Left Behind or just not good enough ?
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Things goes on always like this,
People decides grouping,
Leaving things undecided.
Though things are usually planned by me,
getting 2 members in first, into my group.
Deciding whether 2 more people in the group should it be for the final year project.
Just when deicisons are caught up,
The 2 friends just left me for the other group.
Simply put now I'm alone and helpless,
left with some demented fools.
I got little faith in the FYP i'm going to face.
Though its not their fault.
Maybe I wasn't that decisive.
Its just 2 more days and the grouping is decided.
Shitty.
Somehow I feel betrayed and its getting me down.
I don't really have anything to do except to wait for the final grouping with the fools.
Just when I thought its easier to have friends,
its not like I wanted them back into my group because they joined a group of my friends, in the end, things goes blunt.
Whats the use of helping people when just shit happens to you ?
First my family now my friends,
Might as well be a loner for the rest of my life if not for a girl i have now.
When time really comes I might be alone if i come to think of it.
Things happening here and there seems to be the pot of worst Luck I'm having.
Times different now i guess,
going in to adult hood seems more painful.
Just thinking how to grad from a poly life,
and pops comes problems.
Maybe I'm just cursed. sigh... -
You shouldn't be sighing your way in here though. Firstly, you should just check out on those who ain't got a group and whether they can work well with you or not, in a way, productive. From your post, i deduced that you have lost faith in the people around you, that can turn against you in years to come when you go out to work, with your skeptikality working against you, you may not get far. Try and open up and have more faith in the people around you, i am sure there aren't too many 'baddies' around, are they?
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Maybe its what you have that upsets them...Sometimes people like these arent fair...Cause they cannot win at their own game so they tend to hurt other peoples life...
I know people like that... They cause so much trouble for themselves...BGR,
fights over girls etc...When they see other people happy...They tend to get jealous...but the stupid thing is that they created the problem for themselves not others...they just jealous they cant win their own game in life.. -
Actually.... The baddies are all thats left, I know them thats why.Originally posted by Takumi2eLimit:You shouldn't be sighing your way in here though. Firstly, you should just check out on those who ain't got a group and whether they can work well with you or not, in a way, productive. From your post, i deduced that you have lost faith in the people around you, that can turn against you in years to come when you go out to work, with your skeptikality working against you, you may not get far. Try and open up and have more faith in the people around you, i am sure there aren't too many 'baddies' around, are they?
Now true desertion i finally taste it. haha...
Its now like working with a group of people who are exceptionally good.
Its just that the people thats left know nothing.
Nuts.
Zip.
They don even comprehend a single For loop <-- Programming.
So all i can say is maybe I really suck at being a friend. -
not everyone is an idiot..
its not too late for you to find better people, but the thing is, will those fools in your current group take it lying down? -
No choice, everyone's taken and gone.Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:not everyone is an idiot..
its not too late for you to find better people, but the thing is, will those fools in your current group take it lying down?
What can i do ?
abandon by friends.
When I'm trying hard not to break up.
So...
I just have to take it lying down.
I give up. Friends that happen to be there and leave me behind.
A convenice to say they forgot.
or refuse.
Sigh...
The fools left now are just nice for a group. Sigh...
The only one whose capable of programming is me only. WOW.
Sigh. -
first of all, i think it is pretty harsh to condemn the remaining people as fools. perhaps they may be in the same situation as you are?Originally posted by Sekundes:No choice, everyone's taken and gone.
What can i do ?
abandon by friends.
When I'm trying hard not to break up.
So...
I just have to take it lying down.
I give up. Friends that happen to be there and leave me behind.
A convenice to say they forgot.
or refuse.
Sigh...
The fools left now are just nice for a group. Sigh...
The only one whose capable of programming is me only. WOW.
Sigh.
secondly, the reason why it is a group project is because everyone has different strengths. you may be very capable in the programming aspect but perhaps there are many other aspects of the project which the remaining "fools" may be much better than you at.
a good leader brings out the best of his team members. -
ur post looks like a poem to me leh..
gees..
things like that always happen.. i also kena dua few times before.
It's ok, work with others lor, and make sure u do better without them. -
come on cheer up, when things hit rock bottom, they can only go upwards.Originally posted by Sekundes:No choice, everyone's taken and gone.
What can i do ?
abandon by friends.
When I'm trying hard not to break up.
So...
I just have to take it lying down.
I give up. Friends that happen to be there and leave me behind.
A convenice to say they forgot.
or refuse.
Sigh...
The fools left now are just nice for a group. Sigh...
The only one whose capable of programming is me only. WOW.
Sigh.
frankly, i was like your case, except that it was the lecturers that deployed my team mates elsewhere, leaving me to work with someone i was not keen on working with.
it wasn't that bad, though i had to be very very patient in explaining things many many times over; my partner was quite slow. -
i am in a fucked up pair grp
i hate this stupid woman -
you hate her? hate is a strong word i realised... use with caution.Originally posted by pierre^^:i am in a fucked up pair grp
i hate this stupid woman -
doing proj with this lady is the biggest mistake i made this yr
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Well alls going now...
Can't stop the flow...
Things are now that is.
So I can't do much.
Anyway, just trying to get myself back on track.
I'm going to live without them for awhile.
Friends.
haha...
Now gonna focus on my current group.
Right u are,
But I'll still have the feeling of being left behind.
And I still have to say...
Its really not worth going over them.
They come with a smile,
they go with a smile.
And they just leave you crying behind with no worries at all.
Life's so sweet, its killing me haha... -
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Personally I feel maybe you can see if yuo can do something about the friendship to those who have left you (not to get them back into your group).Originally posted by Sekundes:Well alls going now...
Can't stop the flow...
Things are now that is.
So I can't do much.
Anyway, just trying to get myself back on track.
I'm going to live without them for awhile.
Friends.
haha...
Now gonna focus on my current group.
Right u are,
But I'll still have the feeling of being left behind.
And I still have to say...
Its really not worth going over them.
They come with a smile,
they go with a smile.
And they just leave you crying behind with no worries at all.
Life's so sweet, its killing me haha...
At the same time, you last thing you should do is to give up on your team and yourself. No matter how lousy you might think they are, 1% is still 1%. I don't think you really can do with less resources now? Make the best out of whatever you've got left or you might just end up in deeper shit?