i'm lost and hurt..
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i'm also having a bit of a similar situation here as well. my gf is very angry with me this evening after playing a little sport with her friends. as they and i are beginners, i decided to have fun myself instead. but what got her mad was that i lack sportsmanship...?
continue from above..
just because i sniggered at some point in time at the way one of them hit the ball.. i mean, come on, i do laughed at myself for not hitting properly as well and all i was doing was just enjoying myself.
and i really really didn't know that my sniggering offended my gf alot.
so i apologized to her just now and right now... guess she's sleeping already... no sms... no calls... i hope she forgives me. i know i'm in a wrong for being so insensitive.
jees... wad should i do????
two days have passed.
i've smsed her again to apologize telling her that i've thought about all she said and tt i am willing to take note of such mistake and not repeat it again.. she did reply me though.
deep inside me, i hope she is not mad at me anymore although she did reply but her tone sounded a bit distant. i'm pretty hurt as i feel that i didn't get full assurance of her forgiveness. but rather, i feel she is still having some grudges towards me..
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change gf?
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i'm not giving up on her.Originally posted by mistyblue:change gf?
there must be other solutions. -
hey no one wants to help???
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.Yawnz.
Help you sms ?
Why do you still think sms ? Its not the words that is sent that makes you a "MAN" -
think sms?Originally posted by NotFromVenus:.Yawnz.
Help you sms ?
Why do you still think sms ? Its not the words that is sent that makes you a "MAN"
i dun even have a slightest idea of wad to do now. i dun post here for nothing. to think tt aunt agony helps.
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to think that we all help each other here and give constructive advices... this is what i get... flamed. very well done.
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surprise her at her door tmr morning,
with breakfast and a cute pitiful face asking for forgiveness.
but then be smart hor, dun wait outside and be silly..
my jiemei's bf tried to be sweet, and wanted to surprise her.
he bought a char siew pau and a packet of soya bean drink and waited outside her house.
apparently my jiemei slept till very late..
and police came and took him to the police station.
someone muz have called the police, saying suspicious character lying around.
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how long have you been with her?
do you think that she is the girl you want to marry in future? if so, do something that touch her
if no, forget about her -
I think if you really want to win her back, you have to do something that seems more sincere than a mere sms.
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and being sarcastic back does not help you at all.Originally posted by Gwangetto:to think that we all help each other here and give constructive advices... this is what i get... flamed. very well done.
the damage is already done la, but if she cant forgive you for such trivial things then its up to you. -
i agree.. if you really care about her and want to apologise or what, dun just keep sms-ing and sms-ing.
go and find her and have a talk with her. if there's a problem, both of u should sit down and try to solve the problem in a mature way like adults. problems dun solve by itself and it wont go away if u just ignore it.
EFFORT needs to be there. by purely sms-ing it seems the effort is not much -
you come across rairly young and unsure of yourself.
So what are you doing with a gf who is also sorta immature...
I don't know but its very umimportant things to get so angry over. Besides you had apologise. Please do not grovel and lose your dignity.
If you had done your apologies sincerely. Once is enough. The ball is in her court.
But if you ask me, you are over thinking. You should just call her instead of SMS. Ask you directly if she is still angry and did she not accept your apology. If she is still angry after your call and sms and whatever. Is she throwing a tantrum or what? Do you want to be with such a high maintenance person. This is your choice but once you choose this way, we have no other advice but to tell you to put up with all the trash she's gonna heap on you.
In my opinion, a lot of men go for such kinds of high maintenance girls, spoil them further and then ended up putting up with the bad behaviour.
I would also add, you might also think I am sprouting rubbish - depending on prespective. -
call her?
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thanks for all the adivces!!! good or bad... i dun care.
i've called her and talked it all out. as i said before, commmunication is the key. so, i picked up the courage to call her and tell her about how i felt and see if she's also doing okay.
to my surprise, she's already forgiven me. it's just tt i'm thinking too much only... and also worrying too much. haiz... but it's over now. lessons learned.
but mistyblue, my gf isn't immature or high maintanance. she's reasonable, otherwise i wun be dating her at all.
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thanks for such advices... i never thought of calling her as i was too busy thinking and searching for solutions these days while the answer is very obvious in front of me. haiz... why didn't i think of that! silly me...Originally posted by Rejected:call her?
to those who has told me to call her, thanks for your precious advices!!!
to those who has told to call her also, u guyz really understand my heart.
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all i can advise you, is to really reflect on your doings. Certainly, you think that what you did might not warrant such a reaction from her..however, normally, the person at fault, will always think that his/her actions is a norm, and they always wonder why the other party has such a big reaction..
"its not a big deal what!"
if she is so piss off, it must be something that you did but yet you think is just a small matter..
have a talk with her, and ask her specifically what you think which makes her so angry...come on, even though you had appologise, gals still prefer to be humor....
cheers!
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Yo bro...
Here's a good advice,
Just apologise to her,
and try to amend things like bringing her out for dinner and movies after that.
Some similar might work,
cause you gotta be careful of her girl friends... cause They are her playthings...