a question 4 all guyz...
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lets say if u n ur gf both r office workers.... n both of u can meet up every weekdays after work n both sat n sun can spend the whole day 2gether....
but wat if 1 day ur boss wants u 2 b a manager of a newly open shop...
tat means both sat n sun will b burn n ur workin hrs r from openin til closin hrs... eg 10am - 10 pm... n can onli off on weekdays...
my question is will u give up a chance 2 be a manager n earn much more $$$??? or will u continue 2 spend more time wif ur gf???
well today i just give up the chance 2 b 1...
will u do the same as i did???
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no.. i will gladly accept it n try to earn as much $$ as possible for our future.. u cant survive on love alone..
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give up $$
money can always be earn back
also, there are more important things that money -
Me had before, me gave up a chance to work overseas just as to be together with my wife... Me didn't regret my decision till now as me found nothing would be more meaningful than having every moments with your loved one...Originally posted by joker105:lets say if u n ur gf both r office workers.... n both of u can meet up every weekdays after work n both sat n sun can spend the whole day 2gether....
but wat if 1 day ur boss wants u 2 b a manager of a newly open shop...
tat means both sat n sun will b burn n ur workin hrs r from openin til closin hrs... eg 10am - 10 pm... n can onli off on weekdays...
my question is will u give up a chance 2 be a manager n earn much more $$$??? or will u continue 2 spend more time wif ur gf???
well today i just give up the chance 2 b 1...
will u do the same as i did??? 
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Too late to regret now...Originally posted by joker105:lets say if u n ur gf both r office workers.... n both of u can meet up every weekdays after work n both sat n sun can spend the whole day 2gether....
but wat if 1 day ur boss wants u 2 b a manager of a newly open shop...
tat means both sat n sun will b burn n ur workin hrs r from openin til closin hrs... eg 10am - 10 pm... n can onli off on weekdays...
my question is will u give up a chance 2 be a manager n earn much more $$$??? or will u continue 2 spend more time wif ur gf???
well today i just give up the chance 2 b 1...
will u do the same as i did??? 
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i woudl take the opportunity
how long u wan to be office worker? for the rest of yr life? -
your gf should be understanding that career should come first.
did you make the correct choice? -
aiyo..
gf come and go, but opportunities do not always come.. -
for ur case its only a manger post in singapore which can help u earn more money. and ur partner is only ur gf, if she's understanding enough she'll definately encourage u to rab the opportunity.
have u discussed this matter with her previously b4 making the decision? or did u just make the decision urself? if both of u are intending to get married its best that u discussed this over with her 1st. how do u know after being a manager ur weekend cant get to see ur gf liao. my intuitaion tells me u wana spend more time with her cos u scared she go stray. i could be wrong but most guys are like that.
compare ur case to dork3d, i think dork3d made the right choice. overseas is not a small issue here. if i were to be given a chance to go abroad to work, i'll either get my whole family over and stay there with me which i think is selfish, or i'll just give up the chance to go overseas. -
fwah so ti tie to ur gf ar?
next time if break le u will regret leh.. how come sacrifced for her blah blah =x
i think tho 2 are together, but should have their own breathing space and life..
i will encourage him to take up the opportunity.
dun need to meet everyday.. everyday see also will get sick de.
spend quality time together... 2 days cannot, still got 5 days mah.
got chance to get promoted u dun want.. it can also give u a better future together if u are planning to get married mah.. unless u have earned enough la.
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you r silly to give up.
If u two really love each other,meeting up less will not affect the relationship -
depends on ur ambition.... if u n ur gf r ambitious both will work ur heart out for a bright future... i'll take the ambitious route...Originally posted by joker105:lets say if u n ur gf both r office workers.... n both of u can meet up every weekdays after work n both sat n sun can spend the whole day 2gether....
but wat if 1 day ur boss wants u 2 b a manager of a newly open shop...
tat means both sat n sun will b burn n ur workin hrs r from openin til closin hrs... eg 10am - 10 pm... n can onli off on weekdays...
my question is will u give up a chance 2 be a manager n earn much more $$$??? or will u continue 2 spend more time wif ur gf???
well today i just give up the chance 2 b 1...
will u do the same as i did??? -
Put it this way - there should be a time and place for everything in life IMO.Originally posted by joker105:lets say if u n ur gf both r office workers.... n both of u can meet up every weekdays after work n both sat n sun can spend the whole day 2gether....
but wat if 1 day ur boss wants u 2 b a manager of a newly open shop...
tat means both sat n sun will b burn n ur workin hrs r from openin til closin hrs... eg 10am - 10 pm... n can onli off on weekdays...
my question is will u give up a chance 2 be a manager n earn much more $$$??? or will u continue 2 spend more time wif ur gf???
well today i just give up the chance 2 b 1...
will u do the same as i did???
Ultimately, it's how you prioritise things that will determine what is best for you... -
more salary means more money to spend on you both's house, going out, restaurants, holidays, etc.
worry less about bills also will feel more peace with her knowing you can provide for future children education.
you both live together every weekday night still can sleep with her mah. and when you off on weekdays you can go pick her up and bring her out.
wrong decision imo -
if i were the gal, i'd hope my guy wun take up the offer. it sounds very tiring for him loh, such long working hours. it's not just the "less time for me" issue here.
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take the advancement...seriously...i don't think you should look at your gf everyday...
you wont be able to maintain that spark... -
Money makes the WHOLE world go round.. Just surviving on love alone only makes YOUR world go round..
Think.. -
doing the right thing at the wrong time...
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This shows you love yr gf very much,good! Cherish her and never regret the decision. In the past,I earn alot but without a partner,no matter earning how much,u will find it meaningless! Now,I earn less but find a true love and lives a happier man. Cheers!Originally posted by joker105:lets say if u n ur gf both r office workers.... n both of u can meet up every weekdays after work n both sat n sun can spend the whole day 2gether....
but wat if 1 day ur boss wants u 2 b a manager of a newly open shop...
tat means both sat n sun will b burn n ur workin hrs r from openin til closin hrs... eg 10am - 10 pm... n can onli off on weekdays...
my question is will u give up a chance 2 be a manager n earn much more $$$??? or will u continue 2 spend more time wif ur gf???
well today i just give up the chance 2 b 1...
will u do the same as i did???