Asking gals out...
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How long after knowing a gal i am interested in, how long before i can ask the gal out? Not on a "date" as in bf/gf type of "date" but just want to spend time with her to chat and get to know her better.
For friends with something in common like school, work or church etc its easy since one can hang out with them. But for people u meet elsewhere, i think its really hard to be friends unless the other party wants to meet up.
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find a reason.. whatever it is, crappy also go
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"sorry, im always busy." how wld u react?
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some ple gt gd feeling at first sight..
2 days later alrd ask ple out.
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Just when you feel like everything is on the right track lor..
There isn't any absolute number of days mah.. It's not like you know her today and you can only date her out exactly 2 months from now..
It's just how you feel things are going on between you and her..
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I got to know this girl through my friend's recommendation.
3 days later, I jio her go out. Me, her, her friend and my friend(the one who recommend us to each other)
That day, i tried 2 get to know her better, crack some lame jokes, make her laugh etc.
another few days later, I ask her out, this time just the 2 of us.
I don't think most girls dare 2 meet someone one to one just 1-2 days after knowing that person. So the best thing would be 2 go out in group 1st, get to know each other better, make her think u are nice, so that u can ask her out easily. -
Lets say she likes icecream...then u go get some ben and jerry's vouchers and tell her "hey come join me for some B&J icecream cos I got some voucher to use up"
This way..she dun feel pressurized butrather "helping" you to clear the vouchers.
A bit lao tao but it works.... good luck -
Up to you lah
But gang qing, this kind of thing takes time... -
gang qing? piano?Originally posted by sbst275:Up to you lah
But gang qing, this kind of thing takes time...
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gan qingOriginally posted by Hellraiza:gang qing? piano? -
Maybe i'm too americanized. I think going out with potentially interesting member of the opposite sex 1 on 1 for a meal or a drink is pretty ok.
As i have never dated much i dunno if there is any taboo regarding this. Thanks for all the input...
If i dun see her anywhere else, i'll keep trying to find out when she free every few days. If she not interested in going out it'll be pretty obvious very soon...Originally posted by Ito_^:"sorry, im always busy." how wld u react? -
The science of dating is not Mathematics. Think of it as an art. It depends on how much you can connect with the girl, whether got 'feel' or not lor!
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If someone tell me he got Andy Lau concert tix and ask me whether I want to go with him, I sure say YES!
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depends la... if u want to ask her out alone as a friend only, why not jus ask her other friends as well? if not she will get the wrong idea. Until the friendship between the two of u are like brothers, i guess u can ask her out alone like a guy . She's still a girl after all.Originally posted by clementius:How long after knowing a gal i am interested in, how long before i can ask the gal out? Not on a "date" as in bf/gf type of "date" but just want to spend time with her to chat and get to know her better.
For friends with something in common like school, work or church etc its easy since one can hang out with them. But for people u meet elsewhere, i think its really hard to be friends unless the other party wants to meet up.
What do u think?
after u start knowing her and got her contact no., call her 1 week later and meet five or six days later. -
after 8mths... i finalli get to meet e gal i noe online.. cos of my bdae..
durin e 8 mths it was on n off kind on msn/sms n stuffs.. therefore e 8mths..
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really have to see the "feel" i think.... if through normal conversations/msn both can "click" i guess maybe even after a couple of days its fine to meet up...Originally posted by clementius:How long after knowing a gal i am interested in, how long before i can ask the gal out? Not on a "date" as in bf/gf type of "date" but just want to spend time with her to chat and get to know her better.
For friends with something in common like school, work or church etc its easy since one can hang out with them. But for people u meet elsewhere, i think its really hard to be friends unless the other party wants to meet up.
What do u think?
but overall think must play by ear... -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:If someone tell me he got Andy Lau concert tix and ask me whether I want to go with him, I sure say YES! ... ...
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You just busted your vulnerability.Originally posted by browniebaobao:If someone tell me he got Andy Lau concert tix and ask me whether I want to go with him, I sure say YES! 
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see what is her interest lah.
if she likes to eat, said that u found a nice eating place.
if she like outdoor, say u trying to learn something which she is gd at.
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i dun mind.. as long as it's the most exp tix.Originally posted by Yunhaier:You just busted your vulnerability.
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Start as friends. Using it as a pretext, if she is comfortable, she will go out with you. den the rest is up to you...
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:i dun mind.. as long as it's the most exp tix.
later coolger cry -
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I wish asian girls were more open.Originally posted by clementius:Maybe i'm too americanized. I think going out with potentially interesting member of the opposite sex 1 on 1 for a meal or a drink is pretty ok. -
go out as a group for the first few times, then try one on ones.Originally posted by clementius:How long after knowing a gal i am interested in, how long before i can ask the gal out? Not on a "date" as in bf/gf type of "date" but just want to spend time with her to chat and get to know her better.
For friends with something in common like school, work or church etc its easy since one can hang out with them. But for people u meet elsewhere, i think its really hard to be friends unless the other party wants to meet up.
What do u think?