No.Originally posted by chaah:Recently gal attached to a man age 40, gal age 29.
But gal feeling insecure, because of previous r/l set back.
This man work as homebase business supplier for some equipments. Travel once in a while to oversea for business.
He told gal, he only can company her prefer in night time.
For the reasons, his homebase business only can do some e-corroespondces in daytime. After 6pm he will be free to company gal be it weekday or weekend. Which he did that for the pass weeks, of company from 7pm to 11pm (Mon, Wed, Thurs, Sat) be it shopping or dinner. Today is sunday gal feel lonely when he is not around, he told gal he is going to sibling house awhile and later going to view car with his friend. (He is planning to buy new car)
Weekend he would ferry his parents to sibling house for visit. Or once a week will help his brother (who work in midnite) bring his 3child and sis-in-law for shopping especially during Friday night.
Gal ask before get into relationship she worry if he has time for her.
His reply " You got to understand i havn't been in r/l for years, have to give me time to adjust my lifestyle. More ever, if you never try how do you know if i got no time for you, time can be adjust don't worry".
He is finanically very stable.
Gal don't know if she should trust his words. Cause gal feel he is too overly potiential to be single, and don't think she is so lucky to find such man. Gal don't have confidences yet didn't tell him how she felt. As she don't know if he would find her too emotionally attached and very troublesome demanding.
Gal just sms him, asking him how is he today. But until now no reply, wondering what's wrong or maybe she think too much ?
Gal do feel she is over demanding. Is she ?
Originally posted by -[0]-:Since he has got no time for the gal. He should have given up on the relationship if he feels that he's not ready for it. It is very cruel to make a girl wait and tolerate long period without his presense.
Prehaps man want to be in love afterall he is in his late 30s. But his lifestyle and schedules are way too over crowded. He did company gal for the past few days, but gal just wonder what will it become when days go longer into the r/l
It is not demanding of the gal who desires her man to commit his time into their r/s.
Thanks for ensuring gal thoughts isn't too much.
But do reconsider. If the man has not enough time for the r/s, then it's better to break up than to endure day after day, the torments of not spending enough time together.
Relationship needs time and effort to blossom. Without enough time spent, it will drift apart.
Man and Gal know very much r/l need time to blossom. For now man is trying to squeeze time. But gal don't know how long it he is able to do that for long, gal afraid as time pass man very grumble. Or prehaps wouldn't no one will know.
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Business man. Expects to be busy.Originally posted by chaah:Recently gal attached to a man age 40, gal age 29.
But gal feeling insecure, because of previous r/l set back.
This man work as homebase business supplier for some equipments. Travel once in a while to oversea for business.
He told gal, he only can company her prefer in night time.
For the reasons, his homebase business only can do some e-corroespondces in daytime. After 6pm he will be free to company gal be it weekday or weekend. Which he did that for the pass weeks, of company from 7pm to 11pm (Mon, Wed, Thurs, Sat) be it shopping or dinner. Today is sunday gal feel lonely when he is not around, he told gal he is going to sibling house awhile and later going to view car with his friend. (He is planning to buy new car)
Weekend he would ferry his parents to sibling house for visit. Or once a week will help his brother (who work in midnite) bring his 3child and sis-in-law for shopping especially during Friday night.
Gal ask before get into relationship she worry if he has time for her.
His reply " You got to understand i havn't been in r/l for years, have to give me time to adjust my lifestyle. More ever, if you never try how do you know if i got no time for you, time can be adjust don't worry".
He is finanically very stable.
Gal don't know if she should trust his words. Cause gal feel he is too overly potiential to be single, and don't think she is so lucky to find such man. Gal don't have confidences yet didn't tell him how she felt. As she don't know if he would find her too emotionally attached and very troublesome demanding.
Gal just sms him, asking him how is he today. But until now no reply, wondering what's wrong or maybe she think too much ?
Gal do feel she is over demanding. Is she ?
Originally posted by chaah:Recently gal attached to a man age 40, gal age 29.
But gal feeling insecure, because of previous r/l set back.
This man work as homebase business supplier for some equipments. Travel once in a while to oversea for business.
He told gal, he only can company her prefer in night time.
For the reasons, his homebase business only can do some e-corroespondces in daytime. After 6pm he will be free to company gal be it weekday or weekend. Which he did that for the pass weeks, of company from 7pm to 11pm (Mon, Wed, Thurs, Sat) be it shopping or dinner. Today is sunday gal feel lonely when he is not around, he told gal he is going to sibling house awhile and later going to view car with his friend. (He is planning to buy new car)
Weekend he would ferry his parents to sibling house for visit. Or once a week will help his brother (who work in midnite) bring his 3child and sis-in-law for shopping especially during Friday night.
Gal ask before get into relationship she worry if he has time for her.
His reply " You got to understand i havn't been in r/l for years, have to give me time to adjust my lifestyle. More ever, if you never try how do you know if i got no time for you, time can be adjust don't worry".
He is finanically very stable.
Gal don't know if she should trust his words. Cause gal feel he is too overly potiential to be single, and don't think she is so lucky to find such man. Gal don't have confidences yet didn't tell him how she felt. As she don't know if he would find her too emotionally attached and very troublesome demanding.
Gal just sms him, asking him how is he today. But until now no reply, wondering what's wrong or maybe she think too much ?
Gal do feel she is over demanding. Is she ?
agree... some gers i know didn't expect their bf/s husbands to accompany her every day.. they know that men set their career as their first priority.. gers should be understanding..Originally posted by Travey:depends on how much time the gal demands from the guy. more impt is the quality not quantity. guys need time for their career and so on, u want us to spend time with gf everyday is not possible lah.
Some guys expect their galfriends to company them everyday, regardless of meeting friends of working late. There are guys who are juz as clingy as well.Originally posted by huy:agree... some gers i know didn't expect their bf/s husbands to accompany her every day.. they know that men set their career as their first priority.. gers should be understanding..
U don't expect a guy to buzz around the gal 24/7 just because they're dating ba.Originally posted by -[0]-:Since he has got no time for the gal. He should have given up on the relationship if he feels that he's not ready for it. It is very cruel to make a girl wait and tolerate long period without his presense.
It is not demanding of the gal who desires her man to commit his time into their r/s.
But do reconsider. If the man has not enough time for the r/s, then it's better to break up than to endure day after day, the torments of not spending enough time together.
Relationship needs time and effort to blossom. Without enough time spent, it will drift apart.
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how long 'she' has known him? he confirm no other partner that her? if she wans security she has to see the picture clearer... maybe join him on his family trips and shopping too...Originally posted by chaah:Recently gal attached to a man age 40, gal age 29.
But gal feeling insecure, because of previous r/l set back.
This man work as homebase business supplier for some equipments. Travel once in a while to oversea for business.
He told gal, he only can company her prefer in night time.
For the reasons, his homebase business only can do some e-corroespondces in daytime. After 6pm he will be free to company gal be it weekday or weekend. Which he did that for the pass weeks, of company from 7pm to 11pm (Mon, Wed, Thurs, Sat) be it shopping or dinner. Today is sunday gal feel lonely when he is not around, he told gal he is going to sibling house awhile and later going to view car with his friend. (He is planning to buy new car)
Weekend he would ferry his parents to sibling house for visit. Or once a week will help his brother (who work in midnite) bring his 3child and sis-in-law for shopping especially during Friday night.
Gal ask before get into relationship she worry if he has time for her.
His reply " You got to understand i havn't been in r/l for years, have to give me time to adjust my lifestyle. More ever, if you never try how do you know if i got no time for you, time can be adjust don't worry".
He is finanically very stable.
Gal don't know if she should trust his words. Cause gal feel he is too overly potiential to be single, and don't think she is so lucky to find such man. Gal don't have confidences yet didn't tell him how she felt. As she don't know if he would find her too emotionally attached and very troublesome demanding.
Gal just sms him, asking him how is he today. But until now no reply, wondering what's wrong or maybe she think too much ?
Gal do feel she is over demanding. Is she ?