work problem
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Hi,
I actually have some problem working with my colleague. We totally cant get along but on the surface it seems that we are working hand in hand. He likes to Sabotage me and always say things indirectly to ruin my image and reputation. I really cant stand him. He always like to pretend to be a good person in front of the men. Although my position is higher than him but there is nothing that i can do to him. He also like to boast and the worst part is his work attitude sucks and he knows how to wayang... Others have the impression is that he is hardworking.
If i had the choice i would rather not work with him. Imagine working with him for another 9 months B4 i ORD. Can anyone help me think of a way to pay him back what he did to me or any sort of ways to tekan him. I also intend to let the men knows that he is lazy. -
Whats your rank, vocation and your job scope....
more info can lead us to understand more what you are going through... -
Platoon sgt for the coy and my vocation is RP and my job scope is to handle the discipline of the guys and etc
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and let the fcuking begin...Originally posted by newbie06:Platoon sgt for the coy and my vocation is RP and my job scope is to handle the discipline of the guys and etc
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army life is different from working life.
just finish the 9 months and get out. it is only a transition. -
Army only mah,just another 9mths deducting leaves.offs about 7 more months ok one lah.
Forgive and forget,no point getting back on him,it good to have one more extra friend than an extra enemy,also think of the reason why he keep badmouth about you,if u really dunno,then it will be best to forget abt it,the more u think ,the more sian u will feel . -
people have eyes and are not stupid.
9 more months to ORD - a goal to look forward
Besides, in real working, there are a lot more of such people. You cannot avoid them. Learn to deal with them and deal with your feeling about them. -
yeah my sentiments exactly. In the working world you'll most likely be encountering more of such pple.Originally posted by mistyblue:people have eyes and are not stupid.
9 more months to ORD - a goal to look forward
Besides, in real working, there are a lot more of such people. You cannot avoid them. Learn to deal with them and deal with your feeling about them.
i am still trying to say things that pple like to hear though i don't feel good about it myself. If you can achieve this, you'd go a long way. -
Understand your pain.
Actually there is no need to pay him back coz I do not think you want to lower your level. Be truthful to yourself and things will turn out better. That person you mention one day will also find out what he did will only harm him in the end. So there is no need to pay. Be yourself. Be the good person that you are and you will know joy.
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Self-confidence and clear of own conscience of what you do
If you have this 2, why worry what he badmouth you? Unless u are also a slacker and he badmouths you things that are true, then u should worry. If you badmouth you things untrue, you are clear of your conscience so F it. Bo chap, this is just army.
If you are confident about what you do is good and stuff, everyone has eyes to see for themselves.
In working life, probably u need to take some action about this. In army, bo chap lo. After ORD, Black list him. haha