Advice needed!!!!
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A good friend of mine is getting on my nerves. What happened was this.
There was one day i noticed something was amiss with this friend of mine, so I went up to ask him what was wrong. His reply was that he was ignoring me because he thought that I was angry with him. But I was not angry with him, nor did he offended me. He told me since I was not angry, than it is ok.
So I wanted to know what did I do to let him feel that I was angry with him with him but he did not want to tell me why. I pestered him for the reason but he did not want to tell me. But the problem was that his attitude towards me did not change. This is very frustrating to me. I tried to reconcile with him telling him that if there was anything that I have done that haveoffended him, I was sorry.
I just felt that if there was a problem, it is better to talk face to face and thrash it out. What is the use of him running away from the problem and ignoring me? I tried talking to him or asking him out, he just waved away my good intentions. I just felt very hurt by his actions, and he does not even bother about how I feel. I just feel very frustrated. -
Check your behaviour..have you done something tat indirectly irritate him?
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Well in our daily lives, many pple come in thru & out of ur door.......only leaving footprints. Some will stay a little longer, others won't. If this friend is only one whom is passing thru, just let it be.Originally posted by Superdude2004:A good friend of mine is getting on my nerves. What happened was this.
There was one day i noticed something was amiss with this friend of mine, so I went up to ask him what was wrong. His reply was that he was ignoring me because he thought that I was angry with him. But I was not angry with him, nor did he offended me. He told me since I was not angry, than it is ok.
So I wanted to know what did I do to let him feel that I was angry with him with him but he did not want to tell me why. I pestered him for the reason but he did not want to tell me. But the problem was that his attitude towards me did not change. This is very frustrating to me. I tried to reconcile with him telling him that if there was anything that I have done that haveoffended him, I was sorry.
I just felt that if there was a problem, it is better to talk face to face and thrash it out. What is the use of him running away from the problem and ignoring me? I tried talking to him or asking him out, he just waved away my good intentions. I just felt very hurt by his actions, and he does not even bother about how I feel. I just feel very frustrated.
You have already tried, if he doesn't want to tell so be it.
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Examine your ways if there is anything that you had done that is offensive. If there is, make remedy.
If there isnt, at least you've done your part. Every friendship or relationship takes 2 to tango. -
hmmm...
dun bother him for the time being, if he is a true fren, he will come to u.
a true fren will not bear grudges for long. or maybe this is a test for both of u, the frenship bond??
anyway, if he is so petty as in not to change his attitude towards u, no point calling him ur fren. i believe around the corner of the world, someone waiting to come by and be ur true fren. -
Hope what l say dun offend you...
Just what l think
Maybe ur frenz is irriated by you? Grown bored of u le?
But maybe l am wrong..
Btw how long hav u 2 be together ne? may l ask? -
Take time off. Give both you and yr friend some space and time alone and reflect through it. The next time you two meet, try not to recall this situation or go into this topic so soon. I am sure you dun wan this frenship to go rite?
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Juz a part of growing up
Be sincerce in trying to resolve whatever misunderstanding that has crop up between u both
even if u didnt managed to removed the thorn,at least he wuld have known the kind quality u had in a friendship and wheatehr he wants to remain in ur circle of friendship is another thing already
friends come and go,others become aquaintances
continue to open ur door and more will come -
Hmm.
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let me tell you, the bf of yours had sex with another gal and he thought you knew it.
So you asked him and when he knew you didnt know he had sex, he was relieved but he still knew that you wasnt her gal and thus he had to wave off your good intentions.
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LOL!Originally posted by davidche:let me tell you, the bf of yours had sex with another gal and he thought you knew it.
So you asked him and when he knew you didnt know he had sex, he was relieved but he still knew that you wasnt her gal and thus he had to wave off your good intentions. -
eh.u alrdy tried ur best to try to get to the truth.bt u halted at his checkpt.coz he closed the gates.wait til he clears the mist bah. =]Originally posted by Superdude2004:A good friend of mine is getting on my nerves. What happened was this.
There was one day i noticed something was amiss with this friend of mine, so I went up to ask him what was wrong. His reply was that he was ignoring me because he thought that I was angry with him. But I was not angry with him, nor did he offended me. He told me since I was not angry, than it is ok.
So I wanted to know what did I do to let him feel that I was angry with him with him but he did not want to tell me why. I pestered him for the reason but he did not want to tell me. But the problem was that his attitude towards me did not change. This is very frustrating to me. I tried to reconcile with him telling him that if there was anything that I have done that haveoffended him, I was sorry.
I just felt that if there was a problem, it is better to talk face to face and thrash it out. What is the use of him running away from the problem and ignoring me? I tried talking to him or asking him out, he just waved away my good intentions. I just felt very hurt by his actions, and he does not even bother about how I feel. I just feel very frustrated.