inferiority complex

• kenshin_himura

  23 Jul 06, 02:46

  does anione has suh prob be4?? i am not sure if i am begining to develop such prob and i quite lost.. have yet told me parents abt it though
• browniebaobao

  23 Jul 06, 02:49

  pls elaborate?
• kenshin_himura

  23 Jul 06, 02:56

  i not entirely sure if i am suffering but tats wat my frenz told me.. its ike i dun dare to look at anione in the eye and somehow i feel as if... i am not sure if its utter lack of confidence or being shy but..sigh
• browniebaobao

  23 Jul 06, 03:07

  
  
  there must be something that makes u and ur frens suspect that u have inferiority complex mah.
  
  hope this helps:
  
  Discover your mind - inferiority complex
• Seth35

  23 Jul 06, 07:34

  Inferior Complex is When those People who...think little of others just to make them feel good about themselves... I rule you Suck Kinda like that the thinking...Basically People who have this are the ones that feel that you are different from them so they treat you inferiorly or they have this thinking in which they think you dont deserve what you have....Main cause of the problem?? Jealousy
• Beckhamagic

  23 Jul 06, 07:58

  Better get over this as soon as possible as it is going to affect ur life in the future...
  
  If you are unable to face yourself then you would not be able to face other in the later stage of your life as you would felt much more inferior...
  
  Better consult a doctor if necessary... wish you well...
• Seth35

  23 Jul 06, 08:02

  I dont think theres a Doctor Needed.... The Main Cause of Inferiority Complex is what others based to you...Not yourself...Cure to the problem : Ignore these kind of people...
• M©+square

  23 Jul 06, 09:51

  Originally posted by kenshin_himura:

  i not entirely sure if i am suffering but tats wat my frenz told me.. its ike i dun dare to look at anione in the eye and somehow i feel as if... i am not sure if its utter lack of confidence or being shy but..sigh

  Let's do a check :
  
  - You don't dare to engage eye contact
  - Lack of confidence
  - Shyness
  
  Do you realise any other traits you have?
  Tell me more.
  
  
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  Seth35: A point to note,
  There are such people who will put others down. It's their own inferiority.
  More sever cases are those who are passive, weak-minded, easily swayed on decisions and opinions, they have problems making a stand as a individual.
  
  Cheers
  
• kenshin_himura

  23 Jul 06, 23:32

  thx for the help guys.... perhaps i shd go see a doc
• M©+square

  23 Jul 06, 23:39

  Originally posted by kenshin_himura:

  thx for the help guys.... perhaps i shd go see a doc

  Ok.
• Cenarious

  23 Jul 06, 23:40

  Have you ever considered the option of suicide?
• Seth35

  24 Jul 06, 00:30

  What a Bastard !
• FORGET-ME-NOT

  24 Jul 06, 10:54

  Poeple will only give you confidence if you are confident. If you don't even trust yourself, who will? Just like a saleman, if he don't even want to promote his sale items, who will buy it?
• Gedanken

  24 Jul 06, 11:14

  As Seth said, the "I rule you suck" approach is indicative of an inferiority complex. Essentially, it is reacting to one's insecurities by behaving in the opposite manner and being obnoxious about other people's weaknesses to mask one's own.
  
  What you've described about yourself is more of a confidence/assertiveness issue, but it's certainly not an inferiority complex.