To all Guys
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No no not crap.. It really happened....
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From your defensiveness, it's probably why people don't dare to tell you where you went wrong.Originally posted by Seth35:No no not crap.. It really happened....
Whether they've tried or not, it'll probably be too tiring to try to convince you where you went wrong.
But if you didn't do anything to them, then just ignore those people. I think that these kind of people should be left alone... Proof what they are spreading are wrong. Show that you are not the kind of people. -
Deal wif them for wat?
Too much time izit?
These kind of scumbags will get their just desserts one day.
Juz live yr life the best you can. When you r successful, the girls will come throw themselves at you.
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"U Think Everyday Is Sunday Ar!!??" LOL !!Originally posted by :Deal wif them for wat?
Too much time izit?
These kind of scumbags will get their just desserts one day.
Juz live yr life the best you can. When you r successful, the girls will come throw themselves at you. 
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Seth, if I am not wrong, these are the "friends" whom I told you to meet less often right? (Or is it someone else here...?)
I believe you are now fuming and you feel you do not deserve all these.
If you do not mind, let me tell you some things: Life is not beautiful all the times. There are times where you will faced difficult situations (like this one) and it is hard for us (third parties) to assume who is right or wrong.
BUT nevermind who is right or wrong, just note what have you learnt from this lesson. No its not that what they can do, you can return the favour. NO that is simply just stooping to their level and I am sure you would NOT want that. They have some issues regarding you and they are using you to get what they wanted. Be it gals or some form of fun or revenge.
What you have learnt is: if they can do such things, what more fascinating stuffs can other people do? You may have difficulty handling this issue (else you would NEVER post here for comments or ideas) but this is a good chance for you to experience and the next time you are in a similar situation, you know how to handle it better even if you do NOT even like it.
I cannot tell you what to do for I have no rights or authority over your actions. What I can do is only give you my perspective based on what you have said. Normally if I witnessed both side of the story, it will be clearer on how to handle this case. I only hear your side of the story, that is why I am giving them a benefit of a doubt. I apologise if I offended you in any way.
But normally things are not as serious as you assumed it to be if you willing to look at this situation from an outsider's angle.
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I believe threadstarter has not been looking at what was adviced earlier ,
being in denial of own misgivings.
Maybe he didn't like what was given to him, maybe others didn't like what they were given by him. -
No i was just saying my scenario....
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Of coz , you assumed what you have given others was "righteous".Originally posted by Seth35:No i was just saying my scenario....
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So what ur trying to say is that... i think a different way but other people dont think like me... is that what u trying to say ??
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But still i did not involve them in any way...I also stated very clearly i left them alone because i dont do this kind of things... I dont Fling and i Dont do one night stands... If there was relationship...What i want is a pure relationship...
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Are you trying to explain that you are "thinking" accused them of assumed unrighteous behaviour?
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I am not assuming....I dont have any hard evidence...But What i really saw disturbed me... But people like them claim that i am thinking too much...Why do they keep telling me not to bother ??
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Coz from what your Agonizing complains in the above threads implies that it bothers you more than them.Originally posted by Seth35:I am not assuming....I dont have any hard evidence...But What i really saw disturbed me... But people like them claim that i am thinking too much...Why do they keep telling me not to bother ?? -
some like that ..they think they have sense of humour by
toking bad about others ..u know the funny part is ..they r the ones that r
immaturely funny
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Well... its true...When i was with them in ite... You can never expect what things happened then...guys fight over for girls... Girls Materialism is a all time high... You dont appeal to them... dont bother being their friends...
When they ask you for help....They dont provide you any if you need later...
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When they need you...They All Flock to you...When they dont need you..all scatter... treat you like a ghost like that...One of them even went to the point of begging me to come to her house to teach all of them Electronics subject...I dont want to go they say i stingy...... Of course... not all are like that...but majority is like that... sad to say... oh Well guess i mixed the wrong type of people than... -
Theres More than Worse...Heard from my ite fren...a Guy...Told me One of the the girls slit her wrist because her boyfriend left her...
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erm.. so? seriously i strongly believe the people who are saying things about you probably enjoyed dissing you and then forgot about it, and here you are worrying over it and messing up ur emotions.
anger is like holding hot coals with the intention of throwing it at someone, in the end, you are one getting burnt. -
Well they scolded my family...and even went to the point of insulting my family member who has already passed on...Why dont i have the right to protect my family... And if God Said he will punish evil doers...Why is he not punishing them ?? Why is he letting them go so freely...
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Yawn.Originally posted by Seth35:Well they scolded my family...and even went to the point of insulting my family member who has already passed on...Why dont i have the right to protect my family... And if God Said he will punish evil doers...Why is he not punishing them ?? Why is he letting them go so freely...
You are blaming everyone else other than yourself.
Stop passing the buck.
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he is a just a clone
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So whats there to blame...About myself... Didnt they deserve when they insulted my family ?? I did nothing wrong...I didnt sleep with that girl...I didnt want to sleep with her...She just came on to me... and so i clearly stated i dont want to be involved with her....
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Firstly if u have never done anything wrong before then u are a SAINT liaoOriginally posted by Seth35:Very simple... I have not done wrong... If that ans ur question...God sees and knows...My conscience is clear... i know what really happened...
If everyones persecuting me as a bad person... Even if the whole farking world against me... I know what i done and i have done no wrong... I will Fight the whole farking world if i have to... And if i go down I will take those who accuse me down with me...
Secondly, based on what u said about taking anyone who accuse u down with you, basically you refuse to let anyone to have their own opinion of you. You expect them to agree with your own saintly opinion of urself.
what a big ego
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what has this got to do with the topic?Originally posted by Seth35:Theres More than Worse...Heard from my ite fren...a Guy...Told me One of the the girls slit her wrist because her boyfriend left her...
but we got a distinctive feeling that you despise most of the girls in ite now