I don't have a home!
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This is just my house...I don't have a home at all!
I've face enough stress from school already. All the assignments, lectures, high expectations of us and everything else is already giving me no breathing space.
Yet whenever I reach home, I have to face additional stress. It's either my brother shouting with my mother, or my mother shouting with my father. Everyone is shouting at each other. And the funny thing is that everyone is shouting at each other for the lamest of all reason!
I can't even have a single momment of peace at my own house! Looks like being the only passive person in the house isn't a good thing either.
Sometime, I feel like leaving this house. But I do know that I'll have to come back one day and face even more trouble. I feel trap. School's giving me stress. This 'home' is giving me stress. I can't even concentrate on my schoolwork now.
I don't want to live here. I don't belong here. I feel like leaving and never coming back. I just want to get out! But I can't...
Growing up in this kind of environment, I feel that I'm on my own. What problem I face, nobody will help. -
Jia jia yo nan yan
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jia jia you ben nan nian de jing.....Originally posted by Anti-RuleSS:Jia jia yo nan yan -
find a partner, rent a room.
i tried doing that before.... -
that's running away from problem...
anyway, i only 17 leh...at the veri least i still need money de from my parents de mah, how to go out live?
find a work myself? sure...but that'll means i'll fail my A'level...
so no matter wat, i'm still stuck here i guess... -
how old are u?
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oh. stuck.....Originally posted by ruixiangz:that's running away from problem...
anyway, i only 17 leh...at the veri least i still need money de from my parents de mah, how to go out live?
find a work myself? sure...but that'll means i'll fail my A'level...
so no matter wat, i'm still stuck here i guess...
not running away, but cos u can't do much being at home..... -
At least you have siblings and parents around you. I have been staying alone since my secondary school days. It gets very lonely in the house sometimes.
Just relax. Think of the people without parents...
I yearn to see my parents shouting at each other at home... -
shouting for almost two hours straight until the neighbours almost have to call the police?
ya...i'm so lucky aren't i? -
listen music when the drama starts. as long dun shout at you can liao.
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Life is a pressure cooker.
When people are stressed, one way to let off is to shout. Shouting leads to stressing others in the environment.
Leaving is the wrong move. Praying for them is the solution. They are stressed. Just hope that you are not part of their stress element. If you are happened to be one of the element, then look at yourself, refine your thought and movement. I believe that will help
Leaving will create more stress in the family as people starts blaming each otherÂ’s more. Assist them in term of $$ or time to relieve their stress. -
Just like what my mum would tell me... I treat the house like a hotel...Originally posted by ruixiangz:This is just my house...I don't have a home at all!
I've face enough stress from school already. All the assignments, lectures, high expectations of us and everything else is already giving me no breathing space.
Yet whenever I reach home, I have to face additional stress. It's either my brother shouting with my mother, or my mother shouting with my father. Everyone is shouting at each other. And the funny thing is that everyone is shouting at each other for the lamest of all reason!
I can't even have a single momment of peace at my own house! Looks like being the only passive person in the house isn't a good thing either.
Sometime, I feel like leaving this house. But I do know that I'll have to come back one day and face even more trouble. I feel trap. School's giving me stress. This 'home' is giving me stress. I can't even concentrate on my schoolwork now.
I don't want to live here. I don't belong here. I feel like leaving and never coming back. I just want to get out! But I can't...
Growing up in this kind of environment, I feel that I'm on my own. What problem I face, nobody will help.
I stay out to studies, return late at night to watch some tv... If quarrels too troublesome then I just turn in to my bed and sleep... -
Go somewhere else to study. The best place would be the library in the city. Yea, that Lee Kong Chian Library... something like that.
As for your household stuffs, I don't know... I think they need a family councellor badly. -
Talk to your family. I believe there should be a way to solve the problem. I usually study at school. I think that is the best place to study. Everybody is study so it will somehow influence you too. Good luck to your examination.
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I often feel the same way too. Except, for me, i'm more bothered with school-related activities and work. I spend so much time in school my parents call our house my hotel.
Whenever i feel down i make myself feel better by telling myself that this is part of life and every bit of it, whether it's good or bad, carries a lot of important learning points for me. -
Try to communicate with them...Originally posted by ruixiangz:This is just my house...I don't have a home at all!
I've face enough stress from school already. All the assignments, lectures, high expectations of us and everything else is already giving me no breathing space.
Yet whenever I reach home, I have to face additional stress. It's either my brother shouting with my mother, or my mother shouting with my father. Everyone is shouting at each other. And the funny thing is that everyone is shouting at each other for the lamest of all reason!
I can't even have a single momment of peace at my own house! Looks like being the only passive person in the house isn't a good thing either.
Sometime, I feel like leaving this house. But I do know that I'll have to come back one day and face even more trouble. I feel trap. School's giving me stress. This 'home' is giving me stress. I can't even concentrate on my schoolwork now.
I don't want to live here. I don't belong here. I feel like leaving and never coming back. I just want to get out! But I can't...
Growing up in this kind of environment, I feel that I'm on my own. What problem I face, nobody will help.
Start telling your worries and pressure to your brother first and slowly talk to your parents...
Maybe the way of communication within your family is wrong... and hopefully they can make some changes to it...
However, if no changes or improvement is being made then maybe you can start to seek the help of some professional like helplines etc...
Hope that you are fine...
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You should shout with them too..
Then you will blend with them and find the happiness within ...