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Why when a girl knows that u like her, she will just be stressed and even don't wish to talk to you for weeks/months? Will it turn out to be no more friendship from then onwards? Worse still, is that didn't even tell her. Is she sense it only and confirm with her other friends.
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how old is she? if she doesn't like you, she will hold back and judge you. You will be surprised how sharp girls are at detecting how much you like them.Originally posted by sgboy:Why when a girl knows that u like her, she will just be stressed and even don't wish to talk to you for weeks/months? Will it turn out to be no more friendship from then onwards? Worse still, is that didn't even tell her. Is she sense it only and confirm with her other friends. -
not every girl is like that.Originally posted by sgboy:Why when a girl knows that u like her, she will just be stressed and even don't wish to talk to you for weeks/months? Will it turn out to be no more friendship from then onwards? Worse still, is that didn't even tell her. Is she sense it only and confirm with her other friends.
perhaps it came to her too sudden and she could not accept it.
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sounds like pretty childish behaviour to me... secondary school i presume?Originally posted by sgboy:Why when a girl knows that u like her, she will just be stressed and even don't wish to talk to you for weeks/months? Will it turn out to be no more friendship from then onwards? Worse still, is that didn't even tell her. Is she sense it only and confirm with her other friends. -
hais..dun worry la...as previous replies...give her time..its the same case for me and my ex but eventually we were still together....
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Means she not intreested in u loh.
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Girls are very sharp in detecting signs of attraction one has for her. So, if your actions or behavior are too abvious, then she might hold back. Relax...
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But why? Firstly, I didn't tell her that I like her in the first place. She is the one sensing it and asked my other friend whether is it true or not. Then she didn't approach me. I know that it is difficult for her to approach me. But when I tried to approach her, she keep a distance away from me and do not wish to talk about this matter.
Eventually when I tried to SMS her, she told me not to call or msg her unless special reasons. What does that means? Does it means give her some time or no frienship anymore?
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Did u tell her u like her ? And if u did.. did she say she only likes u as a friend ? What is it exactly did u do or say.. or just she hear from someone u llike her.
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if u know a gal tat u will never like(whether looks or attitude) become interested in u, will u still want to see her....?Originally posted by sgboy:Why when a girl knows that u like her, she will just be stressed and even don't wish to talk to you for weeks/months? Will it turn out to be no more friendship from then onwards? Worse still, is that didn't even tell her. Is she sense it only and confirm with her other friends. -
the gal not interested in you so she is avoiding you not to give you any false hope.
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1.she kept her distance from youOriginally posted by sgboy:But why? Firstly, I didn't tell her that I like her in the first place. She is the one sensing it and asked my other friend whether is it true or not. Then she didn't approach me. I know that it is difficult for her to approach me. But when I tried to approach her, she keep a distance away from me and do not wish to talk about this matter.
Eventually when I tried to SMS her, she told me not to call or msg her unless special reasons. What does that means? Does it means give her some time or no frienship anymore?
2.she told you not to call or msg her
The above 2 reasons are enough to tell you she has no interest in you. Next one. From now on, jus say hi and and smile. Other than that, she gets nothing more from you. She doesn't like you. Why should you like someone who doesn't like you? Right? Have your pride back.
You can give her a lot of time, all the way until you are 100 years old, see if she contacted you but she already made it very clear to you. Just get the hint. She just can't say NO in your face. She is scared you will be hurt from the remark.
The earlier she cut you off the better you can then focus more time on liking other girls. There are so many good girls out there. ok?
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woot!Originally posted by sgboy:But why? Firstly, I didn't tell her that I like her in the first place. She is the one sensing it and asked my other friend whether is it true or not. Then she didn't approach me. I know that it is difficult for her to approach me. But when I tried to approach her, she keep a distance away from me and do not wish to talk about this matter.
Eventually when I tried to SMS her, she told me not to call or msg her unless special reasons. What does that means? Does it means give her some time or no frienship anymore? 
what did u sms her about ar?
Have you found out whether she is attached or does she have someone in mind already?
Her reaction is kinda strong leh..
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I did not tell her that I like her. Is just that she sensed it and confirmed with my friends. At first, she say need sometime to let everything cool down and can be friends again. That's all..... I just want to maintain the friendship and nothing else.
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how long has she been avoiding you?Originally posted by sgboy:I did not tell her that I like her. Is just that she sensed it and confirmed with my friends. At first, she say need sometime to let everything cool down and can be friends again. That's all..... I just want to maintain the friendship and nothing else. -
Only this week.Originally posted by browniebaobao:how long has she been avoiding you?
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do the same to her and u'll find it helps.Originally posted by sgboy:Only this week.
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I do not want this friendship to end. If I want it to end, then I will just ignore everything. I do not want... I treasure this friendship a lot.Originally posted by yuko-ogura:do the same to her and u'll find it helps.
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no.Originally posted by sgboy:I do not want this friendship to end. If I want it to end, then I will just ignore everything. I do not want... I treasure this friendship a lot.
im not telling u to ignore her.
all u have to do is reduce or even stop sms-ing her for the time being
more imptly for now, treat her like how u treat other girls in ur class.(dun tell mi u msg every other girl and shower them wif care in ur class?
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wad the both of u need now is time.
time to cool down.
and, time for any rumours to subside.
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perhaps u should leave her alone this week..
doesnt matter if u cant sms/call her..
write her an email or letter (get her fren to pass it to her) and explain lor.
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Well.. you want to treat her as a friend..but does she treat you as a friend? You want to be her friend so that you can chase her right? You want to have every ounce of hope right? Sad to say, all along she only treated you as a friend and now when she sensed that you wanted to chase her she is not used to it.Originally posted by sgboy:I do not want this friendship to end. If I want it to end, then I will just ignore everything. I do not want... I treasure this friendship a lot.
Your only best hope is to leave her alone and dun take it too personally. The key to girls is not to take them too personally. Just stay cool and be in control. Dun show that you are affected. The more you try to press for it, the worse it becomes.
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hmm diff ppl diff reaction. Just like when u add coke n mentos u get water-works. bt when u add salt n water it becomes salt water -.-'''Originally posted by sgboy:Why when a girl knows that u like her, she will just be stressed and even don't wish to talk to you for weeks/months? Will it turn out to be no more friendship from then onwards? Worse still, is that didn't even tell her. Is she sense it only and confirm with her other friends.
Bt shouldnt have a problem maintaining de frendship bah...unless ure those scary stalkers..... -.-