how do i let a girl know i like her

• Twice A Day

  23 Jul 06, 22:16

  I think being sincere is most impt right?
  Or try something special. Ask her how she will let a guy know she like him..
  Do the exact same thing...She will surely catch what u are thinking. Dont think it will scare her off also.. Try it..and tell me if it works.
• Cenarious

  23 Jul 06, 22:30

  bump until this topic reaches 500 posts
• dokono

  23 Jul 06, 22:41

  Originally posted by Cenarious:

  we just know each other but i been noticing her since last year

  Just ask her out. Date her. Take actions first. Ask questions later.
• Ristar

  23 Jul 06, 22:45

  i think that it isnt wise that... you... ask... all of us as people are all different, maybe we are not... her... cup of tea and u might better off with... out... our suggestions.
  
  the above text is not very well constructed due to time constraints (book in liao...).
• Cenarious

  23 Jul 06, 22:47

  Originally posted by Ristar:

  i think that it isnt wise that... you... ask... all of us as people are all different, maybe we are not... her... cup of tea and u might be off with... out... our suggestions.
  
  the above text is not very well constructed due to time constraints (book in liao...).

  doesnt matter i want to listen to as many possibilities as possible then decide which one is good
• Ristar

  23 Jul 06, 22:49

  Originally posted by Cenarious:

  doesnt matter i want to listen to as many possibilities as possible then decide which one is good

  things are always not wat it seems to be. wat im suggesting in my post is far more effective and safer than if u ask her out flat. like how u read my post just now. if u do know wat im suggesting, do read up on it to have a better idea on the execution of the idea.
• Cenarious

  23 Jul 06, 22:52

  Originally posted by Ristar:

  things are always not wat it seems to be. wat im suggesting in my post is far more effective and safer than if u ask her out flat. like how u read my post just now.

  that means i have to wait till next year so no
• Ristar

  23 Jul 06, 22:53

  Originally posted by Cenarious:

  that means i have to wait till next year so no

  u still are not getting my suggestion in that post. i wasnt that joker who suggested the april fool's day joke to begin with. never mind, forget it then.
  
  done.
• Cenarious

  23 Jul 06, 22:55

  Originally posted by Ristar:

  u still are not getting my suggestion in that post. forget it then.
  
  done deal.

  sorry i tot u were the one that suggested the april fools one
  
  so u think i should experiment on many girls first?
• Ristar

  23 Jul 06, 23:07

  Originally posted by Cenarious:

  sorry i tot u were the one that suggested the april fools one
  
  so u think i should experiment on many girls first?

  actually, no. i was jk about that one. however, it would be quite a good experiment if u get some statistics and learn out of it. wat im suggesting that u learn the technique (although done poorly on my part) is in this post
  
  

  
  i think that it isnt wise that... you... ask... all of us as people are all different, maybe we are not... her... cup of tea and u might be off with... out... our suggestions.
  

  hint:
  let the concious be unconcious and the unconcious concious to perceive wat u see, to listen wat u hear and to feel wat u touch as humans are programmed in a common way and the only way to be truly aware of things is to do just that.
  
  like i said, this is in my opinion, the safest way if u r scared that u'd lose a fren, and are really sure that u love her very much. of coz, it needs practice, just like every other thing in this world and with enough of it, u will have great gain.
• Cenarious

  23 Jul 06, 23:10

  Originally posted by Ristar:

  hint:
  let the concious be unconcious and the unconcious concious to perceive wat u see, to listen wat u hear and to feel wat u touch as humans are programmed in a common way and the only way to be truly aware of things is to do just that.
  
  like i said, this is in my opinion, the safest way if u r scared that u'd lose a fren, and are really sure that u love her very much. of coz, it needs practice, just like every other thing in this world and with enough of it, u will have great gain.

  i have about 0 people skills and i have never seen girls before so i wont try my luck
• Cenarious

  23 Jul 06, 23:31

  bump
• cherry...

  24 Jul 06, 00:17

  get her number and text her nice messages regularly, perhaps asking hows her day etc
  
  i think should date her out, consistently..
  if she decides to spend time with you, it shows that she is at least a little interested in getting to know you better, and you can work from there..
  when you spend alot of time together, things will progress naturally..
  
• Cenarious

  24 Jul 06, 00:22

  Originally posted by cherry...:

  get her number and text her nice messages regularly, perhaps asking hows her day etc
  
  i think should date her out, consistently..
  if she decides to spend time with you, it shows that she is at least a little interested in getting to know you better, and you can work from there..
  when you spend alot of time together, things will progress naturally..
  

  but i dont like to go out.
• Cenarious

  24 Jul 06, 00:44

  then what activities are good to improve our r/s?
• Darkness_hacker99

  24 Jul 06, 00:47

  Originally posted by Cenarious:

  then what activities are good to improve our r/s?

  Spuer Heavy Petting.
• M©+square

  24 Jul 06, 00:51

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  Spuer Heavy Petting.

  I prefer Super Heavy Editing.
  
  But i refrain from it. Cos, very addictive.
• Cenarious

  24 Jul 06, 00:51

  how do i know if she has a bf?
• dokono

  24 Jul 06, 01:02

  Originally posted by Cenarious:

  doesnt matter i want to listen to as many possibilities as possible then decide which one is good

  Before you do anything, ask yourself if she is really worth to be ur stead. Or u still need time to think whether you really like her.
  
  dun drag too long if not it's harder to strike and you will just be friends forever in her mind. you will also find it much harder to tell her since the 'friendship' is already too deep.
  
  u dun have to call her and chat her up everyday. Give her time and space to breathe. if she likes you she will definitely be yours for sure.
  
  you just have to do it sooner or later. Thinking too much doesn't change the situation. Ask her out alone first. Dun do anything on the first date. Then you can see the picture much better. If she really likes you, she definitely likes going out with you alone. Also, when you ask her out, you are also giving her hints that you like her.
  
  If she gives unbelievable excuses, then u may want to try a second time. If second time also like that, forget her la bro. Dun need to keep trying cos it dun always work. Besides, you will come off as a pest which is even worse than before.
  
  
• dokono

  24 Jul 06, 01:11

  Originally posted by Cenarious:

  how do i know if she has a bf?

  it's not important whether she has a bf or not. Important thing is whether she likes u or not. Asking her out will cut thru everything and your worries will be finally over. Just msg her or call her although i dun advise u sms her. Calling her on the spot will clear all your questions you have in your mind immediately. The main purpose of the call is to jio her out, not to drag for long hours but no result.
  
  her reply should either be ''yes'' or ''no''. No ''maybe''. If there's maybe, means not that interested. you may consider another girl. A simple question doesnt need much hesitation.
  
  if you dun like to go out, why the heck are you getting a gf for?
• lonestar86

  24 Jul 06, 01:39

  tell her loh..
  be straight forward..
• Eternal-fire

  24 Jul 06, 12:32

  Originally posted by lonestar86:

  tell her loh..
  be straight forward..

  Straight forward quite hard sometimes lar. Especially if the guy is shy or introvert (like me ops.
• de_middle

  24 Jul 06, 12:42

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  oei! siao eh! i like u!
  u like me ornot?

  now i know why liao
• babyreyes

  24 Jul 06, 13:28

  a bit contradicting lehs.
  
  u wanna woo her...yet dont like to go out.....
  
  if u dont like to go out..how are u gona date her.......
  
  can u see hte conflict here?
  
  if u are hte stay home type of person and she is those very outdoors type of person...u might see some conflicts in future...
  
  ok... lets leave this aside 1st.
  
  since u like her now, put in some effort to get to know her better.....
  
  try to engage in sms chat with her..... once u more confident....try to call her on her phone....slowly step by step....... too fast..u might scare her off...
  
  if u have common frens...GOOOD. organise group outings.... then try to spend some private time with her ( tat means while walking from one venue to another...engage in conversations). Bonus when she expresses interests in coming to your group outings.
  
  then slowly ask her out on dates..... if she is interested in getting ot know u better...she will agree with you.....
  
  once ur frenship more stable......u might wanna casually ask wat does she think of you...wat type of guys she like.....
  
  then slowly progress to....wat will she do if she know u like her....
  
• walesa

  25 Jul 06, 02:43

  Originally posted by babyreyes:

  a bit contradicting lehs.
  
  u wanna woo her...yet dont like to go out.....
  
  if u dont like to go out..how are u gona date her.......
  
  can u see hte conflict here?
  
  

  Must there necessarily be a conflict here? I mean, if both parties were home-bound types, they could always pop over to each other's house and do something together(like watching DVDs, prepare a home-cooked meal, etc)?