why do i always make mistakes?
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I donno why..in the past whenever i work..n now in army..i always make mistakes when i'm given a task, whether simple or difficult..i tried my best le..but still cant get a simple job done..is it becos i lack confidence? or i lack concentration? or i suffering from depression? Does anyone experience this?
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wad mistake?
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last time u never realize your mistake.
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care to elaborate more?Originally posted by lktlkygr:I donno why..in the past whenever i work..n now in army..i always make mistakes when i'm given a task, whether simple or difficult..i tried my best le..but still cant get a simple job done..is it becos i lack confidence? or i lack concentration? or i suffering from depression? Does anyone experience this? -
bcoz u r demoralised, u r lazy.. unmotivated... just like me...
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Think too much maybe?Originally posted by lktlkygr:I donno why..in the past whenever i work..n now in army..i always make mistakes when i'm given a task, whether simple or difficult..i tried my best le..but still cant get a simple job done..is it becos i lack confidence? or i lack concentration? or i suffering from depression? Does anyone experience this? -
you were always using your heart to think instead of your head... try using the latter!Originally posted by lktlkygr:I donno why..in the past whenever i work..n now in army..i always make mistakes when i'm given a task, whether simple or difficult..i tried my best le..but still cant get a simple job done..is it becos i lack confidence? or i lack concentration? or i suffering from depression? Does anyone experience this?
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analyse ur mistake and dun make it again. u'll be fine
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PM stooky. u 2 can exchange tips.
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It's okay to make mistakes. In fact, it's not okay to not make mistakes.
Maybe you're just not "enlightened" yet. It's like playing Puzzle-Bubble, or Tetris, or something that's got to do with repetitive actions. You can play those games 1000 times and yet still not get significantly better, then suddenly one day you go "OH! It's actually much better to do it this way!"
When you next perform the task you always err in, be more observant of your own actions and try to see if you can spot anything that's causing the repeated mistakes.
Being more careful the second time doesn't help. You need to know WHYYYYYYYYYYYYY.
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me too & i guess just have to live with it
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i have the same problem as u... however, i am still finding out why >.<
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'Why do we fall, Bruce? So we can learn to pick ourselves up.'
Go figure. -
time to buy a doraemon~!
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u in the army so u follow instruction "just do it, don't think" by the officers
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Maybe you are overconfidence or expect too much, so when the result did not turn out the way you want them to be, you thought you screwed it up
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I experienced this during a period in my life as well. Now that I think back, I believe there are several contributing factors
- stubbornness: unwilling to accept that I was fully responsible for the mistakes I made.
- naiveity: Lack of experience in handling the tasks given to me. Also never bothered to ask people when I was unsure, and made assumptions which turned out to be wrong.
- Snap decisions: I didn't bother to think though the task thoroughly and calmly.
- Overconfidence/Lack of confidence: prior to this cock up period in my life, I was enjoying some degree of success in what I did, and that built up my pride such that it got in the way of learning. Even as I realised that what I was doing was not working, I resisted change and refused to humble myself to learn from others. So basically, deep down my confidence was shaken, and that made me kanchiong spider. But because of pride, I refused to accept that I was screwing up. This is a recipe for disaster. -
agree with what le cruz is saying.. tho if u seem to be making more mistakes in army.. prob not your fault. as i learnt in sispec, no matter how much they pressure u to make it happen, if the situation dun allow. LLST! but if outside army also make a lot of mistakes, that makes u smarter if u learn from them yeah?