What will do you do if you were in my situation?
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It's been 2 yrs but you still feel sore.
Ok, so a guy, he likes you and you like him. He is popular with the girls.Something happened,he mocks at someone just because he knows I dun really like the person. The person feels upset.She then took this opportunity to get near to him. He makes use of this person to gets you jealous. You think it's because of some habits that you do, it's bad and he dun like it. You tried to change. Unsuccessful, but still a bit of change. A misunderstanding occurs and he sort of drifted from you. The girl keeps sticking to him. Everytime I see him, it's tat girl. I smile at the guy, the girl laugh at me. In the end, i look into his eyes, I cld feel that his feelings has been diminished. And the next time I saw him, he was speaking so close to the girl, comforting abt her results. I also have not so good results..why he didn't do the same??
Sorry, we never talk to each other except communicated in body language. I pass him a note to confess but he didn't reply..I thought he is shy or need some getting use to. But noo..in the end, this happens. The girl is a bully and she didn't do well in her exams. I am awlays late, absent from sch and didn't do well. Why the guy can be such a hypocrite to side with her??? Is been mean to others ok than me coming late, absenting??
What will you do in my position? Am I wrong or right in thinking that I will one day revenge her when the time comes? I sometimes feel that she's such a slut,knowing well we have feelings for each other and she just comes into the picture. Actually, what would you do? -
[quote]Originally posted by jam on a bread:
It's been 2 yrs but you still feel sore.
Ok, so a guy, he likes you and you like him. He is popular with the girls.Something happened,he mocks at someone just because he knows I dun really like the person. The person feels upset.She then took this opportunity to get near to him. He makes use of this person to gets you jealous. You think it's because of some habits that you do, it's bad and he dun like it. You tried to change. Unsuccessful, but still a bit of change. A misunderstanding occurs and he sort of drifted from you. The girl keeps sticking to him. Everytime I see him, it's tat girl. I smile at the guy, the girl laugh at me. In the end, i look into his eyes, I cld feel that his feelings has been diminished. And the next time I saw him, he was speaking so close to the girl, comforting abt her results. I also have not so good results..why he didn't do the same??
What do you like about this person? Is he handsome? He has a funny character? Or is it the "good gals like bad boys" syndrome? How well do you know him and how much you trust him?
Sorry, we never talk to each other except communicated in body language. I pass him a note to confess but he didn't reply..I thought he is shy or need some getting use to. But noo..in the end, this happens. The girl is a bully and she didn't do well in her exams. I am awlays late, absent from sch and didn't do well. Why the guy can be such a hypocrite to side with her??? Is been mean to others ok than me coming late, absenting??
Communicated in body language? Can you clarify on it? My 1st thought is something physical between you two. Why are you always late or absent? Is it to get his attention or is it your own characteristic to do so? Why do you think he is such a hypocrite?
What will you do in my position? Am I wrong or right in thinking that I will one day revenge her when the time comes? I sometimes feel that she's such a slut,knowing well we have feelings for each other and she just comes into the picture. Actually, what would you do?
There is no "right or wrong" in this case. Only who gets hurt more. Do you want that just to satisfy your vengeance of being hurt initially?
A classic example of "Guy likes girl A but gets closer to girl B".
I can only point out some questions based on what you have typed and see what answers you have. BUT regarding your question "Actually, what will you do?" ---> I will not hinder their relationship as friends or more. I have more things to enjoy then being fustrated over such matters. -
If he's not feeling the same for you now, why bother?Originally posted by jam on a bread:It's been 2 yrs but you still feel sore.
Ok, so a guy, he likes you and you like him. He is popular with the girls.Something happened,he mocks at someone just because he knows I dun really like the person. The person feels upset.She then took this opportunity to get near to him. He makes use of this person to gets you jealous. You think it's because of some habits that you do, it's bad and he dun like it. You tried to change. Unsuccessful, but still a bit of change. A misunderstanding occurs and he sort of drifted from you. The girl keeps sticking to him. Everytime I see him, it's tat girl. I smile at the guy, the girl laugh at me. In the end, i look into his eyes, I cld feel that his feelings has been diminished. And the next time I saw him, he was speaking so close to the girl, comforting abt her results. I also have not so good results..why he didn't do the same??
Sorry, we never talk to each other except communicated in body language. I pass him a note to confess but he didn't reply..I thought he is shy or need some getting use to. But noo..in the end, this happens. The girl is a bully and she didn't do well in her exams. I am awlays late, absent from sch and didn't do well. Why the guy can be such a hypocrite to side with her??? Is been mean to others ok than me coming late, absenting??
What will you do in my position? Am I wrong or right in thinking that I will one day revenge her when the time comes? I sometimes feel that she's such a slut,knowing well we have feelings for each other and she just comes into the picture. Actually, what would you do? -
still young XMM.... no need to worry abt such small stuff... since u pass a note, he dun move, then forget abt tat jerk... concentrate on ur work, u get success more better guys will take notice at u... theres many more mature guys out there so dun worry...Originally posted by jam on a bread:It's been 2 yrs but you still feel sore.
Ok, so a guy, he likes you and you like him. He is popular with the girls.Something happened,he mocks at someone just because he knows I dun really like the person. The person feels upset.She then took this opportunity to get near to him. He makes use of this person to gets you jealous. You think it's because of some habits that you do, it's bad and he dun like it. You tried to change. Unsuccessful, but still a bit of change. A misunderstanding occurs and he sort of drifted from you. The girl keeps sticking to him. Everytime I see him, it's tat girl. I smile at the guy, the girl laugh at me. In the end, i look into his eyes, I cld feel that his feelings has been diminished. And the next time I saw him, he was speaking so close to the girl, comforting abt her results. I also have not so good results..why he didn't do the same??
Sorry, we never talk to each other except communicated in body language. I pass him a note to confess but he didn't reply..I thought he is shy or need some getting use to. But noo..in the end, this happens. The girl is a bully and she didn't do well in her exams. I am awlays late, absent from sch and didn't do well. Why the guy can be such a hypocrite to side with her??? Is been mean to others ok than me coming late, absenting??
What will you do in my position? Am I wrong or right in thinking that I will one day revenge her when the time comes? I sometimes feel that she's such a slut,knowing well we have feelings for each other and she just comes into the picture. Actually, what would you do? -
Yeah, forget him. Why do you need to tolerate him and his behaviour, let him found out how bad this gal for himself and if he comes back to you. Dun be so soft hearted as to accept him, since he abandoned you once. You dun need guys like this.Originally posted by jam on a bread:It's been 2 yrs but you still feel sore.
Ok, so a guy, he likes you and you like him. He is popular with the girls.Something happened,he mocks at someone just because he knows I dun really like the person. The person feels upset.She then took this opportunity to get near to him. He makes use of this person to gets you jealous. You think it's because of some habits that you do, it's bad and he dun like it. You tried to change. Unsuccessful, but still a bit of change. A misunderstanding occurs and he sort of drifted from you. The girl keeps sticking to him. Everytime I see him, it's tat girl. I smile at the guy, the girl laugh at me. In the end, i look into his eyes, I cld feel that his feelings has been diminished. And the next time I saw him, he was speaking so close to the girl, comforting abt her results. I also have not so good results..why he didn't do the same??
Sorry, we never talk to each other except communicated in body language. I pass him a note to confess but he didn't reply..I thought he is shy or need some getting use to. But noo..in the end, this happens. The girl is a bully and she didn't do well in her exams. I am awlays late, absent from sch and didn't do well. Why the guy can be such a hypocrite to side with her??? Is been mean to others ok than me coming late, absenting??
What will you do in my position? Am I wrong or right in thinking that I will one day revenge her when the time comes? I sometimes feel that she's such a slut,knowing well we have feelings for each other and she just comes into the picture. Actually, what would you do? -
actually i dun really get wat u mean..
are u trying to say u are not a gd student, always skip classes, din get gd results... but the girl is worse than u? and u feel unjustified that she gets all his attention and stuff?
y compare?
if his heart is not with u liao, he can do all he want and dun care about ur feelings. -
Originally posted by Bontakun:
Sorry, took so long to reply..
[b][quote]Originally posted by jam on a bread:
It's been 2 yrs but you still feel sore.
Ok, so a guy, he likes you and you like him. He is popular with the girls.Something happened,he mocks at someone just because he knows I dun really like the person. The person feels upset.She then took this opportunity to get near to him. He makes use of this person to gets you jealous. You think it's because of some habits that you do, it's bad and he dun like it. You tried to change. Unsuccessful, but still a bit of change. A misunderstanding occurs and he sort of drifted from you. The girl keeps sticking to him. Everytime I see him, it's tat girl. I smile at the guy, the girl laugh at me. In the end, i look into his eyes, I cld feel that his feelings has been diminished. And the next time I saw him, he was speaking so close to the girl, comforting abt her results. I also have not so good results..why he didn't do the same??
What do you like about this person? Is he handsome? He has a funny character? Or is it the "good gals like bad boys" syndrome? How well do you know him and how much you trust him?
Sorry, we never talk to each other except communicated in body language. I pass him a note to confess but he didn't reply..I thought he is shy or need some getting use to. But noo..in the end, this happens. The girl is a bully and she didn't do well in her exams. I am awlays late, absent from sch and didn't do well. Why the guy can be such a hypocrite to side with her??? Is been mean to others ok than me coming late, absenting??
Communicated in body language? Can you clarify on it? My 1st thought is something physical between you two. Why are you always late or absent? Is it to get his attention or is it your own characteristic to do so? Why do you think he is such a hypocrite?
What will you do in my position? Am I wrong or right in thinking that I will one day revenge her when the time comes? I sometimes feel that she's such a slut,knowing well we have feelings for each other and she just comes into the picture. Actually, what would you do?
There is no "right or wrong" in this case. Only who gets hurt more. Do you want that just to satisfy your vengeance of being hurt initially?
A classic example of "Guy likes girl A but gets closer to girl B".
I can only point out some questions based on what you have typed and see what answers you have. BUT regarding your question "Actually, what will you do?" ---> I will not hinder their relationship as friends or more. I have more things to enjoy then being fustrated over such matters.[/b]
What I like abt him? I dunno..I just like him..at first, I dun have a good impression of him cause he has that heck-care attitude. Erm, ya, he is handsom, if not why girls come to him, right? I have heard that a lot of girls have a crush on him too.
We communicated in body language, not having an affair lol. As in, we wld smile at each other, we wld stare at each other for quite long and he wld be going glassy eyes on me.
Why am I always late and absenting? I find school really draining my esteem and energy..the feelings I got in school is lost,depressed and hopeless. How wld I have the motivation to go to school? Erm.., I have to admit, ya, I sometimes come late to get his attention.
Why is he a hypocrite? tat's cause he doesn't like ppl who bully me and yet he goes with the girl that is the mastermind behind my bullying? isn't that hypocrite or what? His friends are those that also come late..so I dun get it why is he hating on me doing this? or issit his friends dun like, then he also follow them dun like? It isn't the first day he knows me anyway.. -
haix, what you are trying to say is totally opposite. That girl instead, is jealous and unjustified that I got his attention. Her and her frens likes to flirt with him..ever since I appeared, he didn't and one of the girl's fren is like..jealous..she was staring daggers at me when I walked pass. Later, she even scream in the toilet to release her frustrations.Originally posted by browniebaobao:actually i dun really get wat u mean..
are u trying to say u are not a gd student, always skip classes, din get gd results... but the girl is worse than u? and u feel unjustified that she gets all his attention and stuff?
y compare?
if his heart is not with u liao, he can do all he want and dun care about ur feelings.
So I am guessing that by sending one girl off to stick to the guy, the guy will finally retaliate and gave in? What's the purpose of a relationship then? I am soo totally disappointed..because of this..I dunno whether I cld keep a relationship going..it's like..so fragile.. -
erm.. erm...Originally posted by jam on a bread:haix, what you are trying to say is totally opposite. That girl instead, is jealous and unjustified that I got his attention. Her and her frens likes to flirt with him..ever since I appeared, he didn't and one of the girl's fren is like..jealous..she was staring daggers at me when I walked pass. Later, she even scream in the toilet to release her frustrations.
So I am guessing that by sending one girl off to stick to the guy, the guy will finally retaliate and gave in? What's the purpose of a relationship then? I am soo totally disappointed..because of this..I dunno whether I cld keep a relationship going..it's like..so fragile..
i duno wat to say.. -
Hmm.. Give tat guy up!!!
If he likes you, he would most prob be standing by your side, etc.. Not with some other gals..
Okie.. U might think he's doing tat to stir up jealousy in you, increasing his self esteem tat he's popular guy.. Alot of gals are swarming up to him like bees to honey..
Is it worth it gaL??? To gain his attention, u purposely come to school late.. etc, etc, etc..
Gal.. Ur school mates R the most wonderful pals u could make.. Esp those in sec school.. As u move up.. Thru schools, society.. Plp change.. No longer is there the innocence air of friendship..
Conc on ur school work for now.. Take up on a new CCA.. Take ur attention away from this guy.. He's onli a attention grabber.. I guess he isn serious abt any gals yet.. He doesn wants to be commited coz onli then.. He'll get all the attention he wants..
Think of ur future.. Who will suffer in the end? It's onLi urself.. & when u start having regrets, it'll be too late..
I motivate myself to study in tis way.. Whenever i think of the someone whom i wanna forget.. Or dun like, etc.. sAy.. tis guy of urs.. I would think.. Hmm.. Nx time i'm goin to be beta off then him! coz i'm gonna work hard, etc.. Have a beta life..
Find someone who loves mi with all his heart.. etc..