ever feel lost in life?
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Try to find some friends who are single?Originally posted by Tetsuyari:backstabbed and betrayed before too that why i seldom open to ppl
except a very few close ones
alot of so called friends is juz hi bye frenz oni
but being alone doesnt help much as u will feel more and more inferior..
Backstabs and betrayals are just part of life... Learn to live by it.
If you're not comfortable with getting too close, you can always try to find some online friends to chat with over MSN or something? -
u dun need to have alot of frenz, just one of two very close one will do. betrayal is part n parcel in life. live with it ba. of coz u have happy times with them too.. be positive, not all frenz are bad, maybe ter is one out ter waiting for u to open up to him/ her????? u noe, all my best n close frenz are those who are once in bad terms with me, we have reli bad times, quarrels, arguements and accusations, but now we are so close that we cant live without one another. In times of crisis, there bounds to be one who will stand firm by ur side. cheersOriginally posted by Patrik:Learn to live life alone.
I have backstabbed umpteen times by my "so called friends".
Thats why i am a loner now and i dun mix around with anyone anymore.
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well being in the army for 2 and half yrs used to the backstabbing thingy liaoz
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part and parcel of life.....Originally posted by Tetsuyari:ever felt lost of objective and not knowing abt ur goals and reason to fight for anymore?
eversince my past 2 failed relationship... i begin to lose my objective in most of the things i do...
when i see my friends around me all doing well in their career where i still struggling to find a perm job...
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ever tried letting go?
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You still have friends and family... As long as your alive there is Hope...
If people or Life put you down...Show them you can stand back up
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Backstabbing friends are not true Friends...They are those type who are easily jealous... People hate to see other people happy... When you have Succeeded and they have not...they will tend to put you down...Why ??? Selfishness...
Its Human Nature...So why let people put you down...Work HARD ! And Make them Even More Angry ! They Want to jealous ?? Make them even more Jealous... In the End is you are the one at the top while they at the Bottom Whining about your Success... -
Hmmm... I understand how u feel. This is called minor depression or can called it mood swing or pms. Not to worry, tomorrow will be better.Originally posted by Tetsuyari:well being in the army for 2 and half yrs used to the backstabbing thingy liaoz
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Sometimes I felt at a lost too. I think one must learn to be alone and independant. It is better not to trust anybody then being betray.
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Wuldnt that means not wanting to establish connection with anybody?Originally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:Sometimes I felt at a lost too. I think one must learn to be alone and independant. It is better not to trust anybody then being betray. -
yes..always lost
n in a world of my own
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Heard of the saying "No one man is an island alone"....?Originally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:Sometimes I felt at a lost too. I think one must learn to be alone and independant. It is better not to trust anybody then being betray.
Ermm... Or something like that...
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Take it as you're giving yourself a short break then..? Most of us need a rest from time to time....Originally posted by Tetsuyari:well being in the army for 2 and half yrs used to the backstabbing thingy liaoz
maybe juz feeling low at this period of time without having any clear goals and objective ahead.
Just get along with life and appreciate the beauty of things... Don't have to push yourself for clear goals and objective... Sometimes when you're just pushing yourself for the sake of pushing yourself, it might not really be what you want...? -
well maybe should really take abreak to forget everything.
maybe its mood swing or mild depression but i think shouldnt be as bad
as that time when juz broke up with gf thats 100 times more devastating.
but manage to pull thru with help of buddy.
now i juz hope can pick my dampen spirit up. -
ye like i saidOriginally posted by Tetsuyari:well maybe should really take abreak to forget everything.
maybe its mood swing or mild depression but i think shouldnt be as bad
as that time when juz broke up with gf thats 100 times more devastating.
but manage to pull thru with help of buddy.
now i juz hope can pick my dampen spirit up.
Its ur life and ur nt obliged to b attached
take ur time seeking..no rush
meantime take time off as and when for holidays -
Maybe should do some more relaxing stuff for now until you find a job...?Originally posted by Tetsuyari:well maybe should really take abreak to forget everything.
maybe its mood swing or mild depression but i think shouldnt be as bad
as that time when juz broke up with gf thats 100 times more devastating.
but manage to pull thru with help of buddy.
now i juz hope can pick my dampen spirit up.
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there is this 'screw up' who had broken rs, problems here & there, and all that. He studied finance, but was very weak acadmically and socially. He applied to join the police force, but they didnt even want him.
He then went to work for a newspaper, and being 'the face' of his department, he needed to go for functions, dinners, parties where he met with big shots, hot shots, ceos, etc. And now, he has a $15k starting salary per month, with $30k wardrobe allowance to spend on Gucci, Armani, Versace. In fact, he has to spend the $30k on specific outlet and stores (all paid for by his company).
anyway, perhaps the point is everyone goes through a rough patch in their life. I guess its how you deal with it and pick yourself up. -
very wise wordsOriginally posted by alexkusu:there is this 'screw up' who had broken rs, problems here & there, and all that. He studied finance, but was very weak acadmically and socially. He applied to join the police force, but they didnt even want him.
He then went to work for a newspaper, and being 'the face' of his department, he needed to go for functions, dinners, parties where he met with big shots, hot shots, ceos, etc. And now, he has a $15k starting salary per month, with $30k wardrobe allowance to spend on Gucci, Armani, Versace. In fact, he has to spend the $30k on specific outlet and stores (all paid for by his company).
anyway, perhaps the point is everyone goes through a rough patch in their life. I guess its how you deal with it and pick yourself up. -
What you need now is to get back yr self-confident! The confident that makes you where u want to head in yr life.. While at the same time while yr mood is at the lowest tide means the next high tide is coming.. Go and search back yr confident.