what u do
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what do u do when u r invited to a function that u don't like to ppl there but still got to go, that 3hrs stay felt like 300years kind of feeling, where ppl there also don't like u and it felt so awkward that u wish time run fast, and feeling so heavy until the day u left that place. what do u do
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i would not attend in the first place. Give lots of excuses. Wad for make urself so unwelcome n uneasy??
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halfway find excuse to leave
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attempt to boycott the party and make u the center of attration.
the best is make many many excuses say u canot turn up. tell them ur best friend wedding u whole day bo eng.
tell them u last min food poisoning, and attempt to show MC as proof.
tell them ur mum wants u to go shopping with her and she'll disown u if u dun go.
tell them u got lots of unfinihsed work to do and if u dun finish them by b4 the next day u'll get sacked/detention
tell them its u and ur gf anniversary and u have to spend it with her. what anniversary also can from 1st kiss to wedding or 1st day of pak tor. girls will simply remember so many 1st until u can use every single 1 of them to avoid some stupid events u dun wana go.
tell them u forgot unintentionally due to heavy workload.
or simply tell them the truth y u dun wish to be there. -
hmmm it would be strange for u to be invited to a function that ppl dont like u, but I suppose if u really have to go.. show ur face for 15-30 mins then go off.... you shouldnt be missedOriginally posted by alba:what do u do when u r invited to a function that u don't like to ppl there but still got to go, that 3hrs stay felt like 300years kind of feeling, where ppl there also don't like u and it felt so awkward that u wish time run fast, and feeling so heavy until the day u left that place. what do u do -
try to escape using excuses or feign sickness
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I'll just migrate to a corner and be cool with myself...Originally posted by alba:what do u do when u r invited to a function that u don't like to ppl there but still got to go, that 3hrs stay felt like 300years kind of feeling, where ppl there also don't like u and it felt so awkward that u wish time run fast, and feeling so heavy until the day u left that place. what do u do -
Ya oso can if u reli got no choice lor...Originally posted by Devil1976:I'll just migrate to a corner and be cool with myself...
Stay at home n nuah la...... -
the problem is to attend a close family reunion that can't be avoided.
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Oh, surely ter is someone who u can hang out with? Ur sibling? Or just stick to ur parents lor...Originally posted by alba:the problem is to attend a close family reunion that can't be avoided.
If its like a big group, no one shd be able to notice ur absence?? -
i will take my mp3 and listen...and take a book out and read...Originally posted by alba:what do u do when u r invited to a function that u don't like to ppl there but still got to go, that 3hrs stay felt like 300years kind of feeling, where ppl there also don't like u and it felt so awkward that u wish time run fast, and feeling so heavy until the day u left that place. what do u do -
you owe it to yourself not to waste your own time.
Option :
1. Learn better excuses
2. Go but Do not hang around for more than 30 mins.
3. Die die must go, then find some activity to keep you occupied.
Your choice - but its just that you didn't think about how to use your time better so that next time you would not be griping. -
But I don't like to be 'nuah' ley....?Originally posted by Cool-gal:Ya oso can if u reli got no choice lor...
Stay at home n nuah la......
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wear a mask there...so no one noe you...haha...
or...
show face, tok cock a bit to the host / the ppl that need to noe you are there...then scoot off to the lobby or toilet and hide loh.. -
close family reunion eh...
this 1 tough nut. unless ur parents are very cooperative if not its hard for u to avoid. talk to ur parents about how u feel about going to the reunion and see what they say. -
or u can go...tui diao with the person u dun like...then whack him...make alot of news...haha...
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if it's frens party, i wun go.
if relatives.. no choice.
but tell urself, juz make the best out of it lor.
sometimes things will turn out unexpectedy good.
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Reunions of relatives are the worst.
A few years back my motherÂ’s mother or grandmother passed away. Quite sad then
The worst thing is during the funeral, when relatives from my father side came in one whole group to pay their respect.
2002 was a bad year so due to some reasons, I have to take up temporary store assistant position for an income for a short period of time.
Right in front of everyone, my mother and her big mouth has to go and tell people I am useless, working as store assistant only. $5.50/hr.
Wah piangz,
I was just beside her, really paiseh
At that moment I was thinking, “How I wish I was the one lying in the coffin instead”
Although I got a much better permanent job now but that was some kind of nightmare until now
On the whole my mother always likes to criticize me so I never like reunions with relatives and try to come out with some excuses to avoid. Like work, studies related commitment
If friends function, I believe there are one or two closer friends u will meet there. If I were you, I will stick to them. you don't have to always stay in the main hall -
hang around in some corner by myself lor.