How to be not Emotional ?

• Seth35

  24 Jul 06, 04:35

  Its Something in me i have to Change...I also cant accept that i am emotional... How do you change the character ?
• Eternal-fire

  24 Jul 06, 09:56

  Why do you not want to be emotional?
• dragg

  24 Jul 06, 10:00

  in what way are you emotional.
  
  care to elaborate?
  
  
• Parka

  24 Jul 06, 10:40

  You'll need a life-changing experience to change your charactor. Not so easy, amigo.
• FORGET-ME-NOT

  24 Jul 06, 11:15

  Learn to be detach. Don't think too much but I think really need a life experiencing then you will change. I am also trying very hard not to be emotional.
• Beckhamagic

  24 Jul 06, 15:14

  A human will have emotional... unless you want a change... then go Guang Ming Shan - to be a monk... hahaha
  
  You can just learn to be much more relax and take things lightly... in that way you would be much more happier and lesser unhappiness stuffs will affect you...
• Devil1976

  24 Jul 06, 18:55

  Originally posted by Seth35:

  Its Something in me i have to Change...I also cant accept that i am emotional... How do you change the character ?

  Don't be a human..
• OasisBlue

  24 Jul 06, 19:12

  so it should be "how to be not too emotional?"
• hisoka

  24 Jul 06, 19:18

  i also want to be non-emotional then i can make all the right decisions
• BadzMaro

  24 Jul 06, 19:23

  be like the stone... n control that emotion in u. If u can stand by idly while an old grandma struggles in the water n u not giving any hand n just watching her sink deeper into the lake... u have achieved it .
• OasisBlue

  24 Jul 06, 19:27

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  i also want to be non-emotional then i can make all the right decisions

  u cant be non emotional... its hardly possible...unless u die...unless u wan to be heartless to become non emotional... wad u can do is to control ur emotions
• hisoka

  24 Jul 06, 19:35

  Originally posted by OasisBlue:

  u cant be non emotional... its hardly possible...unless u die...unless u wan to be heartless to become non emotional... wad u can do is to control ur emotions

  okz then me want to control until i can act and think in the same manner as if i got no emotions
• Gedanken

  24 Jul 06, 20:16

  What are you fellows carrying on about?
  
  First and foremost, if you're going to deny your emotions and try to carry on like they don't exist, you're only causing yourself trouble. Either that or you're going to enjoy being sociopaths.
  
  This is what the whole emotional intelligence brouhaha boils down to. Be aware of your emotions, and of how they can affect your thoughts and actions. Using that awareness, make sure that your emotions don't get you thinking and acting wrongly. Simple enough, isn't it?
• Yunhaier

  24 Jul 06, 21:10

  Originally posted by Seth35:

  Its Something in me i have to Change...I also cant accept that i am emotional... How do you change the character ?

  Are you a Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces?
  
  Cheers
• Bontakun

  24 Jul 06, 21:15

  Originally posted by Seth35:

  Its Something in me i have to Change...I also cant accept that i am emotional... How do you change the character ?

  NOT serious comment to your topic:
  
  Find fairy godparents and have them WISH your emotions to be kept away from you.
• hisoka

  24 Jul 06, 21:37

  Originally posted by Gedanken:

  This is what the whole emotional intelligence brouhaha boils down to. Be aware of your emotions, and of how they can affect your thoughts and actions. Using that awareness, make sure that your emotions don't get you thinking and acting wrongly. Simple enough, isn't it?

  thats the idea behind being able to act and think as if you have no emotions so that you can make the best decision and not let emotion get you thinking and acting wrongly
• Gedanken

  25 Jul 06, 08:28

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  thats the idea behind being able to act and think as if you have no emotions so that you can make the best decision and not let emotion get you thinking and acting wrongly

  Which is fine if you're dealing with issues that involve absolutely no emotional content. Think about what you do the rest (i.e. most) of the time - if you're a manager, do you think being entirely unemotional is going to work with your staff? Think again. And let's not even go near personal relationships on a daily basis.
  
  Fact of the matter is that human life revolves around and involves so much emotion that if you're going to be foolish enough to try and pretend it doesn't exist, you're going to send everything to a grinding halt. Like it or not, when there's at least one person involved, emotions work their way into the equation and have to be addressed - failing to address them would in fact lead to a wrong decision.
  
  If I had a dollar for every person I've seen screw things up by pretending they had no emotions, I'd be a gazillionaire by now. Unfortunately, payment's only limited to my corporate clients.