How to solve ??
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I have this problem... It's very irritating...How do you solve when people put words into your mouth...When you read books on war people purposely put words say u made a political statement against the Goverment or trying to put you down... When people ask you about your enlistment... And when you answered them say claim to other people you are showing off... When they Purposely in front of your face say not everyday is a Sunday... Dont you think these people are very childish or Father and mother never teach Well ??
And the worse thing is that i am hot tempered and reacted to the way they wanted me to react ??? How do you solve these problems ??? Is Ignorance an Option ?? How Long and How Effective ??
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I think Most adults here in this Forum might have Gone through this before...Experiencing people of all types in your office or at your workplace...I want to know how you people deal with people like that...
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Personally... I think you should start from yourself 1st...? Controlling your temper.. ceratinly would benefit yourself and the people around you in the future to come....?Originally posted by Seth35:I have this problem... It's very irritating...How do you solve when people put words into your mouth...When you read books on war people purposely put words say u made a political statement against the Goverment or trying to put you down... When people ask you about your enlistment... And when you answered them say claim to other people you are showing off... When they Purposely in front of your face say not everyday is a Sunday... Dont you think these people are very childish or Father and mother never teach Well ??
And the worse thing is that i am hot tempered and reacted to the way they wanted me to react ??? How do you solve these problems ??? Is Ignorance an Option ?? How Long and How Effective ??
How old are 'those people'...? Who are they...? I think it's really not that wise to let such people spoil your day...? What do you think...?
Mouth is theirs... Mind is yours... You can always choose to keep lousy comments aside especially when they're quite meaningless... -
if ur conscience is clear, y bother abt wat ple say?
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Obviously you guys dont know how i feel... my conscience is clear...but you dont get people going around say aiyah this guy is like that or stay away from that Fellow hes a bad person... Why am i experiencing these things when i have done nothing stupid and wrong at all...
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Even before i can say anything...Everyones Stereotypes me as a Bad guy... People dont bother to really look into the matter...Even when somethings i am innocent in...I just get blamed for nothing !
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i oso get blamed for nth!Originally posted by Seth35:Even before i can say anything...Everyones Stereotypes me as a Bad guy... People dont bother to really look into the matter...Even when somethings i am innocent in...I just get blamed for nothing !
Bt u can juz take it that these ppl are talking for the sake of fully utilising their GOD-given-mouth
Redundant speech serve only to exercise their jaw muscle -
I am dealing with a 19 year old with a 14 year old mindset... its sad... Gone through ITE and they didnt learn what is maturity... Parents to blame or Child to blame we will never know...
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Its still your own problem .
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The more you care about such things the more kick those assholes would get out of saying those things, and so they'll say even more. Hence you should just heck care them and sooner or later they'll shut up or find some other more effective means of amusing themselves.Originally posted by Seth35:Obviously you guys dont know how i feel... my conscience is clear...but you dont get people going around say aiyah this guy is like that or stay away from that Fellow hes a bad person... Why am i experiencing these things when i have done nothing stupid and wrong at all... -
Not only say me la...Following me around like some Paparazzi...bunch Of LunaTic People like Run out of Mental Hospital like that... I bet they Eat too much of their own shit thats why they go Crazy...
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Its your problem , do you feel entertained ?Originally posted by Seth35:Not only say me la...Following me around like some Paparazzi...bunch Of LunaTic People like Run out of Mental Hospital like that... I bet they Eat too much of their own shit thats why they go Crazy... -
Not really entertained...Cause why? These people are a bunch of lunatics !
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agree.. the best way out.. why botherOriginally posted by browniebaobao:if ur conscience is clear, y bother abt wat ple say? -
in my opinion, its an extremely small matter. why bother?Originally posted by Seth35:I have this problem... It's very irritating...How do you solve when people put words into your mouth...When you read books on war people purposely put words say u made a political statement against the Goverment or trying to put you down... When people ask you about your enlistment... And when you answered them say claim to other people you are showing off... When they Purposely in front of your face say not everyday is a Sunday... Dont you think these people are very childish or Father and mother never teach Well ??
And the worse thing is that i am hot tempered and reacted to the way they wanted me to react ??? How do you solve these problems ??? Is Ignorance an Option ?? How Long and How Effective ??
you have a choice to take it as a joke or react bad tempered, why choose the latter? ignorance is probably not the best choice, just joke with them i suppose?
take things lightly, firstly u gotta control your bad temper -
you're a 19 year old guy with a 14 year old mindset more like it.. just dont blame it on others, try fixing yourself firstOriginally posted by Seth35:I am dealing with a 19 year old with a 14 year old mindset... its sad... Gone through ITE and they didnt learn what is maturity... Parents to blame or Child to blame we will never know... -
He dun have to fix
Its mistakes and stupidty on the others part
the oen who shld fix is the IDIOTS out there -
The other thing i heard was that they said was Not everyday is a Sunday... and The more you get a girlfriend the more they will try to make life difficult for me...
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And just how you know we don't know how you feel?Originally posted by Seth35:Obviously you guys dont know how i feel... my conscience is clear...but you dont get people going around say aiyah this guy is like that or stay away from that Fellow hes a bad person... Why am i experiencing these things when i have done nothing stupid and wrong at all...
The question is seriously if you learn to handle the situation better? Such people are around... You simply can't stop the world from producing such kind of people... At least not for now.... -
what i meant by fixing is controlling his bad temper attitude. Its a working world and society, you gotta withstand critics now and then. You cannot just blow off because of something stupid. Imagine this happening in an important meeting?Originally posted by olala:He dun have to fix
Its mistakes and stupidty on the others part
the oen who shld fix is the IDIOTS out there
Its because they have stupid comments, that you dont have to give a two shit about them!
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i cannot agree more on this.Originally posted by Devil1976:And just how you know we don't know how you feel?
The question is seriously if you learn to handle the situation better? Such people are around... You simply can't stop the world from producing such kind of people... At least not for now....
we meet people from all walks of life now and then, i bet these kinda attitude exists everywhere, even if you have a new workplace, you will meet the same kinda people... maybe they're even just joking but you took it the wrong way?
try to step in their shoes, be sensible, take it as a joke! and dont worry everything will be fine!
alot of things happen from miscommunication, so u might want to take some time and try and understand why they're doing this, intentionally or just their way of being friendly? u might not know, they turn out to be friends after all.. -
i have friends like this.. after years of 'battling' with them.. i realise that it works better if i jus stay away from them..
and today i am happier
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Tell your friend to get what they want to hear from you instead of other people. Candor will save you. -
Well Everything started From when i used to like a girl in my class...and got bad mouthed for some reason... Maybe someone wants to chase after her...
and later i stayed away from them because i goes against what i think its right...
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If I were you,Seth35.
I will just laugh at them. Look at their stupidity acts. At the end of the day you feel better becos you have a bunch of kids to sia yang. Be Happy pal. I used to have all this bunch of moron during my ite days even from my pri school days until army. Finally this kind of moron acts is over when i in the workforce.