What qualities in a person qualify to be ur fren?

• Gwangetto

  16 Jul 06, 01:04

  erm... for me, it's loyalty..
• NotFromVenus

  16 Jul 06, 01:10

  Honesty & Loyalty
• Bontakun

  16 Jul 06, 01:11

  Originally posted by Gwangetto:

  erm... for me, it's loyalty..

  Time will tell.
• lonestar86

  16 Jul 06, 01:15

  huh??
  still need to know abt their qualities in order to decide whether u wanna befriend them??
• rathcycle

  16 Jul 06, 01:19

  Loyalty too, for example for those got chup 1 should know... you must be loyal to your gang, take this as an example, A joins a gang, Gang members b and c act as SSB go whack the hell out of A to make him say out which gang you from, you say out = you die liao...
• ditzy

  16 Jul 06, 01:21

  Sorry, you can't be my friend, you lack this this and that.
• Rejected

  16 Jul 06, 01:42

  some friends stab you right in the face.
• praetor81

  16 Jul 06, 01:43

  Actually...FANATICAL DEDICATION TO WHATEVER COURSE YOU EMBARK ON
• xShevchenkox

  16 Jul 06, 02:04

  loyal and steady is veri important and must be understanding oso lar...of coz
• Ito_^

  16 Jul 06, 03:45

  royalty.
  
  jk.
• Patrik

  16 Jul 06, 04:16

  As long as he doesnt back stab me,
• walesa

  16 Jul 06, 04:41

  Preferably one who is wealthy - even better if his family name was Gates, Abramovich, Branson, Walton or Mittal...
  
  In all seriousness, trust and understanding.
• R3SsH|n

  16 Jul 06, 06:15

  willing to sacrifice...
• alexkusu

  16 Jul 06, 06:47

  Loyalty, fun & exciting to be with
• OasisBlue

  16 Jul 06, 08:07

  No backstabbers...spread rumors bout me behind my back and wun shun me becuz i m in so called trouble when i doubt it is... actually...most imp is trustworthy =)
• ptw

  16 Jul 06, 10:16

  A good friend... someone who will not hessitate to give u negative comments/criticise your action for your own good, will help u or even brainstirm for solutions and ideas for u. No one can judge a friend whether is he/she trustable, honest etc etc in the beginning. time will tell.
• starExcaliblur

  16 Jul 06, 10:40

  Sometimes, 1st impressions of a person does affect how u feel abt tat person, whether u want to befriend them and know them at a deeper level.
  
  u will only know wat qualities the person has after u befriend them and know them better. Then u decide whether that person will stay as hi-bye friend, chat-chat friend, close friend whom u can talk ur heart out/turn to for help.
  
  For qualities like trustworthy, loyalty, u can't tell at 1st glance, u nid to know the person to determine whether he/she has those qualities.
  
  
• Bontakun

  16 Jul 06, 19:41

  Originally posted by lonestar86:

  huh??
  still need to know abt their qualities in order to decide whether u wanna befriend them??

  x2
  
  I dun understand Y need to see wat qualities den can be frens? Its when become frens den noe wat they are like den choose CLOSE frens mah.
• OasisBlue

  16 Jul 06, 20:06

  Originally posted by Bontakun:

  x2
  
  I dun understand Y need to see wat qualities den can be frens? Its when become frens den noe wat they are like den choose CLOSE frens mah.

  true...but if they r backstabbers...den they betray u den u see their true colours too late liaoz...
• Bontakun

  16 Jul 06, 20:24

  Originally posted by OasisBlue:

  true...but if they r backstabbers...den they betray u den u see their true colours too late liaoz...

  Even if they back stabbers, I will still remain friends with them but I keep away from them 1st... Coz I believe when they keep doing that, they will lose more friends than they want and in the end they will most likely regret and I will be there to help them.
  
  I noe... Machiam I like some "great" person. BUT I am also as human as any of you and I not dat "holy".I have many flaws myself but I juz do not give up on anyone I know, no matter how bad they become and how low they fell. I have a friend who fell far down, I gave him an ultimatum, he either stop being dat aloof and a**hole or else he will "lose" me as a friend. It may take a long time but I have the patience to wait.
• aRcTiC_sTaR

  16 Jul 06, 20:31

  Honesty, sincerity, and loyalty (as in not betraying you).
• OasisBlue

  16 Jul 06, 20:32

  u r a great fren... darn all those in my sch haiz...i did smth wrong...i m responsible enuff to admit yet they all shun me...those dunnoe me also shun me cuz of rumors...wth...sigh...i m "friendless" why cant me a chance to change
• Bontakun

  16 Jul 06, 21:18

  Originally posted by OasisBlue:

  u r a great fren... darn all those in my sch haiz...i did smth wrong...i m responsible enuff to admit yet they all shun me...those dunnoe me also shun me cuz of rumors...wth...sigh...i m "friendless" why cant me a chance to change

  It will take time but as long as you are of good character and acknowledged you did wrong, good things WILL return to you. Perhaps they still need time to learn as you do? Not many people in schooling are of good understanding. It took me a pretty long time to get to there.
• OasisBlue

  16 Jul 06, 21:24

  Originally posted by Bontakun:

  It will take time but as long as you are of good character and acknowledged you did wrong, good things WILL return to you. Perhaps they still need time to learn as you do? Not many people in schooling are of good understanding. It took me a pretty long time to get to there.

  hey thx
• R3SsH|n

  16 Jul 06, 23:38

  Originally posted by OasisBlue:

  u r a great fren... darn all those in my sch haiz...i did smth wrong...i m responsible enuff to admit yet they all shun me...those dunnoe me also shun me cuz of rumors...wth...sigh...i m "friendless" why cant me a chance to change

  you are a female?
  i be your friend...