What should I do?
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I got to know this girl since I started my studies in Feb this year. Now that it have been already 6 months. In school, we are usually together. Honestly speaking, I really like her a lot. During our short break of like 1 week or so, I do not get to see her. I felt quite uncomfortable for not seeing her. I did not want to call her as I am afraid that she may find me annoying and irritating, which she doesn't like. Who likes right?
Our course is ending in a few months time. After that, we may not be able to meet up that often anymore. What should I do? I wanted to tell her that I love her but the problem is that she may not be able to accept me, and worse still, I am afraid that our good friendship may even end after I tell her.
I really do not have the courage to tell her because I am neither handsome and good looking. I know she may not mind that but I still don't have the courage to tell her.
The questions is, what should I do now? How do I know whether she have bit liking in me or not? I really, sincerely, need proper advise. -
who clone r u!
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how old are u?
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x2Originally posted by olala:who clone r u!
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aiyo ah lau, you are still so shy ar?
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not shy..i think its more on confidence....Originally posted by browniebaobao:aiyo ah lau, you are still so shy ar?
love is so strange..haha..when it strikes you, you become withdrawn, thinking what if it fail...
when cupid's arrow doesnt hit you, you start to worry, and make up your mind to know more girls...
muster up your courage and ask her out..Nobody ask you to confess your love to her so early on! A simple sms to her a day, may also tells you something. -
Originally posted by olala:who clone r u!
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he's not a clone.
take pity for goodness sake. the man's about to lose a chance of a lifetime.
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Rejection is better than regret.
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x2.Originally posted by Patrik:Rejection is better than regret. -
Not really...Originally posted by Patrik:Rejection is better than regret.
If you're rejected, you may regret ever telling it all.
If you don't tell, you may regret not telling but at least the friendship's still there for development.
But I'm not saying "don't tell!". Should gather intelligence before making a decision.
So like, experienced ones come and share reconnaissance tips.
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People senior member leh..You say him clone??Originally posted by olala:who clone r u!
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infatuation. concentrate on ur studies better.
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sound her out... Check with her by asking casually will she afford to have a r/s when still schooling? Then ask her abt her love partner ciriteria and blah,blah.... if all is negative result then u can forget abt telling her yr thoughts! Good Luck!
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Simply put, SGboy: Get to know her more. Get her contact, MSN, email, telepatic addr.... Eh... nvm dat.Originally posted by CannyOng:sound her out... Check with her by asking casually will she afford to have a r/s when still schooling? Then ask her abt her love partner ciriteria and blah,blah.... if all is negative result then u can forget abt telling her yr thoughts! Good Luck!
Spend more time knowing what kind of a person she actually is. I sure even if she like you, you dun wanna jump into an r/s without knowing more abt her lest later smth pops up and then bad things occur?
Its hard to fight da temptations of da feelings of da moment. BUT if you can stand da time of emotions in you, some day you will have a beautiful r/s with her or someone else (if dat happen).
So juz dun panic, dun despo oso. Juz try to keep contact wif her and know more abt her and give her da chance to know more about you too.
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study with her... get into her good books.
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okok i b serious
TS i suggest u continue establishing friendship wif her....slowly understanding her needs and preference
Friendship is for life and u can still continue to be a goodfriend by her side
no doubt u might meet her less frequent but it dosent mean that it shld remain that way,put in more effort and im sure u'll see an improve of the situiation.
no need for rush cz by doing so,u probaly freak her out and overlook soem short comings -
cant tell her u like her... wat u need to do is go get her number n socialize with her n date her out... u only get the picture clearer through dates so pickup your 'ji' n ask her out....Originally posted by sgboy:I got to know this girl since I started my studies in Feb this year. Now that it have been already 6 months. In school, we are usually together. Honestly speaking, I really like her a lot. During our short break of like 1 week or so, I do not get to see her. I felt quite uncomfortable for not seeing her. I did not want to call her as I am afraid that she may find me annoying and irritating, which she doesn't like. Who likes right?
Our course is ending in a few months time. After that, we may not be able to meet up that often anymore. What should I do? I wanted to tell her that I love her but the problem is that she may not be able to accept me, and worse still, I am afraid that our good friendship may even end after I tell her.
I really do not have the courage to tell her because I am neither handsome and good looking. I know she may not mind that but I still don't have the courage to tell her.
The questions is, what should I do now? How do I know whether she have bit liking in me or not? I really, sincerely, need proper advise. -
Originally posted by olala:okok i b serious
TS i suggest u continue establishing friendship wif her....slowly understanding her needs and preference
Friendship is for life and u can still continue to be a goodfriend by her side
no doubt u might meet her less frequent but it dosent mean that it shld remain that way,put in more effort and im sure u'll see an improve of the situiation.
no need for rush cz by doing so,u probaly freak her out and overlook soem short comings
1st time c olala post such serious, decent reply. who r u using his account??!!
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Mono, you touched by his seriousness? Have feelings for him MORE?Originally posted by monoslayer:
1st time c olala post such serious, decent reply. who r u using his account??!! -
*go upz bonta's thread*Originally posted by Bontakun:Mono, you touched by his seriousness? Have feelings for him MORE? 
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Originally posted by monoslayer:*go upz bonta's thread*
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do u know whats LOVE inthe first place?
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You can call her, but need not be too often?Originally posted by sgboy:I got to know this girl since I started my studies in Feb this year. Now that it have been already 6 months. In school, we are usually together. Honestly speaking, I really like her a lot. During our short break of like 1 week or so, I do not get to see her. I felt quite uncomfortable for not seeing her. I did not want to call her as I am afraid that she may find me annoying and irritating, which she doesn't like. Who likes right?
Our course is ending in a few months time. After that, we may not be able to meet up that often anymore. What should I do? I wanted to tell her that I love her but the problem is that she may not be able to accept me, and worse still, I am afraid that our good friendship may even end after I tell her.
I really do not have the courage to tell her because I am neither handsome and good looking. I know she may not mind that but I still don't have the courage to tell her.
The questions is, what should I do now? How do I know whether she have bit liking in me or not? I really, sincerely, need proper advise.
See how your conversation(s) goes..? If she show interest, perhaps you'll be naturally more encouraged?
You should try to give slight hints..? Or if you think that's too risky, you can observe her a bit...? But try to make more logical and intelligent interpretations out of your observations pls....? -
yar lor, pple here much earlier.....no respect man.Originally posted by CannyOng:People senior member leh..You say him clone??
hey threadstarter, just tell........its better to regret the doing it then not doing it. Who know, u might succeed
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Originally posted by monoslayer:
1st time c olala post such serious, decent reply. who r u using his account??!! 
who says others is using my acct
forum sometimes too boring so i wanna post craps to get kiks