Dream or nightmare?

• Agenda

  10 Jul 06, 15:55

  Had a dream which is kinda of stupid, I was with this female friend of mine and we were walking in the mall holding hands I woke up and I was like "WTF?"
  
  Slowly, I developed feelings for her even though we've been friends for about 7 years from pri5.. The development started from the moment I woke up from the dream
  
  She was a nice girl during pri sch days then sec sch she turned abit ah lian but she changed back already..
  
  =_=
  
  Is this just a phase or what?
• rathcycle

  10 Jul 06, 15:56

  You love her, go for it.
• aRcTiC_sTaR

  10 Jul 06, 16:01

  Heh ri jiu shen qing, heard b4?
• rathcycle

  10 Jul 06, 16:04

  Originally posted by aRcTiC_sTaR:

  Heh ri jiu shen qing, heard b4?

  Nope, translation please.
• Devil1976

  10 Jul 06, 17:26

  Originally posted by Agenda:

  Had a dream which is kinda of stupid, I was with this female friend of mine and we were walking in the mall holding hands I woke up and I was like "WTF?"
  
  Slowly, I developed feelings for her even though we've been friends for about 7 years from pri5.. The development started from the moment I woke up from the dream
  
  She was a nice girl during pri sch days then sec sch she turned abit ah lian but she changed back already..
  
  =_=
  
  Is this just a phase or what?

  So you're gonna let a dream decide for you if you've really got feelings for this girl
• M©+square

  10 Jul 06, 17:34

  Originally posted by Agenda:

  Had a dream which is kinda of stupid, I was with this female friend of mine and we were walking in the mall holding hands I woke up and I was like "WTF?"
  
  Slowly, I developed feelings for her even though we've been friends for about 7 years from pri5.. The development started from the moment I woke up from the dream
  
  She was a nice girl during pri sch days then sec sch she turned abit ah lian but she changed back already..
  
  =_=
  
  Is this just a phase or what?

  Many issues in life are 'make believe'.
  
  Is that girl what you really want?
• Sakuraflower

  10 Jul 06, 17:42

  dream can be ur conscious telling u something.....
  
  if u think that she is suitable then go for it..
• Ito_^

  10 Jul 06, 17:48

  Originally posted by Sakuraflower:

  dream can be ur conscious telling u something.....
  
  if u think that she is suitable then go for it..

  x2
  
  so does nightmares actually.
• 798

  10 Jul 06, 17:49

  it stated you should sleep more n post less.
• Quinsy

  10 Jul 06, 17:53

  Infatuation.
• used

  10 Jul 06, 18:33

  yeah.. it might be just infatuation
• dinky1409

  11 Jul 06, 00:56

  Originally posted by Agenda:

  Had a dream which is kinda of stupid, I was with this female friend of mine and we were walking in the mall holding hands I woke up and I was like "WTF?"
  
  Slowly, I developed feelings for her even though we've been friends for about 7 years from pri5.. The development started from the moment I woke up from the dream
  
  She was a nice girl during pri sch days then sec sch she turned abit ah lian but she changed back already..
  
  =_=
  
  Is this just a phase or what?

  I guess all along in your heart deep down you had feelings for her but you didn't think much of it.. The dream is a reflection of your thoughts and your mind. You have feelings for the girl.. Go for her.. Or at least try..
• Gwangetto

  11 Jul 06, 01:04

  If your dream consist of a Girl: -
  
  Depending on the circumstances and other symbols, dreaming of a young girl is generally a positive omen. If you know her, and the other dream symbols support it, this is a portent of new opportunities; if she is a stranger, expect some surprising news. For a woman, a strange girl can represent her youthful side; for a man, she could represent his ideal lover.
• aiglosicicle

  11 Jul 06, 01:25

  this happened to me before... you like her just because of a dream. and dreams arent reliable. get rational and start thinking if you really like her.
• Gwangetto

  11 Jul 06, 01:38

  i used to think that dreams dun make sense and tt dreams are only dreams. but after so many readings i've done, i discovered that dreams are created according to the sub-conscious mind, or the unrevealed part of a person's mind.
  
  the occurance of dreams may be rational and seemingly irrational.
  
  rational reasons:
  - the person was thinking about smth in the day time tt has to do wif the dream he has later when he sleeps.
  - the person's deepest desire or longing was revealed in his dreams.
  - the person's sight and senses or experiences during the day affected his dreams at night.
  - dreams express the state of mind of a person.
  
  seemingly irrational reasons:
  - the person is going through certain phase in his life that needs reminder from his dreams.
  - a divine message shown in his dreams as he sleeps.
  - the vision of what will happen in the future or near future will also appear in his dreams.
  - warning signs in dreams can also be detected by careful interpretations from professionals.
  
  Certain symbols in the dreams might not be what it's assumed to be according to the dreamer when he/she wakes up. only by consulting a professional dream interpretor, only then will he able to find out what the message his dream is trying to tell him/her.
• browniebaobao

  11 Jul 06, 16:27

  till date, i dun rem how many such dreams i had liao.
  
  but i nv take them seriously. The moment I wake up, I will tell myself, that's impossible!
• Pitot

  11 Jul 06, 16:33

  Why cant guys and girls just be friends? One side or the other will develope feelings for the other one. Why?
  
  Is the only way not to love hate?
• browniebaobao

  11 Jul 06, 16:34

  Originally posted by Pitot:

  Why cant guys and girls just be friends? One side or the other will develope feelings for the other one. Why?
  
  Is the only way not to love hate?

  what happened to u?
  
  so agitated.