Feeling possesive

• Texcoco II

  20 Aug 06, 11:00

  is it normal to feel more possessive about a relationship?
  
  is there anyway or any mindset i should employ, to take things cool? i.e. be concerned enough so she feels it, but not come across as someone too uptight, who gets annoyed/jealous over small things.
  
  
• trendz

  20 Aug 06, 11:42

  you'll have a highly irritating partner. beware.
• Seth35

  20 Aug 06, 12:15

  OooH Yes ! I have a Classmate i Used to like Just like that...Highly Irritable and jealous over small little things...
• Devil1976

  21 Aug 06, 00:16

  Originally posted by Texcoco II:

  is it normal to feel more possessive about a relationship?
  
  is there anyway or any mindset i should employ, to take things cool? i.e. be concerned enough so she feels it, but not come across as someone too uptight, who gets annoyed/jealous over small things.
  
  

  How to tell you...? I think it really depends on who your gf is....?
• Bontakun

  21 Aug 06, 00:18

  Originally posted by Texcoco II:

  is it normal to feel more possessive about a relationship?
  
  is there anyway or any mindset i should employ, to take things cool? i.e. be concerned enough so she feels it, but not come across as someone too uptight, who gets annoyed/jealous over small things.
  
  

  You dun trust your partner dats y you possessive?
• orange88

  21 Aug 06, 00:40

  Originally posted by Texcoco II:

  is it normal to feel more possessive about a relationship?
  
  is there anyway or any mindset i should employ, to take things cool? i.e. be concerned enough so she feels it, but not come across as someone too uptight, who gets annoyed/jealous over small things.
  
  

  some people like the possesive feeling but eventually they'll regret it in the future
• R3SsH|n

  21 Aug 06, 02:13

  Originally posted by Texcoco II:

  is it normal to feel more possessive about a relationship?
  
  is there anyway or any mindset i should employ, to take things cool? i.e. be concerned enough so she feels it, but not come across as someone too uptight, who gets annoyed/jealous over small things.
  
  

  trust her...
• de_middle

  21 Aug 06, 08:54

  Originally posted by Texcoco II:

  is it normal to feel more possessive about a relationship?
  
  is there anyway or any mindset i should employ, to take things cool? i.e. be concerned enough so she feels it, but not come across as someone too uptight, who gets annoyed/jealous over small things.
  
  

  u scared eh
• ha8n

  21 Aug 06, 11:02

  when ur uptight , she says ur possesive
  
  when u do not care, she says ur insensitive
  
  >>>girls ...
• pwnz0r

  21 Aug 06, 11:14

  You also go around enjoy other girl's company. See whether she also feel the same way. Then from time to time, keep mentioning about this girl that you go out with alot. Sure fun one!!
• carlsonxjd

  21 Aug 06, 15:03

  Originally posted by pwnz0r:

  You also go around enjoy other girl's company. See whether she also feel the same way. Then from time to time, keep mentioning about this girl that you go out with alot. Sure fun one!!

  go try!!
• ^spidee^

  21 Aug 06, 15:07

  Originally posted by ha8n:

  when ur uptight , she says ur possesive
  
  when u do not care, she says ur insensitive
  
  >>>girls ...

  True true. Must find an equlilibrium.
• qooorange

  25 Aug 06, 23:44

  Originally posted by Texcoco II:

  is it normal to feel more possessive about a relationship?
  
  is there anyway or any mindset i should employ, to take things cool? i.e. be concerned enough so she feels it, but not come across as someone too uptight, who gets annoyed/jealous over small things.
  
  

  u r not confident of yourself/// that's why
• orange88

  26 Aug 06, 11:42

  ^ another orange, lol
• darknessfall

  26 Aug 06, 12:21

  no offence to gals out there..
  but to guys: too possesive, the gals will say you control them too much
  too much freedom, the gals will says you dont care about them..
  
  sigh...so strike an understanding with your partner, and see what type of person he or she is.
• SGpork

  26 Aug 06, 12:22

  Originally posted by ha8n:

  when ur uptight , she says ur possesive
  
  when u do not care, she says ur insensitive
  
  >>>girls ...

  
  
  so how? what to do ?
  
  
  
  
• hyperactivechatterbox

  26 Aug 06, 23:08

  I think that you could show by little physical contacts like eg. Holding her hands, Lending her your jacket, but you know all that, right?
• alfagal

  26 Aug 06, 23:15

  it works either 2 ways
  
  e gal is too playful or flirty,
  or
  u are jus a person who is simply insecure
  
  more possibly the second one?
• purple_ice

  27 Aug 06, 01:43

  i used to b a possesive girl.. that is becos i have been betrayed by others b4.. it took mi almost 1 yr to try to learn to trust n give him more freedom... during that period of time, i always scared he will run away with other cos i might nt b good enough for him, but i slowly realised that if he really wishes to run off, y should i force to keep such a lousy guy by my side? so everytime i tout of this, i will feel much better... girls out there, a piece of advise for u, guy that will run off, u can nv tied them down. dun waste ur time...
• Devil1976

  4 Sep 06, 00:51

  Originally posted by purple_ice:

  i used to b a possesive girl.. that is becos i have been betrayed by others b4.. it took mi almost 1 yr to try to learn to trust n give him more freedom... during that period of time, i always scared he will run away with other cos i might nt b good enough for him, but i slowly realised that if he really wishes to run off, y should i force to keep such a lousy guy by my side? so everytime i tout of this, i will feel much better... girls out there, a piece of advise for u, guy that will run off, u can nv tied them down. dun waste ur time...

  Hmm... How true..?
• compadre

  4 Sep 06, 01:01

  every girl is different....really need to adapt accordingly to different circumstances.... but i guess most girls would not be irritated by occasional small gifts/cards...