Problem..
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What do you all think if i rejected a Girl....Just because she had sex with other guys and i saw it during that time...And to me its hard to accept...
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Saw what? The sex?
What was the relationship between you and her when she had sex with the other guys...?
You mean she came after you? -
You saw her having sex?
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Close to seeing it.... Very close...But somehow just feel so hard to accept...
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She and i are not attached...But i like her... But after that incident... I just Feel so disspointed... I didnt go after her... But now feeling a little regret....
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you seems to have alot of probs. Just forget about her
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wah lao, if you cannot accept means u cannot accept, even you go with her, everytime you will be reminded of her having sex with other guys, which is something that you cannot accept.
so, why make things difficult ? forget abt her and move on...apparently the part of you nearly seeing her having sex with other guys is hanging over you .... -
yah.. i agree.Originally posted by red_amoeba:wah lao, if you cannot accept means u cannot accept, even you go with her, everytime you will be reminded of her having sex with other guys, which is something that you cannot accept.
so, why make things difficult ? forget abt her and move on...apparently the part of you nearly seeing her having sex with other guys is hanging over you .... -
f--- her, then dump her.
too many gers are like that. if they are so f---ing loose, why not make use of the opportunity? remember, if u dun do it, other people will treat her like a rifle range. so in the end, its all the same.
there is no such thing as "morals" in the society now. wat matters most is whether u r happy (and shiok) or not only.
so, own time own target, carry on. -
you are looking for the perfect relationship eh?
sad to say...hard to achieve nowadays... -
you still want to put a white towel on your wedding night?
well, frankly speaking, a gal's past is nothing, as long as her present and future belongs to you only...
everyone has their own past, and you cannot always dwell on it.
But i think all guys out there, understand where you are coming from..i mean, your so call witnessing the event, and asking you to accept it is abit too much.
but, if she is single now, and you really likes her, there it shldnt be a obstacle.
Tell her about how you feel, and say something sweet to her, eg, you will not mind as long as you and her are together from now onwards.. she will love you dearly..
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You find it hard to accept because she has sex with someone or you SAW her doing it with someone?Originally posted by Seth35:What do you all think if i rejected a Girl....Just because she had sex with other guys and i saw it during that time...And to me its hard to accept...
What she does should not matter to you if you love her. The issue of her past "experiences" are for her to handle, not you. But then again: You would rather find a person who is a virgin? Or ok if she is not? -
So can you actually accept her as who she is...? If she's not the type you would wanna go after, why regret..?Originally posted by Seth35:She and i are not attached...But i like her... But after that incident... I just Feel so disspointed... I didnt go after her... But now feeling a little regret....
And you mentioned that you 'reject' her...? What makes you think that she might be interested anyway even if you go after her...? -
hmmmmm.....Originally posted by Ristar:f--- her, then dump her.
too many gers are like that. if they are so f---ing loose, why not make use of the opportunity? remember, if u dun do it, other people will treat her like a rifle range. so in the end, its all the same.
there is no such thing as "morals" in the society now. wat matters most is whether u r happy (and shiok) or not only.
so, own time own target, carry on.
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but u can't expect her to be a virgin sia..
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you quite confused.
I only know you cannot accept that she had s3x with other men and almost saw it.
But I not sure you like her,
not sure why you want to go after her,
not sure why you can see her almost have s3x with other men
not sure why you regret
not sure why you cannot let her go