your mum and dad's relationship is their relationship... Your relationship is YOURS....
I mean that my parent marriage make me fear that i will have the same ending as them. i dont wish this to happen, ive seen how hurt my mum was when my dad had a mistress. -
/mr fry MC with a bolt of lightning.Originally posted by M©+square:
Yunnie will try to help you.
cheers
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Originally posted by Turbo13:I really have difficulty trusting my the other partners. Although she didnt do anything wrong to me. But the moment she tell me theres guy wan to know her or wad i will go crazy, My parents marriage is bad, i dont wish this happens to me... wad can i do? can somebody enlighten me? You are constantly reinforced with the idea that Love is fleeting and that any moment when the right condition arrived, it will flee from your clutches and that all you have invested will vanish.
You spoke little, but from the few words, they have all reinforced the same ideology that trust is difficult and you are unable to secure yourself.
In the end, the root of problem is within you - because you are unstable, you are unable leave the stranded island and place trust onto the raft that is available.
This insecurity will never go away unless you adopt a more enlightened mindset rather than one that is so narrow, which confine you to think that relationship are evanescent and that it is so ephemeral. You probably want to grasp it and control the movement of your Love.
Ironically, it will abscond from your grip.
Your mistrust and lack of confidence in general relationship revealed a deep seated inferiority complex and trashed esteem - which is so critical to any Leo in the world. You are unable to shine and that Sun (your ruling planet) is waning because of the void of higher understanding and enlightenment.
Your fear is imaginary and that if you allow it to manifest, it will ALWAYS become a self-fulfilling prophesy - which all relationships are fleeting and that trust cannot be put onto an investment with such adverse risk. Then you will perpetually see yourself encumbered with failing relationship, with trust/security issues all your life.
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Originally posted by Bontakun:Does Astrology sign really have that effect?
Btw I Leo too. ^5 It has been long since you were here.
P.S: Leo? Then your birthday is coming!
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u have a history about trust...
maybe u can share it with ur partner and she will assure u with some actions...
who know...
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Muah ha ha ha ha!!!Originally posted by Yunhaier: It has been long since you were here.
P.S: Leo? Then your birthday is coming!
Cheers
I dun expect a kiss from yoo though...
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There're all different ways a relationship might end... Your mum and dad's case is not the only sad way things might end.... There're many others.. And of course, there can be happy ones too...Originally posted by Turbo13:Hi i appreciate wad u had type or said to me. I didnt blame it on my parents.
I mean that my parent marriage make me fear that i will have the same ending as them. i dont wish this to happen, ive seen how hurt my mum was when my dad had a mistress.
Basically, a relationship can have ups or downs... If you're so too worried all the way... It would be really difficult for a relationship to be anywhere near its worth...
I would recommend you to read up Yun's latest post above too.... It'll make lots of sense to you...