As long as not married, still will pursue him/her
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usually..when u tell someone tat hte one u like is attached to someone else....they might say tat as long as not married..still got chance......
will u hold back to moral values or ignore all to pursue wat u have in ur heart?
1a)Will u still pursue someone attached but not married and ur reasons?
1b) Why would u pursue him or her?
OR
2a)Will u just give up?
2b)Do u think its wrong to pursue someone attached and become a 3rd party. -
1a) i wun cos it will might affect the person view's of u n its not gd to breakup someone's relationship it, unless theres confirmation tat she has a bully shitty bf then u can go by all means...Originally posted by babyreyes:usually..when u tell someone tat hte one u like is attached to someone else....they might say tat as long as not married..still got chance......
will u hold back to moral values or ignore all to pursue wat u have in ur heart?
1a)Will u still pursue someone attached but not married and ur reasons?
1b) Why would u pursue him or her?
OR
2a)Will u just give up?
2b)Do u think its wrong to pursue someone attached and become a 3rd party.
1b) no i wun, theres many grass around so no point place ur bets on tat one...
2a) if she is happily in relationship then let her be... while u go for better ones... even if u keep persist, she might think u r a loser n crazy...
2b) as above, if she is happily better dun be 3rd party... if she needs out of course stick by her be her best fren n wait till she make her mind to leave the guy...
end, theres many suitable person around so no need so spent ur life jz on him/her... jz keep ur options open...
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married i also dun care nowadays lor.. but i wont force her.. if she decide to leave her husband or bf one day.. then good lor.. if not.. also no choice lor.. i just love her not love to marry her...
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Attached or married = untouchables.
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If she/he can leave her/his current gf/bf for you... make sure you are ready she could leave YOU for someone else. Don't wet ya pants till then.
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Only if she's as willing...?Originally posted by babyreyes:usually..when u tell someone tat hte one u like is attached to someone else....they might say tat as long as not married..still got chance......
will u hold back to moral values or ignore all to pursue wat u have in ur heart?
1a)Will u still pursue someone attached but not married and ur reasons?
1b) Why would u pursue him or her?
OR
2a)Will u just give up?
2b)Do u think its wrong to pursue someone attached and become a 3rd party. -
2a)Will u just give up?
2b)Do u think its wrong to pursue someone attached and become a 3rd party.
2a) Yes. Definitely.
2b) Yeap~ Definitely will not go for a gal that is already attached.
Cos:
1) Wad goes around, comes around. Who knows if she'll leave u for another guy?
2) Being labelled the 3rd party isn't a nice thing.
3) People WILL despise u.
Cheers.
C.K -
i despise 3rd parties
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flip a coin.
heads on
tails give up.
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Wad if it lands in the middle of 2 of ur fingers?Originally posted by Ito_^:flip a coin.
heads on
tails give up.
How ar?
Cheers.
C.K -
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ooo....seems to me tat quite a few here dont support pursueing someone attached and not married.
me personally dont like tat idea too......
but if tat person found happiness iwth another person n not me...i can only give my blessings to him.......
however...if this person is someone whom u searched hte whole world for.... shldnt one fight for a chance? -
piak and run away.Originally posted by CKeer:Wad if it lands in the middle of 2 of ur fingers?
How ar?
Cheers.
C.K -
depends if u reali do 'search' the whole globe... but u msut ask urself how do u noe shes the one? hv u give others a chance to show if they are the one? the saying still goes, if she can leave her bf for u, she can leave u for another...Originally posted by babyreyes:ooo....seems to me tat quite a few here dont support pursueing someone attached and not married.
me personally dont like tat idea too......
but if tat person found happiness iwth another person n not me...i can only give my blessings to him.......
however...if this person is someone whom u searched hte whole world for.... shldnt one fight for a chance? -
Don't touch someone gf or bf if they are attached... you not scared of Bao Yin meh... what if someone come and woo after your bf or gf... will you feel happy...??? Whether are they married or not... it is not important...Originally posted by babyreyes:usually..when u tell someone tat hte one u like is attached to someone else....they might say tat as long as not married..still got chance......
will u hold back to moral values or ignore all to pursue wat u have in ur heart?
1a)Will u still pursue someone attached but not married and ur reasons?
1b) Why would u pursue him or her?
OR
2a)Will u just give up?
2b)Do u think its wrong to pursue someone attached and become a 3rd party.
In short... be careful of retribution if you are intending to do so... else... leave them alone... just blame yourself for appear late in his or her life... and look for another one as you are just not fated to be with him or her...
Unless one day... she has resume her or his single status then you can move into their lives... but don't break up a couple... as it is a sin... -
its not so much morals for me, as it is the fact that its just downright sleazy. I will never pursue someone who's attached. I'm not a despo.Originally posted by babyreyes:usually..when u tell someone tat hte one u like is attached to someone else....they might say tat as long as not married..still got chance......
will u hold back to moral values or ignore all to pursue wat u have in ur heart?
1a)Will u still pursue someone attached but not married and ur reasons?
1b) Why would u pursue him or her?
OR
2a)Will u just give up?
2b)Do u think its wrong to pursue someone attached and become a 3rd party.
Worse, I HATE people who think they got a chance with my darling. sleaze bags all, no wonder my darling also dislike them -
So much talks... But often.. Logic does not rule the mind...Originally posted by babyreyes:ooo....seems to me tat quite a few here dont support pursueing someone attached and not married.
me personally dont like tat idea too......
but if tat person found happiness iwth another person n not me...i can only give my blessings to him.......
however...if this person is someone whom u searched hte whole world for.... shldnt one fight for a chance? -
Originally posted by HENG@:its not so much morals for me, as it is the fact that its just downright sleazy. I will never pursue someone who's attached. I'm not a despo.
Worse, I HATE people who think they got a chance with my darling. sleaze bags all, no wonder my darling also dislike them
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Personally, i'm dun encourage ppl to woo someone else steady... it's just not so right for me... it's dun sound too gd being a 3rd party..
However, if he/she is unhappy in his/her current relationship, n thinking of getting out of it... then it will be no harm to tell the person that u do interested in him/her.. But no forcing them to make a decision immediately.. Just let the nature take it cause... see how's things go.. -
why u cryOriginally posted by Devil1976: -
yes, it's wrong to do that..Originally posted by babyreyes:2b)Do u think its wrong to pursue someone attached and become a 3rd party.
cus what goes ard comes ard..
so u better think twice b4 u do tt..
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even if they were unhappy, I'd still wait for them to leave the relationship of their own accord.Originally posted by pinkyjoey:Personally, i'm dun encourage ppl to woo someone else steady... it's just not so right for me... it's dun sound too gd being a 3rd party..
However, if he/she is unhappy in his/her current relationship, n thinking of getting out of it... then it will be no harm to tell the person that u do interested in him/her.. But no forcing them to make a decision immediately.. Just let the nature take it cause... see how's things go..
I feel people who long after other people's partners are just so pathetic. -
You hate me and your darling dislike me...Originally posted by HENG@:why u cry -
Actually, if this proposition was ever put to me, then the answer would hinge on who the lady is. Before anyone jumps the gun, I must stress I'm not for the idea of doing so simply for the challenge of it, but rather only doing so if I genuinely believe she's the one for me.
That said, it is highly unlikely I will ever try this on a total stranger simply because there is a host of issues to consider(ie.character, compatibility, etc) and looks alone will not tempt me to attempt hitting on someone(whether attached or not). In essence, in all probability, I'd probably have to get to know her well enough as a friend for me to do that if I decided she's the right one.
I mean, if she possessed most of the qualities that I'd like in my partner(in other words, women with her quality would be few and far between), then obviously, I wouldn't hesitate courting her as I see no reason to stay away from something which I could regret later on - afterall, I only live once and I can't afford to give that many opportunities a miss!
Of course, I'd be more than willing to accept and respect her decision whatever happens...
Personally, I don't know where those people who buy the "what goes around comes around" logic are coming from - I mean, for me, you've obviously got to be able to offer her something better than she could have in her current relationship to convince her that she'd be better off with you than her current flame. And if she was genuinely convinced of having a brighter and more secure future with me and that I could better satisfy her needs than her current squeeze, isn't it only logical that she'd find it sensible that she'd be better off with me? Afterall, everything in life and love's a fair game and a gamble to some extent - even marriages are not guaranteed to last a lifetime. So why should anyone hold back from pursuing someone who is potentially his/her soulmate solely on the basis of "what goes around comes around"? -
Originally posted by walesa:Actually, if this proposition was ever put to me, then the answer would hinge on who the lady is. Before anyone jumps the gun, I must stress I'm not for the idea of doing so simply for the challenge of it, but rather only doing so if I genuinely believe she's the one for me.
That said, it is highly unlikely I will ever try this on a total stranger simply because there is a host of issues to consider(ie.character, compatibility, etc) and looks alone will not tempt me to attempt hitting on someone(whether attached or not). In essence, in all probability, I'd probably have to get to know her well enough as a friend for me to do that if I decided she's the right one.
I mean, if she possessed most of the qualities that I'd like in my partner(in other words, women with her quality would be few and far between), then obviously, I wouldn't hesitate courting her as I see no reason to stay away from something which I could regret later on - afterall, I only live once and I can't afford to give that many opportunities a miss! Of course, I'd be more than willing to accept and respect her decision whatever happens...
Personally, I don't know where those people who buy the "what goes around comes around" logic are coming from - I mean, for me, you've obviously got to be able to offer her something better than she could have in her current relationship to convince her that she'd be better off with you than her current flame. And if she was genuinely convinced of having a brighter and more secure future with me and that I could better satisfy her needs than her current squeeze, isn't it only logical that she'd find it sensible that she'd be better off with me? Afterall, everything in life and love's a fair game and a gamble to some extent - even marriages are not guaranteed to last a lifetime. So why should anyone hold back from pursuing someone who is potentially his/her soulmate solely on the basis of "what goes around comes around"? 
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