Help needed:What would u do if u're me?
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I had a sis(bio-sis, not god-sis) who I loved very much. She was with this guy for quite a long time. Sis was crazy over him, she just can't afford to lose him. However in the other hand, that guy, Alan(fake name) was not really very serious about their relationship. They even broke off twice but in the end patched back.
Sis was really depressed sometime, I can see that she really loved him very much. Just a few days ago, Alan even asked her to join a gang and sis found out that he was playing with drugs. Fortunately, sis didn't accept his offer. I was damn worried about her, I asked sis to break off with him last saturday but she did not. Now I don't know what to do anymore. I had thought of calling the police, reporting Alan that he was a drug abuse. But I don't have the evidences. Moreover, sis could even get into trouble too. I'm really out of ideas now. PLEASE guys, help my sis to get out of this shyt.. -
Put your sis at home for one day, call the mata. Make sure you know that guy live where also.
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Seems like you dont have much influence over your sis.
Nothing much you can do too if you dont want to involve her in any trouble. -
call SOS hotline.
i am sure they have people who knows how to handle such situations.
how will common folks like us know what advice to give? -
They are also common folks too , but alas they are more experienced as they probably have other similar cases to refer to , and also are more aware of the legal implications to handle the matterOriginally posted by dragg:call SOS hotline.
i am sure they have people who knows how to handle such situations.
how will common folks like us know what advice to give? -
anything, call police. if unsure, call again.
such sh-t bags must be dealt with to the fullest extent of the law.
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If u know where that guy lives, call the police and report his case.
You'll be doing ur sister a big favour. She may be mad at u now, but in future, she'll thank u for it. -
Are you on good terms with your sis? Does she talk to you and confide in you...? Trust you much...?Originally posted by ChairmanJay:I had a sis(bio-sis, not god-sis) who I loved very much. She was with this guy for quite a long time. Sis was crazy over him, she just can't afford to lose him. However in the other hand, that guy, Alan(fake name) was not really very serious about their relationship. They even broke off twice but in the end patched back.
Sis was really depressed sometime, I can see that she really loved him very much. Just a few days ago, Alan even asked her to join a gang and sis found out that he was playing with drugs. Fortunately, sis didn't accept his offer. I was damn worried about her, I asked sis to break off with him last saturday but she did not. Now I don't know what to do anymore. I had thought of calling the police, reporting Alan that he was a drug abuse. But I don't have the evidences. Moreover, sis could even get into trouble too. I'm really out of ideas now. PLEASE guys, help my sis to get out of this shyt.. -
Hmm... talk to your sis nicely and slowly get her to confide in you and trust you. Tell her that to help pull her out of all this mess, she's going to have to cooperate with the police.
Get the guy's personal details (name, contact information) and go down to the police station together to file a report. In the long run, that seems to be the only tenable solution. Otherwise, that drug-pushing gangster is going to harass her to no end. -
tell ur parents.
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Call the cops when that guy appears in your house looking dazed or if u see him taking / injecting.