whats ur view on long distance dating and courtship?
-
Though I'm not too sure about Missqi... But you probably DO hold that certain 'factor' in you which would at least make the relationship drags on for quite a while, if not even to make IT REALLY HAPPENS...Originally posted by HENG@:no i think we've come out of the cream already
Your shortcoming is that if you suffer a 'rebound' due to this relationship, it's gonna be QUITE BAD.... DO REMEMBER this point...
-
Same ingredients, different proportions and timing makes a different soup...Originally posted by BadzMaro:Trust , love and commitment.
These 3 values and no matter where.. can work. Same goes for courtship. -
Originally posted by Devil1976:Then it's probably not the same 'cream' we're talking about here...
urgh pls tell me its not THAT sort of cream u're talking about. thats disgusting
-
ya i remember that. I'm committed tho. Honeymoon periods are not realistic. A relationship is a good one if it can withstand everday realities. I think it'll last quite a while at least.Originally posted by Devil1976:Though I'm not too sure about Missqi... But you probably DO hold that certain 'factor' in you which would at least make the relationship drags on for quite a while, if not even to make IT REALLY HAPPENS...
Your shortcoming is that if you suffer a 'rebound' due to this relationship, it's gonna be QUITE BAD.... DO REMEMBER this point... 
-
Err... No.Originally posted by HENG@:
urgh pls tell me its not THAT sort of cream u're talking about. thats disgusting 
It's the walk between process and experience which is quite a unique valid point in your case. It's sort of like a transition that has yet to take place... If worse, I fear... Triggered on unnecessary notes....
When you would be finishing your school and be back in Singapore? Or are you even thinking of coming back...? -
I certainly do hope so too...? For the good of both of ya....Originally posted by HENG@:ya i remember that. I'm committed tho. Honeymoon periods are not realistic. A relationship is a good one if it can withstand everday realities. I think it'll last quite a while at least. 
-
wat is this?Originally posted by Advante_101:Constant contact is important..buy plenty of calling cards (some allow u to talk up to 2hrs depending on the country) Send each other photos often..cute pillow with ur own perfume tat u r using so tat she/he can think of u & miz u during sleep..Roses or item by airmail etc..Since u cant be there for her..Help her out by sending some pocket money once per week
Meet up once a month or two for sex..No matter how u all deny this is very important in a long distance relationship..It will be the memory of it tat keeps u two together strong..If cant..use phone or photos to fu-ck each other fondly hehehe
Until when both are ready..Then marry if fate permits..
Most importantly is tat BOTH of u must realli LOVE each other TRUST and TALK..If not it wont worked out
What else..? If still have other ideas i cant remember liao..Thanks you & Good luck to u buddy..
shes my 15 yrs old penpal -
well doesnt wk for me...............
the separation was too much n we drifted apart.
once bitten twice shy -
but im sure that there are ways to help push the r/s forward am i not?
-
but the only question is will it last when one is only a normal human being yearning for physical affection at times? -
thank you but i wuld rather take emotion affectionsOriginally posted by orange88:but the only question is will it last when one is only a normal human being yearning for physical affection at times? -
Hi,Originally posted by olala:As the above
am curious
it would be very tough on you and the other party...
Initially both of you might find it sweet and romantic but after some time... problems will then start to arise...
Take for instance... when you are happy or sad... who is the one that is going to share you joy and pain apart from your family?
When you need love and care... where is the other party?
To conclude... it is very difficult to work out but it also depends on the duration that both of you are apart... anything more than 1 year is considered as very difficult for me... -
erm i didn't understand the 1st bit.Originally posted by Devil1976:Err... No. It's the walk between process and experience which is quite a unique valid point in your case. It's sort of like a transition that has yet to take place... If worse, I fear... Triggered on unnecessary notes....
When you would be finishing your school and be back in Singapore? Or are you even thinking of coming back...?
2nd bit i can answer. i graduate 2008 and then i'll start working in UK. -
thanks.Originally posted by Devil1976:I certainly do hope so too...? For the good of both of ya....
the other thing is, i know there are some guys eyeing her. i get a bit irked by that, even though she totally dislikes them. Its those guys im feeling annoyed about, not her. What I wouldn't give to castrate some of them. -
Yes. Just like any other normal BGR, there're certainly ways to push the relationship forward... But like I've said, it's a different platform... And often than not, there're transition phases... Not everyone can get used to that... Especially now that you're talking about 2 people within a relationship...Originally posted by olala:but im sure that there are ways to help push the r/s forward am i not? -
After you've met up with your girl back in Singapore, things could become a little different...? Possibly starts to change?Originally posted by HENG@:erm i didn't understand the 1st bit.
2nd bit i can answer. i graduate 2008 and then i'll start working in UK.
So any future plans for the 2 of you? -
things aren't that much different la.Originally posted by Devil1976:After you've met up with your girl back in Singapore, things could become a little different...? Possibly starts to change?
So any future plans for the 2 of you?
future plans? hmm... get a civil union in UK. -
You shouldn't be giving a thing to what the other guys are thinking...Originally posted by HENG@:thanks.
the other thing is, i know there are some guys eyeing her. i get a bit irked by that, even though she totally dislikes them. Its those guys im feeling annoyed about, not her. What I wouldn't give to castrate some of them.
The fact that they could only eye on her but not touch her is already a gentle slice enough on their throats for them to choke on...
Having her as your gf and them not a chance, is gonna be so much more of a picture you can benefit from if you're not even bother with them (afterall it's their losses and not yours? )
Another thing you've got to understand... You simply can't be stopping people from their thinkings completely.. So long as they've not stepped over the border, the domains should remain clear.... -
Nope... Not yet at least..? It's only 2006 and you're gonna be in UK till 2008...? And... Just how long have ya only met up with qibi?Originally posted by HENG@:things aren't that much different la.
future plans? hmm... get a civil union in UK. 
Not to worry toomuch though, as I've already said you should probably have your own 'traits' to pull things through... Probably Qibi too since you're touching her on the right notes...?
So is she gonna be moving over to UK too in the future? -
actually with her traits, i feel the long dist relationship won't be a problem.Originally posted by Devil1976:Nope... Not yet at least..? It's only 2006 and you're gonna be in UK till 2008...? And... Just how long have ya only met up with qibi? Not to worry toomuch though, as I've already said you should probably have your own 'traits' to pull things through... Probably Qibi too since you're touching her on the right notes...?
So is she gonna be moving over to UK too in the future?
as for me, im prepared to stick thru thick n thin.
UK, we see bah. probably have 2 bases, one here one uk -
thats true.Originally posted by Devil1976:You shouldn't be giving a thing to what the other guys are thinking...
The fact that they could only eye on her but not touch her is already a gentle slice enough on their throats for them to choke on...
Having her as your gf and them not a chance, is gonna be so much more of a picture you can benefit from if you're not even bother with them (afterall it's their losses and not yours? )
Another thing you've got to understand... You simply can't be stopping people from their thinkings completely.. So long as they've not stepped over the border, the domains should remain clear....
thanks, thats made me feel much better esp the bit in red -
Friends,
Let me challenge your thoughts.
Try not being with your GalFrds or boyfrds for 3-6months.
You'll know the answer straight away.
After this period when you see each other, I can bet you both of your feelings is different. and you'll started to feel like stranger, only difference is you still remember the face..
Its good to try... -
Well, you'll both have a long route ahead to plan probably.. So can do it slowly so long as you've got the endurance...Originally posted by HENG@:actually with her traits, i feel the long dist relationship won't be a problem.
as for me, im prepared to stick thru thick n thin.
UK, we see bah. probably have 2 bases, one here one uk -
I've nt met my penpal in person but we do send each other photo
im thinking of visiting her in sweden this dec
shes really a ncie gal who still have the'asian' values tho shes a pr in sweden -
Hmm... Not to belittle her because of her age, but 15 years old is a little too early to talk about 'asian values' to hold... Don't ya think? Besides.. How long have you really known her?Originally posted by olala:I've nt met my penpal in person but we do send each other photo
im thinking of visiting her in sweden this dec
shes really a ncie gal who still have the'asian' values tho shes a pr in sweden