serious topic: my gf in pain when i insert my finger in her

• ahworm

  13 Jul 06, 23:48

  what's wrong here? i always try to insert my finger after i make her wet. she's willing to let me insert my finger but upon inserting she says it's pain. when i totally insert my finger into her she say buay tahan liao then i must take out my finger....
  
  i need serious help here...
• CoolMyth

  13 Jul 06, 23:48

  Insert where?
• walesa

  13 Jul 06, 23:53

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  Insert where?

  
• ahworm

  13 Jul 06, 23:53

  pls this is a serious topic. i wish to help my gf and myself.
  
  thanks for your kind undersatnding.
• Bontakun

  13 Jul 06, 23:56

  Originally posted by ahworm:

  what's wrong here? i always try to insert my finger after i make her wet. she's willing to let me insert my finger but upon inserting she says it's pain. when i totally insert my finger into her she say buay tahan liao then i must take out my finger....
  
  i need serious help here...

  Maybe its a psychological problem? Perhaps you want to bring her to see a specialist? This has nothing to do with you or your finger, most likely she has some issues. I advice caution. Talk to her first. See if she willing to see a doctor.
• ahworm

  13 Jul 06, 23:59

  thanks bro Bontakun...
  
  i actually thought of bringing her to see doctor. but i hope i can get some advise here and bringing her to see doc hopefully will be the last in the list.
  
  i always ask her to relax herself when i'm doing it. actually very long ago i did insert my finger into her without any problem. she also told me that time she didn't feel any pain. but it's just that once when i successfully insert her.
  
  
• Bontakun

  14 Jul 06, 00:02

  Originally posted by ahworm:

  thanks bro Bontakun...
  
  i actually thought of bringing her to see doctor. but i hope i can get some advise here and bringing her to see doc hopefully will be the last in the list.
  
  i always ask her to relax herself when i'm doing it. actually very long ago i did insert my finger into her without any problem. she also told me that time she didn't feel any pain. but it's just that once when i successfully insert her.
  
  

  Maybe she is not ready? She has some reservations or maybe nervous. Talk to her 1st, dun rush into anything yet. Try to find out what is going on.
  
  ALSO, if you patient enuf, there r ppl here wif advices too, some even got essay long 1s. Do not despair, be patient, and 1 more thing. Love her no matter what.
• R3SsH|n

  14 Jul 06, 00:04

  you know you can't do it when you are....
  
  
  Edward Scissorhand
  
  you got cut finger nail?
• ahworm

  14 Jul 06, 00:05

  thanks once again...
  
  i do love my gf. and i'm not letting her go just because of this. just that i'm worried that we might not have proper sex life after marriage. we did talk abt this and she admitted she has the same concern too.
• ahworm

  14 Jul 06, 00:08

  yes i always cut my fingernails.. i always take extra caution not to hurt her. thats why when she say my finger is hurting her i immediate stop. she also ask me to insert my finger when i'm petting her without letting her know. i tried gently but to no avail also....
• M©+square

  14 Jul 06, 00:26

  Try lubrication. It might be that she's too sensitive, or not lubricated enough.
  Medical checks will come after.
  
  Cheers
• M©+square

  14 Jul 06, 00:33

  Cross Topic Closed