My "biased" thinking
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To make an aquaintance is so easy. To be a friend takes more time and effort. To be a TRUE friend, you have to know the person's basic personality or core foundation of what makes a person's character.
There are times when you want to hold that person so much, yet its only a moment of passion that makes you do so. There are times when you really want to go up to to that special someone and say, "I have feelings for you." But the two of you may not be prepared for it.
When you like someone, do you go up to that person and say, "Oei, pak tor ai mai?". Or do you wait and get to know that person more and see for yourself what that person is like and whether that person is suitable for you or not?
When you finally get to know someone, only then it is too late to realise you could have made the wrong move in the first place.
Time and again, you will keep wondering what makes you so attracted to that person. Many of you may say, "Is there a reason to love?". True, not all the times we can find a reason for that, but have you actually thought what that person has that makes you so "head and heels" over that person? Could it be that person has a funny personality? Or does that person has a nice heart and caring towards others that makes your heart warm as well? Perhaps even that person has a direct, or blunt, approach to life that you wish you too could have that approach. Think about what makes you so attracted to this person.
There are cases when the time spent with a person is nothing compared to the QUALITY time spent with another person. I known a friend for many years, but due to a misunderstanding started indirectly by me, he said, "Can dun be frens wif me de...". I was shocked and heartbroken by HOW a person can say even the nastiest things in a fit of the moment. There are people I have known for a short time but we feel like close kins and even share many intimate things.
I do have regrets in life, but I can look at those regrets and smile, knowing I have learnt something from it and reinforcing me in a sense that the next time I make a decision, I will make sure I choose the one I want and have no regrets whatsoever.
You choose the type of company you want, you decide whether is it worth keeping going into it or ending it. No one can seduce your decision otherwise and no matter how good other people's words are to you, in the end you make the choice because it is your life. -
Please summarized in 10 words or less.
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Love other people as you love yourself.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Please summarized in 10 words or less. 
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Seems like you have to differentiate between really true true friends from a life partner. Sometimes the lines are blur but you have to differentiate somehow.
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Just because of a misunderstanding and your friend wants to stop the friendship.
Was there even a benefit of the doubt given?
I have no idea what friendship means to your friend. -
like the old parents sayings" open your eyes big big in making friends"
some friends come n go..some stay with you thru'out your life.
some drag you down, some pull you along
some stands by you, some disappear when trouble brews..
whichever friends you have, you know the best..cherish a friendship you have, because friends will still be impt part of your life.
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part of friendship is to accept and forgive.
including forgiving angry words said in a quarrel. -
x2Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:part of friendship is to accept and forgive.
including forgiving angry words said in a quarrel.
actually, with my experience, i think that forgiveness should be a constant essence within a r/s, be it friendship or bgr or mwr.
without forgiveness, there's no love. -
the first 2 para v familiar hor?
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:the first 2 para v familiar hor?
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well. ... without friendship.. it is hard to have love too...Originally posted by Gwangetto:x2
actually, with my experience, i think that forgiveness should be a constant essence within a r/s, be it friendship or bgr or mwr.
without forgiveness, there's no love. -
true.. that'll depend on how u define love.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:well. ... without friendship.. it is hard to have love too...
for me, love is a universal verb. u can love a stranger by being a helpful stranger urself. -
ur post is so long that i don't bother to read.Originally posted by Bontakun:To make an aquaintance is so easy. To be a friend takes more time and effort. To be a TRUE friend, you have to know the person's basic personality or core foundation of what makes a person's character.
There are times when you want to hold that person so much, yet its only a moment of passion that makes you do so. There are times when you really want to go up to to that special someone and say, "I have feelings for you." But the two of you may not be prepared for it.
When you like someone, do you go up to that person and say, "Oei, pak tor ai mai?". Or do you wait and get to know that person more and see for yourself what that person is like and whether that person is suitable for you or not?
When you finally get to know someone, only then it is too late to realise you could have made the wrong move in the first place.
Time and again, you will keep wondering what makes you so attracted to that person. Many of you may say, "Is there a reason to love?". True, not all the times we can find a reason for that, but have you actually thought what that person has that makes you so "head and heels" over that person? Could it be that person has a funny personality? Or does that person has a nice heart and caring towards others that makes your heart warm as well? Perhaps even that person has a direct, or blunt, approach to life that you wish you too could have that approach. Think about what makes you so attracted to this person.
There are cases when the time spent with a person is nothing compared to the QUALITY time spent with another person. I known a friend for many years, but due to a misunderstanding started indirectly by me, he said, "Can dun be frens wif me de...". I waas shocked and heartbroken by HOW a person can say even the nastiest things in a fit of the moment. There are people I have known for a short time but we feel like close kins and even share many intimate things.
I do have regrets in life, but I can look at those regrets and smile, knowing I have learnt something from it and reinforcing me in a sense that the next time I make a decision, I will make sure I choose the one I want and have no regrets whatsoever.
You choose the type of company you want, you decide whether is it worth keeping going into it or ending it. No one can seduce your decision otherwise and no matter how good other people's words are to you, in the end you make the choice because it is your life.
next time just make things short and sweet. -
I like it mah.Originally posted by browniebaobao:the first 2 para v familiar hor? 
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Perhaps you would like to share something here?Originally posted by vincentchean:ur post is so long that i don't bother to read.
next time just make things short and sweet.
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I have no idea too.Originally posted by Parka: Just because of a misunderstanding and your friend wants to stop the friendship.
Was there even a benefit of the doubt given?
I have no idea what friendship means to your friend.
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interesting..
i like it when pple challenge e cliche: is there a reason for love?
cos prob i got too many of e same ans: loving a person doesnt need a reason.
so rhetorical. -
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My "biased" thinking lor (4 words)Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Please summarized in 10 words or less.