Do you think its
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Right to test friendship?? I have a lot of insecurities about my ITE ex classmates as well as Poly...I just feel as if they are sterotyping me at the back for their own gains...
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wat's the point of testing?
so what if they are really stereotyping u or not? can u do anything? -
Yea i cant do anything...Nothing at all... Why am i so bothered in the 1st place...I also dont know... Sometimes i do think it is my character...
Hot temperedness and Being very vinidicative... Always have this tendency of making things Right... People say things about me, Whether it is crticisms or Insults...I take things like a brick thrown to my head... When a person say something bad about me...I will tend to scold them till very bad... -
I know myself...I have a Very bad attitude...Sometimes when you try to change... theres no discipline in it...
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If you are all talk and no walk, no matter how many advices comes in, none wil be applicable to you. Acknowledge that this issue is hampering your progress and DO something about it instead of whining about it blindly.
I have a friend who did that and no matter how many advices my friends and I gave to him, he would only say, "Ya hor... yes, yes... Maybe I shld do dat..." BUT he never even bother to do anything, and he is still stuck at the same situation he was. All that was produced was saliva, saliva and MORE saliva.
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your true friends emerge during times of hardship... why not look back @ the times where you were in trouble and see who stuck with you and who abandoned you....Originally posted by Seth35:Right to test friendship?? I have a lot of insecurities about my ITE ex classmates as well as Poly...I just feel as if they are sterotyping me at the back for their own gains...
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for this kinda friends,use them to ur own gainOriginally posted by Seth35:Right to test friendship?? I have a lot of insecurities about my ITE ex classmates as well as Poly...I just feel as if they are sterotyping me at the back for their own gains...
There are certain things i said for the purpose of testing...
they are highly unlikey to be loyal to u so play polictics
know that different ppl have different talents
use them to ur advantage and bring u to a higher level
like seeking those who can help u in studies or using the stronger peeps to backstab ur enemy in a diplomatic way
o well...one has to be ruthlessto survive in such cruel enviroment -
test too much will break one.
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Some of these people i find very childish also ba...
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its not a friendship if you need to test. just break away if you feel uncomfortable.
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haha +1 to dat. bt testing of frendship....this kinda things dnt need to test. Use ur feelings. I believe dat the way ppl treat u is the way u treat ppl somtimes..on top of using feelings to treat ppl...juz my experience with ppl....Originally posted by browniebaobao:wat's the point of testing?
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[Mod msg] Hi Seth,
I advise that you should post your problems in your previous thread.
Threads already started in Aunt Agony:- How you deal with these kind of people...
Advice Again needed...
How to be not Emotional ?
Why ?
Will i Die If
How to solve ??
To all Guys
Why (part 2)
Do you Girls Do this ?
Please look through the existing threads of yours and post accordingly?
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reading frm your past posts, there's definately something wrg about you yourself.
go recap on what you had done and why this is happening to you because this is certainly better then whining here and have nth accomplished.