That girl attached or not? Would she be interested in you or not?Originally posted by Simpleheat:Feeling confuse and not sure my feeling now!
Just few months ago! I have uncondition love for my darling! Love her very deep. But recently know a gal. A dream gal which i always think will exist only in my dream. At the first of exquistence,i find her very quiet ,unappealing and moody lady which virtually i have no positive feeling towards her. After a few more days of communication,we start to have more than just work talk and I saw her smile which is very sweet( a contrasting viewof her cold look I encounter on the first day).
She is not as quiet as she appears to be,she can joke with you when u know her more and not as bore as I think! In fact,she is a very caring and gentle lady. Once I accidently injured my hands and bleeds,she use her hand and quickly wipe my dirty blood off without hestitation and ask me for my well-being. Then there is once i was sick and inform her of her situation and i happen to tell her casually that i have a review check up for my illness. She can remember exactly the day before i need to go for review and remind me of it! After a few weeks I will say i was a little touch by her action! A really thoughtful and gentle lady..
A very well-manner ,sensible lady who will wait for all her know colleage to come before eating as they are all still queuing up! I was a bit surprise and embarrass by her act! I was digging in on my lunch while she sat there quietly and patiently waiting for other colleage(my colleage too) to all gather and sit down for their lunch before starting for her meal! Just like little well-manner children waiting for all the elders to sit first before touching the untensils for food. I was a little uneasy by her act and i too slowly put down my utensil and waits for other to arrive before handling the food. She also eat plainly and never wear branded clothes like her peer. She basically lives simplely. Never club,smoke and no bad habits.
While her working attitude is all employer likes to employ. She works non-stop from the moment she steps in office to the working time it ends. She is not those who really finds nothing to do,will see down surf the net a while or taking a small coffee break. She just continue to search and asking for work to do,no matter how difficult or tough the task is. She works sensibily by asking questions for every new task given to her. Showing she don works blindly.. She will volunteer to do the works herself and even do works quietly so as not to her so called ' trouble others' . She is those type who will try her best to do everythings herself and only seek help when impossible to handle that task like carry a 30 kg load. Then she will seek help. She is very courteous and will say thank you all the times after a task is complete and every single help without fail.
To me,she is just like an angel... She still got which too many virtues to mentions in her! I was like ' Can such gal still possible to exist in this world?'
Today,I have a fight with my ger over a small issue and have some different views on a matter and she throws tantrum and act like a child. I was quite pissed off and suddenly think whether will we have this kind of incident often after we married. I told myself I don want to get into this kind of misery! Now,I start to consider our r/s liao.But my ger is also a very sweet ger who do many good things for me too which i will never forget!. She is also a very good gal who never club and a homely gal.
Now i am confused why my consideration of my r/s with my ger is becos my encounter of this super good gal which shaken my unqestionable love for my ger or really becos of the small incident over her tantrum that shaken that my future,like with my ger will be a mistakes! Btw, i still love my ger a lot but I scare future such incident will ruin my life in future?
Is it me changing of heart or not???
Today,I have a fight with my ger over a small issue and have some different views on a matter and she throws tantrum and act like a child. I was quite pissed off and suddenly think whether will we have this kind of incident often after we married. I told myself I don want to get into this kind of misery! Now,I start to consider our r/s liao.But my ger is also a very sweet ger who do many good things for me too which i will never forget!. She is also a very good gal who never club and a homely gal.i feel you man..
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No one is perfect.Originally posted by Simpleheat:Feeling confuse and not sure my feeling now!
Just few months ago! I have uncondition love for my darling! Love her very deep. But recently know a gal. A dream gal which i always think will exist only in my dream. At the first of exquistence,i find her very quiet ,unappealing and moody lady which virtually i have no positive feeling towards her. After a few more days of communication,we start to have more than just work talk and I saw her smile which is very sweet( a contrasting viewof her cold look I encounter on the first day).
She is not as quiet as she appears to be,she can joke with you when u know her more and not as bore as I think! In fact,she is a very caring and gentle lady. Once I accidently injured my hands and bleeds,she use her hand and quickly wipe my dirty blood off without hestitation and ask me for my well-being. Then there is once i was sick and inform her of her situation and i happen to tell her casually that i have a review check up for my illness. She can remember exactly the day before i need to go for review and remind me of it! After a few weeks I will say i was a little touch by her action! A really thoughtful and gentle lady..
A very well-manner ,sensible lady who will wait for all her know colleage to come before eating as they are all still queuing up! I was a bit surprise and embarrass by her act! I was digging in on my lunch while she sat there quietly and patiently waiting for other colleage(my colleage too) to all gather and sit down for their lunch before starting for her meal! Just like little well-manner children waiting for all the elders to sit first before touching the untensils for food. I was a little uneasy by her act and i too slowly put down my utensil and waits for other to arrive before handling the food. She also eat plainly and never wear branded clothes like her peer. She basically lives simplely. Never club,smoke and no bad habits.
While her working attitude is all employer likes to employ. She works non-stop from the moment she steps in office to the working time it ends. She is not those who really finds nothing to do,will see down surf the net a while or taking a small coffee break. She just continue to search and asking for work to do,no matter how difficult or tough the task is. She works sensibily by asking questions for every new task given to her. Showing she don works blindly.. She will volunteer to do the works herself and even do works quietly so as not to her so called ' trouble others' . She is those type who will try her best to do everythings herself and only seek help when impossible to handle that task like carry a 30 kg load. Then she will seek help. She is very courteous and will say thank you all the times after a task is complete and every single help without fail.
To me,she is just like an angel... She still got which too many virtues to mentions in her! I was like ' Can such gal still possible to exist in this world?'
Today,I have a fight with my ger over a small issue and have some different views on a matter and she throws tantrum and act like a child. I was quite pissed off and suddenly think whether will we have this kind of incident often after we married. I told myself I don want to get into this kind of misery! Now,I start to consider our r/s liao.But my ger is also a very sweet ger who do many good things for me too which i will never forget!. She is also a very good gal who never club and a homely gal.
Now i am confused why my consideration of my r/s with my ger is becos my encounter of this super good gal which shaken my unqestionable love for my ger or really becos of the small incident over her tantrum that shaken that my future,like with my ger will be a mistakes! Btw, i still love my ger a lot but I scare future such incident will ruin my life in future?
Is it me changing of heart or not???
Dun shit where you eat, if something goes wrong where to hide your faceOriginally posted by Berserk79:i feel you man..
i broke up wif my GF 2 weeks ago becuz of her bad temper..
Always like to use anger to get her way.
If she's oredi like this within 9 months of us gettin' together, what would happen after we get married?
i dun flinch at the thought of coming home to be berated/ shouted at when i want to rest/ have some peace & quiet..
There wasn't other 'external' factors for my case though..
i think you worry that if u dun act fast, the nice work at ur workplace might be snatched away rite?
This bring another point. Is it really wise to have a relationship at ur workplace? What if breakup etc? Even relationship is gettin along work, there'll still be gossips..
Take it easy bro![]()
Originally posted by countdracula:to the dude who dumped the angry gf after 9 months, well done...you just extended your life by a decade....
To me,she is just like an angel... She still got which too many virtues to mentions in her! I was like ' Can such gal still possible to exist in this world?'y not?
Yeaps... agree with brownie..Originally posted by browniebaobao:y not?
i think it's pretty common mah.. the things she did.
im also kinda like her.
the only difference is i dun use my hand to wipe off the blood hor.. i use tissue.
u claimed that u love ur gf unconditionally and deep.
somehow i dun feel it that way leh..
u know this ger for a few days only and u are shaken.
how deep is ur love?
and it's unfair of u to compare ur gf with her.