Trapped in Dilemma, Second Chance?
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It had been 4 months since we last message. After so much I had done for her, she decided to left me and to go with another guy. A guy who might not love her as much as I do.
During the 4 months we didn't speak a word. Life was hard for me at the beginning, but I hanged to it. Not long before I finally became invulnerable and immune to that feeling. I carry on with my life and do what I'm supposed to. I would try to avoid her whenever I can. However, she was in the same class as me, how far could I go? As for her, she went with that guy and somehow totally forgotten about me.
They didn't last for 3 months. The moment I found out they broke off, I was happy, at least that she is single now. Just a few days ago, she smsed me with good night. The sms was short but sweet, I decided to reply. At the first thought, I doubt the message was for another guy. However, the following day I got another similar message but this time the sms goes something like this: "I'm happy to have someone like you, you brought colours to my life."(not the original sms). I know deep inside me I still like her a lot. But the other me tell myself to be careful and not to fall into any of her traps. I'm in a dilemma now, didnt know which ultimatum to choose from.
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spare tire? hello???? -
beware. its not how u feel right now, its how she feel abt u right now. dun be a victim being make use by others.
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looking at ur siggie, i really pittie SGpork.
If u are not ready, then dun lor..
wait till u are ready to accept her as a fren again, then see what u want to do lor.. -
Be friends first bah.. isnt that strange that she onli message u onli after she broke off with that guy? Who knows if u gett together wif her again and she do the same thing to u again? Try to find out more abt her first b4 acting rash..Originally posted by ChairmanJay:It had been 4 months since we last message. After so much I had done for her, she decided to left me and to go with another guy. A guy who might not love her as much as I do.
During the 4 months we didn't speak a word. Life was hard for me at the beginning, but I hanged to it. Not long before I finally became invulnerable and immune to that feeling. I carry on with my life and do what I'm supposed to. I would try to avoid her whenever I can. However, she was in the same class as me, how far could I go? As for her, she went with that guy and somehow totally forgotten about me.
They didn't last for 3 months. The moment I found out they broke off, I was happy, at least that she is single now. Just a few days ago, she smsed me with good night. The sms was short but sweet, I decided to reply. At the first thought, I doubt the message was for another guy. However, the following day I got another similar message but this time the sms goes something like this: "I'm happy to have someone like you, you brought colours to my life."(not the original sms). I know deep inside me I still like her a lot. But the other me tell myself to be careful and not to fall into any of her traps. I'm in a dilemma now, didnt know which ultimatum to choose from. 
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It's your turn to use her. Use her for sex. yum yum
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"And I am sad that my colours have disappeared because of you."
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In case you decide to set yourself on fire again... Read your post in BLUE...Originally posted by ChairmanJay:It had been 4 months since we last message. After so much I had done for her, she decided to left me and to go with another guy. A guy who might not love her as much as I do.
During the 4 months we didn't speak a word. Life was hard for me at the beginning, but I hanged to it. Not long before I finally became invulnerable and immune to that feeling. I carry on with my life and do what I'm supposed to. I would try to avoid her whenever I can. However, she was in the same class as me, how far could I go? As for her, she went with that guy and somehow totally forgotten about me.
They didn't last for 3 months. The moment I found out they broke off, I was happy, at least that she is single now. Just a few days ago, she smsed me with good night. The sms was short but sweet, I decided to reply. At the first thought, I doubt the message was for another guy. However, the following day I got another similar message but this time the sms goes something like this: "I'm happy to have someone like you, you brought colours to my life."(not the original sms). I know deep inside me I still like her a lot. But the other me tell myself to be careful and not to fall into any of her traps. I'm in a dilemma now, didnt know which ultimatum to choose from. -
time to be a man and avoid her.
u can't afford to be hurt again by the same person. or do u? -
Love her unconditionally, dont care if she's playing games or not, as long as i can see her smile everyday.. that's enough.. save the tears for me and give the smile for her...
of course doing those things are against my LAW..
for someone i love the most.. even it costs me my life i'm sure i will..
well like God loves us unconditionally.. even we are sinners, he would die for us.. that is "Kasih yang Sempurna".
your love to her is Perfect.. -
well, i guess you can always be friends.. but take her as your gf again? nono.
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give her another chance lor
if she leave u twice, then its a definite no no -
one bitten, twice shy...Originally posted by Pion:give her another chance lor
if she leave u twice, then its a definite no no
thrice injured, forth dead liao. -
Its your call.
Ask yourself whether you really want to give her a second chance, and risk being hurt again...
No point us saying things like:
"do you really want to woo someone who you have done so many things for, and she ignored you?"
"She dumped you when she was unhappy with you, and got another bf.."
If you have already made up yr mind...~ -
Dun make it easy for her. Test her sincerity.
Those few SMS vs those 3 months of desolation, you decide. -
Good relationships; when you meet the right one, it is so easy it is a no brainer... when it is so hard.... I would rather try for another...
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i tink u and her should stay as friends first, and try to understand if she is really love u or find u as a replacement. I had the same experience yrs back, we brokeup but patch again...and in the end still brokeup due to the same problem tat persist. "Hao ma bu chi huay tou chao" translate to a gd horse never return to feed on the same plain...from wad i can use i was a "stupid horse" back then..
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That means you still got 2 more chances...Originally posted by ChairmanJay:one bitten, twice shy...
thrice injured, forth dead liao. -
If i were u, i will get her back. Make her think that i am still deeply in her again. F*** her n dump her. Ya, sweet revenge.
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in my opinion, she could be using you as just a spare tire. as a friend, maybe you could show her concern not because you wan to get into her good books but to console her, maybe she just need a person to console her. if you really still love her, maybe to prevent you from getting hurt again, sms her or talk on phone frequently to see if whether there is still love between you and her. however whether you want to take the chance or not is still your own choice.
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treat her as friend loh..
if she make sexual advances, u r in for a treat! -
where got ultimatum?Originally posted by ChairmanJay:didnt know which ultimatum to choose from. -
think it is up to you to decide .honestly speaking,it may be because your exgirlfriend and her boyfriend have break up,so is thinking of making up with you.