to those who don't have a gf/bf...
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to those who don't have a gf/bf:
do you think you can be a better than those who have steads right now?
example your friend is having a lousy relationship with another girl...you think you will be able to handle this situation better than your friends?
why so? -
My biking and studies come first.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:to those who don't have a gf/bf:
do you think you can be a better than those who have steads right now?
example your friend is having a lousy relationship with another girl...you think you will be able to handle this situation better than your friends?
why so?
sorry. -
This is quite subjective, like comparing apples and oranges, in my opinion..
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sometimes as by standers...we often give our views on how people should handle their relationship...what we would do if we were in their shoes...Originally posted by ^spidee^:This is quite subjective, like comparing apples and oranges, in my opinion..
if given the chance...would u wanna be in his shoes?
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sometimes it's better and happier to be single than to be in a r/s where you are not happyOriginally posted by R3SsH|n:to those who don't have a gf/bf:
do you think you can be a better than those who have steads right now?
example your friend is having a lousy relationship with another girl...you think you will be able to handle this situation better than your friends?
why so? -
I feel that it's easy to give our views, but if we were in their shoes, the situation would probably be very different. So it depends on the parties involved I suppose, can swing either way. Why? You got some relationship problems?Originally posted by R3SsH|n:sometimes as by standers...we often give our views on how people should handle their relationship...what we would do if we were in their shoes...
if given the chance...would u wanna be in his shoes? -
x 2.Originally posted by dokono:sometimes it's better and happier to be single than to be in a r/s where you are not happy
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not mi not miOriginally posted by ^spidee^:I feel that it's easy to give our views, but if we were in their shoes, the situation would probably be very different. So it depends on the parties involved I suppose, can swing either way. Why? You got some relationship problems?
just that a fren of mine got into some r/s problem...i was wondering what i would do if i was in her position... -
i always thought i could do better... and I did. Until this afternoon where I did the unthinkable.
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I see.. so what's your conclusion?Originally posted by R3SsH|n:not mi not mi
just that a fren of mine got into some r/s problem...i was wondering what i would do if i was in her position... -
don't knowOriginally posted by ^spidee^:I see.. so what's your conclusion?
thats why i come AA to ask la... -
why don't you post the problem? see what others think..Originally posted by R3SsH|n:don't know
thats why i come AA to ask la... -
sometimes it's better not to be in a relationship...
saves u all the heartache...
see > http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=208932 -
Lurker! Why never contribute?Originally posted by GHoST_18:sometimes it's better not to be in a relationship...
saves u all the heartache...
see > http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=208932 -
must contribue ah...?Originally posted by ^spidee^:Lurker! Why never contribute? 
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Originally posted by ^spidee^:Lurker! Why never contribute?
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its not really the problem...but how we often deal with giving advises to others...maybe i getting to engross in giving people advice...Originally posted by ^spidee^:why don't you post the problem? see what others think.. 
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what works for u...
might not work for others...
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agreed.Originally posted by GHoST_18:what works for u...
might not work for others...
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It's like a surgeon performing an operation and one being operated on...Originally posted by R3SsH|n:its not really the problem...but how we often deal with giving advises to others...maybe i getting to engross in giving people advice...
Do you really think that often the surgeon would feel more of the pain, worries and dilemma that could be harbouring within the patient? -
be single so dun owe anyone any explanation.......
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of cuz..
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good analogy!Originally posted by Devil1976:It's like a surgeon performing an operation and one being operated on...
Do you really think that often the surgeon would feel more of the pain, worries and dilemma that could be harbouring within the patient? -
really really depends on case to case basis... but when dealing with situations in relationships.. there is never really a right or wrong most of the time... depends of the personality of each party..Originally posted by R3SsH|n:to those who don't have a gf/bf:
do you think you can be a better than those who have steads right now?
example your friend is having a lousy relationship with another girl...you think you will be able to handle this situation better than your friends?
why so? -
Single or Attached......
There will always be something we might miss out in either status...... we learn to appreciate happiness more when theres pain...... take things as they come.
Im learning too...