Cheating
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Toys?Originally posted by missqi:why havent u tried toys?
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dont think i want to post pictures of the toys i have in mind.Originally posted by Honeybunz:Toys?
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Yes sometimes toys better than men
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but can it satisfy u as much as ur lover (man) can?Originally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:Yes sometimes toys better than men -
When you have these "thoughts", do you already have a person or persons in mind already for your "fling". Are you receiving some 'signals' from a guy or guys that you could potentially have a fling with?Originally posted by Claudia_2006:Hi everyone
What I am going to share with you is something that is bothering me recently. I am not asking for trouble here but I really do not know where to turn to. I cannot share this with my friend. As you read on, you will see what I mean.
I am happily married to the nicest guy who holds a stable job, is loving and caring. Other than working, he spends all this time with me and tries to do things for me and with me. He is all that any woman will want to marry. I am glad and I know I am lucky and blessed.
But in recent weeks, I am bugged with this thought. The thought of having a fling outside. Yes, in the past, I used to have many boyfriends and I changed boyfriends like nobody's business. All my friends had a hard time remembering who I was going out with.
It sounds fun and crazy and it was indeed fun to have new guys every now and then. But soon I realised that I did not like this kind of lifestyle. It just wasn't me. I decided that I was after all still very much conservative and I longed to settled down with somebody stable and loving.
Soon I met my husband. He is not the romantic kind that will surprise me with roses and presents. He is the homely kind that likes to stay at home with family to have dinner and watch TV. This is the perfect kind of husband -- the stay-at-home kind of man. He even helps out with housechores and groceries.
Everything, except sex life, is perfect after we got married. Due to the nature of his work, he is highly stressed and doesn't perform much in bed. Even when we were newly wed, we didn't make love more than once a week.
Recently, as mentioned earlier I have been thinking about having an affair outside. I don't think it has to do with my low sex life with my husband, or rather, I don't really know either.
When this thought first came to me, it was not so much of having sex with other men. I didn't think of having one night stand or something. But rather, I was more into having a fling, a short time relationship. I suddenly miss infatuation. I miss the strong emotion that I used to have when seeing new guys.
I have been married for a short while only, definitely less than 7 years. So this shouldn't be a 7 years itch kind of symptom. It is bugging me and I dare not share with any of my friends, even the girls. Because the whole world think that I have a perfect husband and they will scream my head off for sharing this with them, instead of helping.
I hope to hear some advice here or find out where I can get helped.
Thank you for your time reading this.
Usually these thoughts will not suddenly come to your mind. right?
If you really want to do it, just do it.... but be prepared for the consequences and make sure ur hubby didn' tknow about it. -
Originally posted by Claudia_2006:Hi everyone
What I am going to share with you is something that is bothering me recently. I am not asking for trouble here but I really do not know where to turn to. I cannot share this with my friend. As you read on, you will see what I mean.
I am happily married to the nicest guy who holds a stable job, is loving and caring. Other than working, he spends all this time with me and tries to do things for me and with me. He is all that any woman will want to marry. I am glad and I know I am lucky and blessed.
But in recent weeks, I am bugged with this thought. The thought of having a fling outside. Yes, in the past, I used to have many boyfriends and I changed boyfriends like nobody's business. All my friends had a hard time remembering who I was going out with.
It sounds fun and crazy and it was indeed fun to have new guys every now and then. But soon I realised that I did not like this kind of lifestyle. It just wasn't me. I decided that I was after all still very much conservative and I longed to settled down with somebody stable and loving.
Soon I met my husband. He is not the romantic kind that will surprise me with roses and presents. He is the homely kind that likes to stay at home with family to have dinner and watch TV. This is the perfect kind of husband -- the stay-at-home kind of man. He even helps out with housechores and groceries.
Everything, except sex life, is perfect after we got married. Due to the nature of his work, he is highly stressed and doesn't perform much in bed. Even when we were newly wed, we didn't make love more than once a week.
Recently, as mentioned earlier I have been thinking about having an affair outside. I don't think it has to do with my low sex life with my husband, or rather, I don't really know either.
When this thought first came to me, it was not so much of having sex with other men. I didn't think of having one night stand or something. But rather, I was more into having a fling, a short time relationship. I suddenly miss infatuation. I miss the strong emotion that I used to have when seeing new guys.
I have been married for a short while only, definitely less than 7 years. So this shouldn't be a 7 years itch kind of symptom. It is bugging me and I dare not share with any of my friends, even the girls. Because the whole world think that I have a perfect husband and they will scream my head off for sharing this with them, instead of helping.
I hope to hear some advice here or find out where I can get helped.
Thank you for your time reading this. -
i think seriously...i can tell u one thing...u have too much time...
juz like the saying, "Men cannot have too much money, Women cannot have too much time.."
the onli time u will suddenly treasure him is when u realise that he is always by ur side looking after u when u are having tons of stress and he juz never seems to be tired by ur complains...
y did u enter into the marriage..~?it's because u wan something that is stable and he is such a good husband..then make use and treasure this point..u will regret it so much one day if u ever cheat on him...my advice..find some hobby or something to spice things up a little..be it juz a normal hobby..find the reason y, to u, he's such a good husband...it's not the old ways that u have known..find that reasons the new way..and in the new areas with him..~
oh ya..for sex..it's going to be good way to start...but don't bet that u can continue and keep it alive...i'm sure a million people out there can do it better but suck big time being a husband..remember..u looked for a husband..not a dick..~