Falling back for the previous girl.
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Sorry if this topic is improper for this thread.
well, i have a simple question and need opinion from all of u
Say one guy likes this girl for quite sometime. But after few years didn't meet, he 'lost' his feeling to the girl and start seeing other girls around him. But when they finally meet again, he felt that he's "in love" with the girl again.
What will u guys say about this guy? he doesn't know about love, flower hearted, or anything else?
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My thread not interesting enough? i was hoping for at least 1 reply.
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go for it.
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its not love yet lah....its attraction! anyway, go for it loh. u never know.
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its not that your thread is not interesting enough. its just that its not the peak period when you post at this time so not many people will reply. its a sunday morning! people would be still sleeping or going out so not many will be at home to post
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why are we still around then??????? must get ready to go out!!!!Originally posted by jaydunkfull:its not that your thread is not interesting enough. its just that its not the peak period when you post at this time so not many people will reply. its a sunday morning! people would be still sleeping or going out so not many will be at home to post -
You must ask urself is it love or it might be because last time u can't get her so now u saw her then suddenly u wan to prove u can get her.
I think u should ask ur feelings, don tell me the rest of ur gf cannot make a match with her? -
Either there's this thing call true love or the girl is friggy chio..
Go la.. no harm going for her rite? Gd luck.
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did the guy chase the girl that time?
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DUn pretend pretend.. who else? u lor..Originally posted by R3SsH|n:did the guy chase the girl that time? -
suo wei 'xian lu wei zhu' lor.
wat comes first is always the priority. -
no harm trying what
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yes, he did. almost got dy. the girl liked him too. but somehow failed because of the sudden distance.originally posted by R3SsH|n:did the guy chase the girl that time? -
support u all the way!!!
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the guy wants to know the other side of "what if..." ...Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:yes, he did. almost got dy. the girl liked him too. but somehow failed because of the sudden distance.
what if they went together...what will happen...all those qns unanswered...
i wouldn't say its love or not...more like being inclined to fullfilling something that wasn't done the first time...its like the guy wanted to know what will happen had the guy went steady with the girl...
to cover up all possibilities of the disappointment of not knowing what could have been... -
Make sense...Originally posted by R3SsH|n:the guy wants to know the other side of "what if..." ...
what if they went together...what will happen...all those qns unanswered...
i wouldn't say its love or not...more like being inclined to fullfilling something that wasn't done the first time...its like the guy wanted to know what will happen had the guy went steady with the girl...
to cover up all possibilities of the disappointment of not knowing what could have been...
what's your (anyone also can) advise to the guy? Forget about that gal or go for it? -
how come moderater has no comment on this thread?
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I would say that the stage the guy is in right now is infatuation and having attraction for somebody he hasn't meet for a long time.Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:Sorry if this topic is improper for this thread.
well, i have a simple question and need opinion from all of u
Say one guy likes this girl for quite sometime. But after few years didn't meet, he 'lost' his feeling to the girl and start seeing other girls around him. But when they finally meet again, he felt that he's "in love" with the girl again.
What will u guys say about this guy? he doesn't know about love, flower hearted, or anything else?
feedback pls.
It's normal to have that kind of feeling especially when he once liked the girl alot. However, he mustn't mistake attraction for love.
All I can say is, he should give himself some time to get acquainted to the girl again. Get to know her once more and see if he really want to make a decision to ask her out someday. Take it slow and don't rush. -
i think you should wait patiently for advice....Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:Make sense...
what's your (anyone also can) advise to the guy? Forget about that gal or go for it? -
oops jz saw the above reply.... well since u almost there liao then its jz fulfill the feelings in u.... but tat doesnt prevent u from anything so u can go ahead n chase her again....Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:Sorry if this topic is improper for this thread.
well, i have a simple question and need opinion from all of u
Say one guy likes this girl for quite sometime. But after few years didn't meet, he 'lost' his feeling to the girl and start seeing other girls around him. But when they finally meet again, he felt that he's "in love" with the girl again.
What will u guys say about this guy? he doesn't know about love, flower hearted, or anything else?
feedback pls. -
Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:Sorry if this topic is improper for this thread.
well, i have a simple question and need opinion from all of u
Say one guy likes this girl for quite sometime. But after few years didn't meet, he 'lost' his feeling to the girl and start seeing other girls around him. But when they finally meet again, he felt that he's "in love" with the girl again.
What will u guys say about this guy? he doesn't know about love, flower hearted, or anything else?
feedback pls.
Love is like energy - it cannot be created nor destroyed; it can only be transferred. Therefore, despite the length of years, this hidden feelings remain.
It's not about the guy - it's about what the guy plans to do.
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its not love, its just the feeling of not willing 2 accept defeat. U didn't win her heart the 1st time round, so when she comes back into your life again, u want 2 win her heart.
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hmm....lots of feedback that make sense....if i were to combine all, it will become "it's not love, it's the guy want to fullfill what he had not done in the past, but no harm chasing the girl anyway, but must be patience and no rush"
so, if it's not love, why still ask the guy to go for it??? this part i dun understand.
And Yunhair, can clarify your statement "it's not about the guy, it's about what the guy wants to do"? -
Btw, it's yunhaier - not yunhair.Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:hmm....lots of feedback that make sense....if i were to combine all, it will become "it's not love, it's the guy want to fullfill what he had not done in the past, but no harm chasing the girl anyway, but must be patience and no rush"
so, if it's not love, why still ask the guy to go for it??? this part i dun understand.
And Yunhair, can clarify your statement "it's not about the guy, it's about what the guy wants to do"?
You are asking for feedbacks regarding what we think about this guy, when in actual fact, that doesn't really matter much more than what he wants to do about it.
I am fine with the feelings - however, you has lost contact with her previously (probably due to untold circumstances or passiveness), how do you think you could go about doing it, which you hasn't even 'worked' for it in the past and decides to question your own feelings and wondering if it was Love?
You are waiting for the cows... waiting for an answer to slip into your head, when you should be searching for your own answer and find your own meaning in love.
The answer to your question lies in your action.
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its not call love...... its probably called crushOriginally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:Sorry if this topic is improper for this thread.
well, i have a simple question and need opinion from all of u
Say one guy likes this girl for quite sometime. But after few years didn't meet, he 'lost' his feeling to the girl and start seeing other girls around him. But when they finally meet again, he felt that he's "in love" with the girl again.
What will u guys say about this guy? he doesn't know about love, flower hearted, or anything else?
feedback pls.
there's a difference between like, love and crush...